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Just wanted to add one more important point that might affect your decision - if your ex-husband remarries, it won't impact your eligibility for divorced spouse benefits or survivor benefits at all. His new marriage has zero effect on your benefits as long as YOU remain unmarried. I mention this because I see a lot of people worry unnecessarily about what their ex does after divorce. The 10+ year marriage rule protects your rights regardless of his future relationships. Also, since you mentioned having kids together - if any of your children are still under 18 (or disabled), they might be eligible for benefits on their father's SSDI record too. That's a separate benefit that doesn't reduce what you could get. Good luck with your SSA appointment! Having all the numbers will really help you make the best choice for your situation.
Thank you so much for that additional information! That's really reassuring to know that his future marriage status won't affect my benefits. Our youngest is 19 and in college, so unfortunately no longer eligible for dependent benefits. I really appreciate everyone's help in this thread. It's clear I need to get those specific calculations from SSA, but having all this background information will help me ask the right questions and understand what they tell me. This community is so valuable for navigating these complex situations!
I'm glad you're taking the time to research this thoroughly before making a decision! As someone who went through a similar situation with my ex-spouse's SSDI benefits, I wanted to add that when you meet with the SSA representative, make sure to ask about the "protected filing date" concept. If you're leaning toward waiting but are concerned about missing out on benefits, you can sometimes file a protective claim that establishes your filing date while you gather more information. This can be especially helpful if you're close to a birthday that might affect your benefit calculations. Also, don't be discouraged if the first representative you speak with seems unsure about divorced spouse benefits - unfortunately, not all SSA staff are equally knowledgeable about these more complex situations. If you don't feel confident in the answers you receive, it's perfectly acceptable to request to speak with a supervisor or schedule another appointment. One last tip: bring a copy of your divorce decree that shows the exact marriage dates. Sometimes there can be confusion about whether you truly meet the 10-year requirement, especially if there were separations before the final divorce.
What an absolutely amazing outcome! 🎉 This is such a perfect example of why it's so important to not panic when these unexpected payments happen. The fact that your CDR triggered them to discover the self-employment income miscalculation is incredible - and that monthly increase of $428 is going to be life-changing! I'm so glad you took everyone's advice to call rather than just worrying about it. This whole thread has been so educational for those of us navigating SSDI. Thank you for taking the time to update us with the good news - it really gives hope to others who might find themselves in similar situations!
This is absolutely incredible news! 🎉 As someone who's just starting to learn about SSDI processes, this entire thread has been so eye-opening. I had no idea that continuing disability reviews could uncover calculation errors like this, or that self-employment income could be missed in the original calculations. Your experience shows how important it is to not panic when unexpected things happen with SSA - and to actually call them even when it's intimidating. That $23,475 backpay plus the ongoing $428 monthly increase must feel like winning the lottery! Thank you so much for sharing your whole journey and updating us with the resolution. Stories like this give me confidence that if I ever face confusing SSA situations, there might be positive explanations I wouldn't think of on my own.
Wow, what an incredible journey and outcome! 🎉 As someone completely new to understanding SSDI processes, this entire thread has been absolutely fascinating and educational. I had no idea that continuing disability reviews could trigger such thorough file reviews that uncover calculation errors going back years. The fact that they missed your self-employment income from 2016-2019 and then corrected it with such a substantial backpay amount is amazing - and that ongoing monthly increase of $428 is just the cherry on top! Your experience really highlights how important it is not to panic when unexpected things happen with SSA, even though the initial fear is totally understandable. Thank you so much for taking the time to update us with the resolution - stories like this are incredibly valuable for those of us trying to navigate these systems and give real hope that sometimes the bureaucracy actually works in our favor, even if it takes time. Congratulations on this life-changing correction! 🙌
This is such an inspiring outcome! As someone who's completely new to the SSDI world, I'm amazed by how this whole situation unfolded. The fact that a routine continuing disability review could lead to discovering such a significant calculation error spanning multiple years really shows how complex these systems can be. Your initial panic was so relatable - I would have been terrified too seeing that kind of unexpected deposit! But what a relief and blessing that it turned out to be money you were rightfully owed all along. That $428 monthly increase is going to make such a meaningful difference in your day-to-day life. Thank you for being so open about sharing this journey from start to finish - it's incredibly valuable for newcomers like me to see real examples of how these situations can work out positively, even when they seem scary at first. Congratulations on finally getting what you deserved! 🎉
One more important detail - when planning your strategy, remember that your own retirement benefit continues to grow until age 70 (at 8% per year after FRA), but survivor benefits do NOT grow after your FRA. This means there's no advantage to delaying widow benefits past your full retirement age of 67. In your case, taking reduced widow benefits at 60, then switching to your own benefit at 67 (or even 70 for maximum growth) is likely the optimal strategy given the benefit amounts you mentioned. At age 70, your own benefit would be about $3,472/month compared to the $3,200 survivor benefit at FRA.
I'm so sorry for your loss, Michael. Losing a spouse is incredibly difficult, and trying to navigate Social Security on top of grief is overwhelming. You're absolutely right to be confused - the SSA website is not user-friendly at all! But the good news is that you DO qualify for widow benefits regardless of your own benefit amount. The 50% rule only applies to spousal benefits while both spouses are alive, not survivor benefits. Your strategy of taking reduced widow benefits at 60 and switching to your own higher benefit at 67 is actually textbook perfect for your situation. You'll get about $2,288/month in reduced widow benefits ($3,200 x 71.5%) for 7 years, then switch to your own $2,800/month at 67. If you wait until 70 to claim your own benefit, it would grow to about $3,472/month. The key is making sure SSA processes everything correctly when you switch. As others mentioned, get everything in writing and follow up to confirm the change went through. You've got this!
I went through something similar when my husband passed in 2022. One thing that helped me was creating a spreadsheet to track my monthly earnings and projected totals. Since you're earning $58K annually, your January-June earnings would be around $29K, which should be well under the 2025 earnings limit (probably around $59K based on the 2024 limit of $56,520). However, I'd strongly recommend calling SSA or visiting your local office to get a personalized calculation. They can run the numbers based on your specific situation and give you a clearer picture of whether filing in March would trigger any benefit reductions. The "pre-adjudication" service mentioned earlier might be worth looking into as well. Also consider that even if you do go over the earnings limit slightly, the reduction is temporary - you'll get those benefits back when you reach FRA through higher monthly payments. Sometimes it's still worth filing early even with a small penalty, especially if you need the income.
This is really helpful advice, especially the suggestion about creating a spreadsheet to track earnings! I'm definitely going to do that. The point about getting those benefits back later through higher monthly payments is something I hadn't fully understood - that makes me feel better about potentially filing in March. I think I'll try to get through to SSA for that personalized calculation you mentioned, even if it means using one of those callback services. Thanks for taking the time to share your experience!
I'm so sorry for your loss. Based on what others have shared, it sounds like you might actually be okay filing in March since your January-June earnings ($29K) would likely be under the 2025 limit. But I wanted to add something I learned when my mom went through this - make sure to ask SSA about the monthly earnings test option too. In addition to the annual earnings limit, there's also a monthly test that can sometimes be more favorable if your earnings vary throughout the year. For any month where you earn less than 1/12th of the annual limit (so probably under $4,900/month for 2025), you can receive your full survivor benefit for that month regardless of your annual total. This might give you more flexibility if you have any lower-earning months or can time things like bonuses or vacation payouts. Definitely worth asking about when you call SSA!
Anna Kerber
As someone who recently went through a similar maze with SSA, I wanted to add a few practical tips that helped me navigate this process. First, when you call for that Technical Expert appointment, ask them to send you a written summary of your options afterward - this prevents the "three different answers" problem you mentioned. Second, regarding the SGA limit concern, don't reduce your hours immediately without understanding your Trial Work Period status first. You may have unused TWP months that protect you. Third, I found it helpful to create a simple spreadsheet comparing the lifetime value of different benefit strategies - taking the lower benefit early vs waiting for the higher one. The break-even analysis really clarified things for me. Also, if your local office is booked 4 months out, try calling other offices in your region - they can often handle your case remotely. Finally, document everything! Keep records of every call, every representative you speak with, and every piece of advice given. This will be invaluable when you're trying to piece together your optimal strategy. The system is complex, but with persistence and the right expert guidance, you can maximize your benefits. Hang in there!
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Asher Levin
•This is incredibly helpful advice! I'm also navigating Social Security complexities as a newcomer to these issues, and your practical tips are exactly what I needed to hear. The idea of requesting a written summary is brilliant - I've been struggling with getting consistent information from different representatives. Your point about checking Trial Work Period status before making any income changes is crucial too. I hadn't thought about calling other regional offices if my local one is booked out. Quick question: when you created that spreadsheet for lifetime benefit analysis, did you factor in cost of living adjustments (COLAs) for future years, or just work with today's dollar amounts? Also, did you find any particular online resources or tools that helped with the break-even calculations, or did you build it from scratch? Thanks for sharing your experience - it's reassuring to know others have successfully navigated this maze!
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Niko Ramsey
As a newcomer to this community, I'm finding this thread incredibly valuable! I'm 64 and currently receiving SSDI after a back injury two years ago. My situation is a bit different - I'm unmarried and don't have survivor benefits to consider, but I'm also working part-time (carefully staying under the SGA limit after reading these comments!). What I'm wondering is: since my disability will automatically convert to retirement benefits at my FRA (67), should I be doing anything now to prepare for that transition? Will the amount stay exactly the same, or could there be changes? Also, for those who mentioned the Trial Work Period - does SSA track those months automatically, or do I need to keep my own records? I've been reporting my earnings through their app, but I want to make sure I'm not accidentally using up TWP months without realizing it. The advice about requesting a Technical Expert appointment is gold - I've been getting the runaround from regular representatives too. Thank you all for sharing your experiences and expertise!
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Amelia Dietrich
•Welcome to the community! Your situation sounds very manageable since you don't have the added complexity of survivor benefits to navigate. Regarding your disability-to-retirement conversion at 67, the amount should stay exactly the same - it's really just a label change from "disability" to "retirement" benefits. As for Trial Work Period months, SSA does track these automatically based on your reported earnings, but I'd strongly recommend keeping your own records as a backup. A TWP month is triggered when you earn over a certain threshold (around $1,050 for 2025, much lower than the SGA limit). Since you're being careful to stay under SGA, you're in good shape, but definitely ask about your TWP status when you meet with that Technical Expert. One thing to consider: if you're currently 64 and will reach FRA at 67, you have time to plan. You might want to explore whether your retirement benefit would be higher if you waited until age 70 - those delayed retirement credits can add up significantly. The Technical Expert can run those projections for you. Great job staying informed and asking the right questions!
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