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I'm so sorry for your loss, Ella. I went through this same process about 18 months ago when my wife passed. You definitely cannot apply online for survivor benefits - it has to be done by phone or in person. The most frustrating part is getting through on the phone. I found that calling right when they open at 7am local time gave me the best chance of getting through without waiting hours. Also, make sure you have your husband's Social Security number handy when you call, as they'll need it right away to pull up his record. Once you do get an appointment, the actual process was much smoother than I expected - the representative was very compassionate and walked me through everything step by step. Hang in there, and don't hesitate to ask questions during your appointment.
Thank you for sharing your experience and the tip about calling at 7am - that's really practical advice! I've been trying to call during lunch breaks and after work, which probably explains why I keep getting busy signals. I'll try calling first thing in the morning instead. It's reassuring to hear that once you get past the phone hurdle, the actual appointment goes smoothly. I really appreciate everyone here sharing their experiences during what I know must have been difficult times for all of you.
I'm so sorry for your loss, Ella. I went through this exact situation when my father passed away two years ago. You're right that survivor benefits cannot be applied for online - it's one of the few SSA benefits that still requires a phone call or in-person visit. What worked for me was calling the national SSA number (1-800-772-1213) at exactly 8:00 AM on a Tuesday. I had better luck midweek rather than Mondays or Fridays. Also, have a pen and paper ready because they'll give you a confirmation number for your appointment that you'll need. The waiting time for appointments can be 3-4 weeks depending on your area, so don't get discouraged if they can't see you right away. Once you do get your appointment, the process itself was actually straightforward and the representative was very helpful in explaining all my options. Take care of yourself during this difficult time.
Thank you so much for the specific timing advice about calling at 8 AM on Tuesdays! That's exactly the kind of practical tip I needed. I've been getting so frustrated with the busy signals, but it makes sense that midweek would be less busy than Mondays or Fridays. I'll definitely have my pen ready for that confirmation number too. It's comforting to know that even though getting the appointment is the hard part, the actual process is manageable once you get there. I really appreciate you taking the time to share your experience - it helps so much to hear from people who have actually been through this.
Based on what you've shared about your income ($65,000) and age (turning 60), here's my recommendation: 1. Since you're substantially over the earnings limit, most or all of your survivor benefits would be withheld until you reach FRA or reduce your work hours. 2. You might consider waiting to apply until either: - You're closer to retirement or reducing hours, OR - You reach FRA when the earnings test no longer applies 3. If you decide to apply anyway, January would be slightly better than December for tax purposes, but the earnings test impact would be far more significant than any tax difference. 4. Remember that the reduction for taking survivor benefits early is permanent, but if your own retirement benefit at 70 would be higher than your survivor benefit at FRA, there might still be a strategy in taking reduced survivor benefits for a period and then switching.
This has been eye-opening. I think I need to completely reconsider my strategy. I had no idea about the earnings test and how it would basically eliminate my benefits while I'm still working at this income level. I'll need to do some calculations to see if it makes more sense to wait until my FRA or when I cut back my hours. Thank you all for preventing me from making what could have been a big mistake!
I'm so glad you found this thread before making your decision! I went through something similar when my spouse passed two years ago. The earnings test is definitely the biggest factor most people don't know about upfront. One thing that helped me was scheduling a consultation with SSA just to understand all my options without actually filing yet. They can run the numbers for you based on your specific situation - your current earnings, your deceased spouse's work record, and your own projected retirement benefit. Also consider that even though the reduction for taking survivor benefits early is permanent, if your own retirement benefit would be significantly higher, you could potentially use survivor benefits as a "bridge" later when you do reduce your work hours, then switch to your own record at 70 when it reaches maximum value. But with your income level, that strategy might not work until you're closer to retirement anyway. The grief support group you mentioned might have other members who've navigated this - it really helps to talk to people who've been through the whole process!
Thank you so much for this thoughtful response! The idea of scheduling a consultation with SSA just to understand my options without filing is brilliant - I hadn't thought of that approach. You're absolutely right about talking to others in my grief support group who might have gone through this. The "bridge" strategy you mentioned is really interesting too. My own retirement benefit should be quite good since I've been working steadily for decades, so maybe that's worth exploring once I'm ready to reduce my hours. It sounds like timing really is everything with these decisions. I'm feeling much more informed now thanks to everyone's input. This community has been incredibly helpful during what's already such a difficult time.
Just to summarize everything for others who might have similar questions: Your pension absolutely does NOT count toward the Social Security earnings limit - only wages and self-employment income count. At $16,000/year from part-time work, you're well under the 2025 limit of $22,680. However, do keep in mind a few things: 1) Your pension WILL count toward determining if your SS benefits are taxable (up to 85% can be taxed), 2) Check if WEP/GPO applies to your state pension as that could reduce your SS benefit amount, and 3) Consider the tax withholding options when you apply. Sounds like you're in good shape to start collecting in June!
This is such a helpful summary! As someone new to navigating all these Social Security rules, I really appreciate how you broke down all the different considerations. The distinction between what counts for the earnings limit vs. what counts for taxation vs. WEP/GPO is exactly the kind of clarity I was looking for. It's amazing how many different rules there are to keep track of!
Great question! I'm approaching 65 myself and had similar concerns. Just wanted to add that it's worth double-checking with SSA about your specific state pension to make sure WEP doesn't apply. Some state employees paid into Social Security for part of their career and some didn't, which affects whether WEP reduces your benefits. You can use the WEP calculator on the SSA website to get an estimate. Also, since you mentioned your FRA is 66 and 10 months, you might want to run the numbers on waiting vs. taking benefits early - the monthly reduction for taking at 65 instead of FRA could be significant over your lifetime. But sounds like you've got the earnings limit part figured out thanks to everyone's great advice!
This is really valuable advice about checking the WEP calculator! I hadn't thought about the lifetime impact of the monthly reduction from taking benefits early vs. waiting until FRA. That's definitely something I should calculate before making my final decision. Do you happen to know if the WEP calculator takes into account mixed careers where you paid into SS for some years and not others? I worked in the private sector for about 15 years before my state job, so I'm hoping that might help my situation.
I'm also facing this same timing decision and wanted to share something I learned from my local SSA office visit last week. The representative emphasized that when you're born in January of any year, you actually reach your birthday month age on the first day of that month for Social Security purposes. So if you were born in January 1958, you're considered to reach age 66 on January 1, 2024, and then your additional 10 months would put your FRA at November 1, 2024. What really helped me understand this was asking the SSA rep to show me exactly how they calculate it in their system. She pulled up my record and walked through it step by step. This might be worth doing if you have any lingering doubts - even though it can be hard to get through on the phone, visiting a local office (with an appointment if possible) can give you that face-to-face confirmation. One more tip - when I was there, she showed me how the online application has a "preview" feature before you submit where you can see exactly what benefits will start when. Use that preview to double-check everything looks right before hitting submit!
That's really valuable insight about visiting the local SSA office! I hadn't thought about making an appointment to have someone walk through the calculation in person, but that sounds like it would eliminate any remaining confusion. The preview feature tip is also great - I definitely want to use that to double-check everything before submitting. It's reassuring to know that they can show you exactly how it calculates in their system. I might try to schedule a visit just to have that extra peace of mind, especially since this is such an important decision. Thanks for sharing what you learned!
This thread has been incredibly educational! I'm in a similar boat - born January 1958 with an FRA of 66 and 10 months. Reading everyone's experiences has really helped clarify the process. One thing I wanted to add that I learned from my financial advisor - if you're married and your spouse will eventually claim spousal benefits on your record, starting your benefits right at FRA (rather than delaying) can actually be beneficial because it establishes your Primary Insurance Amount for their spousal benefit calculation. Delaying your own benefits past FRA increases YOUR monthly payment but doesn't increase the spousal benefit amount your spouse could receive. This might not apply to everyone's situation, but it's worth considering if spousal benefits are part of your household's retirement strategy. Just another piece of the puzzle to think about when timing your application! Thanks to everyone who shared their experiences - it's so helpful to hear from people who have actually been through this process successfully.
That's a really important point about spousal benefits that I hadn't considered! My spouse is several years younger than me, so we'll definitely need to factor that into our planning. It's interesting that delaying past FRA helps your own benefit but doesn't increase what your spouse could eventually receive - that definitely changes the calculation for married couples. I really appreciate you bringing up the financial planning angle. This whole thread has been so much more helpful than trying to figure this out on my own. It's clear that there are a lot of nuances to consider beyond just the basic timing of when to apply. Thanks for adding another valuable piece to the puzzle!
Dominic Green
This has been such an informative thread! As someone approaching a similar decision, I wanted to share a resource that might help with the planning process. The SSA has a "Retirement Estimator" tool on their website that lets you input different claiming ages and earnings scenarios to see how they affect your benefits. You can model claiming at 64 vs waiting until FRA, and even factor in continued earnings. It's been really helpful for me to visualize the trade-offs between getting benefits earlier (but reduced) versus waiting for the full amount. The tool also shows you the break-even point - basically how long you'd need to live to make waiting worthwhile financially. Of course, everyone's situation is different and there are factors beyond just the math (like needing the income now, health considerations, etc.), but it's nice to have the numbers to work with when making such an important decision.
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Zoe Alexopoulos
•Thanks for mentioning the Retirement Estimator tool! I just tried it out and it's incredibly helpful for visualizing different scenarios. What really surprised me was seeing the actual break-even analysis - it showed that if I claim at 64 versus waiting until my FRA of 67, I'd need to live past age 78 for waiting to be financially beneficial. Given that I'm healthy and my family has good longevity, that's definitely something to consider. The tool also confirmed what others mentioned about the earnings test impact - it showed how my benefits would be temporarily reduced if I earn above the threshold, but then adjusted back up at FRA. Having all these numbers laid out really helps cut through the confusion. I think I'm leaning more toward waiting until FRA now, especially since the tool shows my monthly benefit would be about $400 higher per month if I wait those 3 years.
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Chloe Martin
This thread has been incredibly helpful for understanding the complexities of claiming early while continuing to work! I'm in a similar situation - turning 62 next year and considering my options. One thing I haven't seen mentioned yet is the impact of claiming early on spousal benefits. If you're married, your spouse's potential spousal benefit is based on YOUR full retirement age benefit amount, not the reduced amount you'd get by claiming at 64. So claiming early doesn't just affect your own benefits - it could impact your spouse's options too. Also, if you're the higher earner, your claiming decision affects the survivor benefit your spouse would receive. Just another layer to consider when weighing the decision between claiming early versus waiting for FRA. The break-even analysis is important, but for married couples, you really need to look at the household's total lifetime benefits, not just your individual benefit stream.
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Layla Sanders
•This is such an important point that often gets overlooked! I'm married and my wife is 3 years younger, so this definitely adds another dimension to my decision. I hadn't fully considered how my claiming strategy would affect her potential spousal and survivor benefits. It sounds like even if I'm eager to start collecting, waiting until my FRA could benefit both of us in the long run. Do you know if there are any good resources for running these household-level benefit scenarios? The SSA calculators seem focused on individual benefits, but it would be helpful to see the combined impact on both spouses over our lifetimes.
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