Waited 3 months for NY unemployment - can't feed my baby or pay rent anymore
Filed for unemployment in April after getting laid off from my construction job. It's now July and my claim is still showing as 'pending' with no updates. I've called the ny unemployment office at least 20 times and when I finally get through (after waiting 2+ hours), they just tell me to 'wait for a letter' and that there's nothing they can do to speed things up. Meanwhile I've got a 5 month old baby at home, I'm 2 months behind on rent, and literally scraping together change to buy formula. My electricity is about to get shut off next week. I don't know what to do anymore. How are people supposed to survive like this? Does anyone know how to actually get this resolved or at least talk to someone who can help?
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Dmitry Volkov
same boat man. been waiting since May with no movement. its criminal how they treat ppl. like we dont have bills and mouths to feed.
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Sofia Martinez
Yeah it's crazy. Have you been able to get through to anyone on the phone? I've been hung up on twice after waiting for hours 😡
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Dmitry Volkov
i got thru twice. first time they said 'its processing' and second time they said 'we dont see any issues' but still nothing in my account. its like they dont get that we NEED this money right NOW not in 3 more months
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Ava Thompson
Try food banks in ur area. They can help with baby stuff too. Not a solution but it might help u get by until unemployment finally pays up.
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CyberSiren
After 6 weeks of no movement on my claim, I finally found a solution that worked for me. I used this service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me connected to an actual rep in about 30 minutes. The rep saw that my claim had a flag on it for "employment verification" and was able to clear it right there. My payments started showing up 3 days later. Honestly it was the best money I ever spent to get my benefits flowing - saved me from getting evicted. Here's a video explaining how it works: https://youtu.be/Rdqa1gKtxuE
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Miguel Alvarez
sounds like one of those scammy ads... does this actually work? the unemployment system is so broken idk if anything can help at this point
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CyberSiren
It's not a scam - they literally just call for you and connect you when a real person answers. I was skeptical too but I was desperate after not getting through for weeks. They don't handle your claim or anything, just get you past the hold times so you can talk to someone.
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Zainab Yusuf
hold up - so your payments came through after one phone call? thats not how it worked for me AT ALL. i talked to 3 diff reps and still waiting 🤔
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CyberSiren
Yeah but the difference is I finally got to talk to someone who actually FIXED the issue instead of just saying "keep waiting." My claim had a specific problem they could solve once I actually got through to the right department.
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Connor O'Reilly
I tried this last week after seeing someone mention it here. got through to a rep in like 40 min when I'd been trying for DAYS. my back pay is processing now 👍
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Yara Khoury
Contact your state assembly person ASAP!!! This worked for me after waiting 11 weeks. Look up who represents your district and email AND call them explaining your hardship with a baby. They have special channels to expedite claims. My assemblyman's office called me back the same day and had my claim moving within a week.
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Keisha Taylor
I know this doesn't fix your unemployment BUT for your baby please call 211 right away. They can connect you with emergency assistance for formula, diapers, etc. Also check with local churches - many have emergency funds for families with infants. Don't wait on this.
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Sofia Martinez
Thank you, I'll try 211 today. Didn't know about that resource.
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StardustSeeker
Also try WIC if you haven't already! They provide formula and food for babies and pregnant/nursing moms. You can apply even while waiting for unemployment to come through.
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Paolo Marino
The whole NY unemployment system is a fcking joke. They say "we're here to help" but then make it IMPOSSIBLE to actually get help. I waited 4 months last year and almost lost everything. It's designed to frustrate people so they give up. Keep calling EVERY DAY first thing when they open.
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Amina Bah
fr their system is held together with duct tape and prayers 🤣 took me calling 47 times (yes i counted) before someone fixed my claim
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Oliver Becker
This is why I used claimyr.com - got tired of calling hundreds of times with no luck. Finally got through and had my issue fixed in one convo.
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Natasha Petrova
Hey, as someone who works adjacent to the system (not for NYSDOL directly), here's what you need to do to get your claim moving: First, document EVERYTHING. Every call, who you spoke with, date/time. Second, you have 3 paths that actually work: 1) Contact your state assembly person AND state senator (do both). Their constituent services can often break through the logjam. 2) File a formal complaint with the DOL Commissioner's office - this creates a different workflow that sometimes gets priority. 3) Use a service like claimyr.com to guarantee you get through to a live agent rather than spending hours on hold. Also, ask specifically if there are any "outstanding issues" or "flags" on your claim that need to be resolved. Often there's a simple verification needed that the regular reps don't tell you about. For your immediate needs, as others mentioned, call 211, apply for emergency SNAP benefits (you can get them within 7 days if you qualify for expedited processing), and check with your local Community Action Program (CAP) as they often have rental assistance funds. Don't give up - the system is frustrating by design, but there are ways through it.
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Sofia Martinez
Thank you so much for this detailed help. I'm going to try all of these tomorrow morning. Do you know if there's a specific department I should ask for when I finally get through?
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Natasha Petrova
Ask for the Claims Specialist Unit or Claims Examiner. Regular agents have limited access to fix issues. If they say they can't transfer you, ask specifically what the hold-up is on your claim and write it down, then mention that info when contacting your assembly person.
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Javier Hernandez
went thru this EXACT situation back in February. ended up borrowing money from everyone i know just to keep the lights on. NY unemployment is compltely broken and they dont care who suffers. keep calling and eventually someone will help but it took me 14 weeks to get paid.
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Emma Davis
Look into tenant rights in your area!! In NY they cant just evict you without a court process which takes time. Know your rights so you dont get bullied by landlord while waiting for unemployment to come through.
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Sofia Martinez
My landlord's been semi-understanding so far but said he's starting the process next week if I can't pay something. I'll look into the tenant rights though, thanks
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LunarLegend
Even if they start the process, it takes MONTHS to complete an eviction in NY. I'm a housing advocate - message me if you need specific advice for your situation.
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Malik Jackson
DM me your zip code, I might be able to connect you with some resources for baby supplies in your area. My sister runs a diaper bank in Brooklyn.
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Sofia Martinez
Just sent you a message. Thank you so much.
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Isabella Oliveira
Ok this is gonna sound crazy but it WORKED FOR ME. Go on Twitter and tweet @NYSLabor with your issue (don't include personal details). I did this after 7 weeks of nothing and got a DM from them within hours asking for my info. Claim was resolved in 3 days.
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Ravi Patel
this is legit advice 💯 social media pressure works because they hate the bad publicity
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Freya Andersen
I tried this and got nothing but generic responses 🤷♂️ guess it depends who sees your tweet
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Isabella Oliveira
Yeah maybe I got lucky but worth a shot since it's free and takes 2 mins
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Omar Zaki
I waited 3.5 months and what finally worked for me was using claimyr.com to get through to a rep, then when they tried to brush me off I calmly said "I need to speak to a supervisor about filing a formal complaint." Got transferred and the supervisor fixed everything in 10 minutes. Sometimes you gotta be really assertive.
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CosmicCrusader
EXACTLY! Don't take "we can't help" as an answer. Ask for supervisors, case managers, claim examiners. The frontline people often CAN'T help but won't transfer you unless you specifically ask.
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Chloe Robinson
idk if this helps but my friend was in a similar situation and she qualified for emergency assistance through OTDA (Office of Temporary and Disability Assistance). They have something called Emergency Assistance to Families that can help with rent/utilities while you wait for unemployment. good luck man, this system is trash
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