What are the tax implications of married filing separately when spouse has no income but significant student loans?
My partner completed her training as a physical therapist and accumulated around $130k in student debt between her undergraduate and graduate programs. After we got married and had children, she decided to become a stay-at-home parent. The numbers just didn't make sense for her to continue working since most of her salary would've gone to childcare and household help since we both had demanding careers. I earn between $330,000-$380,000 annually as a corporate attorney (depends on my bonus structure), plus we have approximately $25,000 in investment income from dividends and trading. She was on an income-driven repayment plan before the pandemic pause. When loan payments restarted and we went to recertify, her monthly payment skyrocketed to about $2,200 because we file taxes jointly, and they factor in my income. Our itemized deductions last year totaled around $35,000, and this year they'll be closer to $45,000. Our mortgage interest and property taxes make up about $25,000 of that. We also have our oldest child starting private school, which costs $10,000 annually. We don't usually claim charitable deductions for personal reasons. I'm considering having us file married filing separately next year so her loan payments would be calculated based only on her income (which is zero). The problem is I've had withholdings all year based on claiming myself, our two children, and filing jointly. I know I need to consult a CPA eventually, but I'm trying to understand the major downsides of switching to married filing separately at this point. What am I missing?
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Julia Hall
Based on your situation, there are several downsides to filing separately that you should consider. First, you'll lose the ability to claim several tax benefits, including the student loan interest deduction (which is ironic given your motivation), childcare credits, education credits, and the earned income credit. Filing separately also reduces your IRA contribution deduction limits. Second, if you itemize deductions (which you do), your spouse must also itemize even if the standard deduction would be more beneficial. This often results in higher overall taxes. Third, your tax brackets will generally be less favorable when filing separately compared to jointly. At your income level, this could be significant. Fourth, you'll need to carefully allocate your itemized deductions according to IRS rules - some are based on who paid, others on who owns the property, etc. As for your withholding concern, you may face an underpayment penalty if you haven't had enough withheld for your filing status. However, this might be worth it if the student loan savings are substantial.
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Arjun Patel
•But isn't there a way to get around the student loan calculation by filing separately? I heard that if your spouse has no income, their IDR payment would be $0 monthly no matter how much the other spouse makes. Is this accurate?
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Julia Hall
•Yes, that's generally correct. If you file separately, federal student loan servicers typically only look at the borrower's income for IDR plans, not the spouse's. With zero income, your wife would likely qualify for a $0 monthly payment regardless of your earnings. However, there's one important caveat: some states have community property laws that could affect this strategy. In community property states, half of your income might be considered your wife's for federal loan calculations even if you file separately. You'd need to check your state's laws on this.
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Jade Lopez
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Tony Brooks
•How accurate was this tool? I'm always skeptical about tax software that makes big promises. Did the actual numbers match up when you filed?
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Ella rollingthunder87
•Did it take into account state taxes too? I'm in California which is a community property state and I heard that complicates things for MFS filers.
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Jade Lopez
•The accuracy was spot-on - the final numbers were within $200 of what the tool predicted. I was actually surprised since I expected more variation. It accurately identified which deductions and credits we'd lose with MFS. Yes, it does factor in state taxes including community property considerations. I'm in Washington (also a community property state), and the tool correctly adjusted the analysis based on our state rules. It flagged specific deductions that would be allocated differently under community property laws, which was super helpful.
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Ella rollingthunder87
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Yara Campbell
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Isaac Wright
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Maya Diaz
•I tried calling the IRS for THREE DAYS straight about a similar issue and kept getting the "call volume too high" message. No way they can actually get through when the IRS is straight up not accepting calls.
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Yara Campbell
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Maya Diaz
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Tami Morgan
One thing nobody has mentioned yet - if you have any retirement accounts, filing MFS severely limits your ability to contribute to Roth IRAs. The income limit for MFS is only $10,000 before you're completely phased out! Also, if you're doing backdoor Roth conversions, these become much more complicated with MFS status. At your income level, this could actually be a significant long-term financial hit that might offset the student loan savings.
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Evelyn Rivera
•Hadn't even considered the retirement account implications. Do you know if this affects 401k contributions as well? My employer matches up to 6% and I wouldn't want to lose that benefit.
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Tami Morgan
•Your 401k contribution limits actually aren't affected by filing status - you can still contribute the full amount ($23,000 for 2025, plus catch-up contributions if you're eligible) and get your employer match regardless of whether you file jointly or separately. The issue is specifically with IRAs, particularly Roth IRAs where the income limits are drastically lower for MFS. If you're currently doing backdoor Roth IRA conversions, which many high-income professionals do, you'll face additional complexities with MFS status due to the pro-rata rule calculations being done separately, but it's still doable with proper planning.
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Rami Samuels
Has anyone mentioned how this affects your mortgage interest deduction? Since you said that's a big part of your itemized deductions. When my husband and I filed MFS, we had to split that deduction and it got messy real fast.
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Haley Bennett
•Yeah it depends on if they're in a community property state or not. In non-community property states, you generally split based on who paid. In community property, it's usually 50/50 regardless of who paid. Gets complicated fast.
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