Weighing MFJ vs MFS - Which filing status makes more sense for our situation?
Hey all, need some quick advice! I make around $58k and my wife makes about $90k annually. We have a 2-year-old and bought our first house last year. I have about $35k in student loans, but she doesn't have any. We just got married in June 2024. I've been playing around with the numbers and here's what I found: - Filing Married Filing Jointly (MFJ): we get back $425 total (claiming our child, my student loan interest, and the house) - Filing Married Filing Separately (MFS): I get back $4 with our daughter, and she gets back $1,385 claiming the house - If I claim both our daughter AND the house while filing MFS, I get back $1,095 and she would owe the IRS $2 lol (she was NOT happy about potentially owing anything) I'm thinking it makes the most sense for us to file MFS with her claiming the house deductions, right? I'm about 12-15 months away from having my loans forgiven through Public Service Loan Forgiveness (PSLF), so that's a big consideration for me. Would appreciate any thoughts on this! Thanks in advance.
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Sophia Carter
Based on your numbers, filing MFS with your wife claiming the house does seem to make the most financial sense right now. Since you're close to PSLF forgiveness, filing separately is particularly important because your income-driven repayment amount is typically calculated based only on your income when you file separately, not your combined income. Just be aware that filing MFS does come with some limitations - you'll both lose eligibility for several tax benefits like student loan interest deductions, education credits, and the earned income credit. You also both must either itemize or both take the standard deduction. With PSLF just a year away, the loan forgiveness benefit likely outweighs these disadvantages, especially since your numbers show you'd get more back collectively by filing separately. Once your loans are forgiven, you can reassess and likely switch back to MFJ for future years.
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Chloe Zhang
•Thanks for the explanation! I've heard about the student loan interest deduction being unavailable with MFS. Is there any way to estimate how much that's actually costing them? And what about the child tax credit, do they still get that with MFS?
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Sophia Carter
•For the student loan interest deduction, if you're in the 22% tax bracket, the maximum deduction of $2,500 would be worth about $550. But with PSLF on the horizon, having a lower monthly payment that's calculated only on your income will likely save you much more than $550 over the next year. Yes, you can still claim the Child Tax Credit when filing MFS. Just make sure only one of you claims the child - usually the parent with whom the child lived for the greater part of the year or the parent with the higher adjusted gross income if you lived together all year.
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Brandon Parker
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Adriana Cohn
•Does this tool actually work with PSLF specifically? I've tried other calculators before but they didn't account for forgiveness timelines. Also wondering if it helps figure out who should claim the child?
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Jace Caspullo
•Seems sketchy tbh... how do you know they're not just going to sell your financial info? Is it really that much better than just using the IRS's tools or TurboTax?
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Brandon Parker
•Yes, it specifically handles PSLF scenarios! It asks for your loan balance, how many qualifying payments you've made so far, and your expected forgiveness date. Then it calculates how much you'll save by filing separately for the remaining months until forgiveness. It also helps determine optimal dependent claiming strategies based on your specific situation. Regarding data security, they don't store your personal financial information. The calculations happen in your browser, and they use the same level of encryption as banks. I was hesitant at first too, but it's much more specialized for student loan forgiveness situations than general tax software like TurboTax, which doesn't really help with PSLF strategy at all.
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Jace Caspullo
Just wanted to update everyone - I was skeptical about specialized tax tools, but I finally tried https://taxr.ai after struggling with this exact MFJ vs MFS decision due to my federal student loans. The calculator showed me I'd save around $4,200 over the next 14 months by filing separately, even after accounting for the lost tax benefits! What really helped was seeing the month-by-month payment reduction until my forgiveness date. I didn't realize my income-driven payments would drop by that much. The tool also showed that having my spouse claim both our house and our younger child while I claimed our older child gave us the optimal outcome. Now I'm just mad I didn't know about this for last year's taxes!
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Melody Miles
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Nathaniel Mikhaylov
•How does this even work? I thought it was impossible to get through to the IRS these days. Is this some kind of paid service that jumps the queue somehow?
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Eva St. Cyr
•Yeah right... as if a service can magically get you through to the IRS faster than anyone else. The IRS phone system is the same for everyone. Sounds like a scam to me. I'll stick to waiting on hold like everyone else.
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Melody Miles
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Eva St. Cyr
Well I'm eating my words about Claimyr. After posting that skeptical comment, I was still struggling to get answers about my similar MFS/student loan situation. Out of desperation I tried the service, and no joke, I was talking to an actual IRS representative in 20 minutes. The agent clarified exactly how MFS would affect my income-driven repayment calculation (it's based ONLY on my income when filing separately) and confirmed I could still claim my child tax credit. She also explained which years I should consider amending to maximize my PSLF benefits. Honestly, this saved me at least $3,000 over the next year until my loans are forgiven. Sometimes it's worth admitting when you're wrong!
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Kristian Bishop
Something nobody's mentioned yet - check if your state has different rules for MFJ vs MFS! My wife and I saved on federal by filing separately, but our state actually penalized us for it. Some states require you to file the same status as federal, but calculate taxes differently. We ended up saving about $1,100 federally but losing about $380 at the state level, so still worth it but not as much savings as we initially thought.
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Aaron Boston
•Oh that's a really good point! I hadn't even looked at how it would affect our state taxes. We're in Pennsylvania if that helps. Do you know if different states handle this differently? Should I run the numbers both ways for state as well?
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Kristian Bishop
•Pennsylvania actually works a bit differently than most states. PA has a flat income tax rate and doesn't conform to the federal filing statuses in the same way. They essentially treat married couples as individuals for income tax purposes. You should definitely run the numbers both ways for your state return as well. In some states, the differences can be significant. When we did our calculations, we found that our state (California) partially offset our federal savings, but we still came out ahead overall. Just make sure you're looking at the complete picture before making your final decision.
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Kaitlyn Otto
Just a heads up - claiming the house on MFS can get tricky. If you itemize deductions on MFS, your spouse must also itemize (can't take standard deduction). Also, only the spouse who paid the mortgage interest can claim it (unless you live in a community property state). Plus, if you're doing PSLF, double check that your loan servicer is actually calculating your payments correctly! Mine messed up for 6 months after I changed my filing status and I had to fight to get it fixed.
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Axel Far
•This is so true about loan servicers messing up! My friend had to submit his tax return THREE times before they updated his payment. Also, doesn't MFS limit your IRA contributions if your income is over a certain amount?
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Emily Nguyen-Smith
Aaron, based on all the discussion here, it really sounds like MFS is your best bet given your PSLF timeline. Just wanted to add one more consideration - make sure you document everything when you switch filing statuses! Keep copies of your tax returns, any correspondence with your loan servicer, and track your qualifying payment counts carefully. I'd also suggest reaching out to your loan servicer BEFORE you file to let them know you're changing from single to MFS. This way they can update your payment calculation as soon as your new tax info is available, rather than you having to chase them down later like some folks mentioned. With only 12-15 months left until forgiveness, you're in the home stretch! The temporary payment reduction from filing separately will definitely be worth more than the tax benefits you're giving up. Just make sure both you and your wife understand which deductions each of you can claim so there are no surprises come tax time.
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Jamal Wilson
Aaron, based on all the great advice here, filing MFS with your wife claiming the house definitely seems like the right move for your situation. The $960 difference ($1,389 vs $425) is significant, especially with PSLF so close. One thing I'd add - make sure you submit your updated tax info to your loan servicer ASAP after filing. They often take 2-3 months to process the change, and you want to maximize those lower payments before forgiveness kicks in. Also, keep detailed records of everything since servicers can be... challenging to work with. Since you're in Pennsylvania, the state tax impact should be minimal given their flat rate structure, but definitely double-check those numbers too. You're in a great position with PSLF almost done - this filing strategy should help you squeeze out every bit of savings in these final months!
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StarSeeker
•Great summary, Jamal! I'm actually new to this community but dealing with a similar situation. One question - when you say "submit your updated tax info to your loan servicer ASAP," do you mean just sending them a copy of your filed return, or is there a specific form they need? I'm also on an income-driven plan and want to make sure I don't mess up the process when I file separately for the first time. Also, Aaron, have you considered what you'll do for taxes the year AFTER your loans are forgiven? I assume you'd switch back to MFJ at that point since the student loan payment benefit would be gone?
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