Should we file taxes married jointly or separate with student loans on PSLF?
My husband and I are approaching our 2nd wedding anniversary soon. Last tax season we filed as Married/separate because of our student loan situation. My understanding was that our income-driven repayment amounts would be significantly higher if we filed jointly since the calculation would include both incomes. I make around 116k/year and my husband makes about 125k/year (we both received substantial raises in the last few months). My husband has completed about 80 of the 120 payments needed for Public Service Loan Forgiveness (PSLF), so we're trying to keep those monthly payments as low as possible until the loans are forgiven. I was planning to file married/separately again this year, but we welcomed our first child in September, and I'm not sure if that changes our optimal filing strategy. To be honest, I'm not even 100% confident that filing separately last year was actually the best choice for us financially. Can anyone provide advice on our situation? Two professionals with these income levels, both carrying significant student loan debt, one working toward PSLF, and now with a newborn? Would married filing separately with one of us claiming the baby as a dependent still be the best approach for us? Really appreciate any guidance you can offer!
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Clarissa Flair
Filing separately is often the right move when you're pursuing PSLF, but it's worth running the numbers both ways now that you have a child in the mix. For PSLF with income-driven repayment plans, filing separately can significantly reduce the monthly payment for the spouse with the loans since only their income counts. However, filing separately comes with several tax disadvantages: you can't claim certain credits like education credits, child and dependent care credit, and you lose some deduction opportunities. With a new baby, you're potentially leaving money on the table with tax credits like the Child Tax Credit. The best approach would be to calculate your taxes both ways and compare the tax savings of filing jointly against the increased student loan payments over the remaining 40 months until forgiveness. If your husband is the only one on PSLF, and you're the higher earner, you might consider having him claim the child as dependent if you file separately. Also, consider which income-driven repayment plan your husband is on - some plans like REPAYE will count spousal income regardless of filing status, while others like IBR and PAYE don't when filing separately.
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Eve Freeman
•Thanks so much for your detailed response! I haven't considered the tax credits we might be missing out on. My husband is actually on the IBR plan, so that's why we thought filing separately made sense. Do you know roughly how much the Child Tax Credit might be worth to us? And if we file separately, does it matter which of us claims our daughter as a dependent?
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Clarissa Flair
•The Child Tax Credit is worth up to $2,000 per qualifying child for 2025, and it's partially refundable. With your income levels, you should qualify for the full amount, though it begins to phase out at higher combined incomes when filing jointly. When filing separately, it definitely matters who claims the child. The person claiming the dependent gets access to the tax benefits associated with the child. Ideally, you'd want the spouse with lower student loan payments relative to their income to claim the child, as this maximizes your overall financial benefit. Since your husband is pursuing PSLF, if you claim the child, his income-driven payments stay lower while someone still gets the tax benefit.
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Caden Turner
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McKenzie Shade
•That sounds really useful. Does it actually show you how much you'd lose in student loan benefits? I've been trying to figure this out manually and it's a nightmare jumping between tax calculators and student loan calculators.
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Harmony Love
•I'm skeptical of these tax tools. How exactly does it know the student loan forgiveness rules? Those seem to change every other month with all the new policies. And does it account for state tax differences too? Some states don't follow federal filing status.
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Caden Turner
•It actually does show the estimated monthly payment difference based on your loan balance, repayment plan, and income information. It integrates with the same formulas the loan servicers use to calculate IDR payments. You just enter your loan details and it does the math for you across both scenarios. For state taxes, yes it handles that too! That was actually a big surprise for me because our state has different rules than federal. The tool calculated our state obligation under both scenarios which made a difference in our final decision. I was impressed that it stays updated with policy changes - they seem to update their calculations whenever loan rules change.
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McKenzie Shade
Just wanted to follow up after trying the taxr.ai site recommended above. Honestly, I was blown away by how helpful it was for our situation. My wife and I also have a PSLF situation with a toddler, and I've been stressing about this exact question. The analysis showed us that MFS would save us about $3,800 in student loan payments over the year but cost us around $2,100 in tax benefits - still coming out ahead by filing separately. It also calculated the remaining lifetime value of the PSLF benefit which really put things in perspective. What sold me was how it walked through exactly which credits we'd lose with MFS and which spouse should claim our child to optimize everything. No more guesswork! Definitely worth checking out if you're dealing with this PSLF/filing status headache.
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Rudy Cenizo
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Natalie Khan
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Daryl Bright
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Rudy Cenizo
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Daryl Bright
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Sienna Gomez
As someone who went through the exact same scenario (PSLF, new baby, deciding on filing status), here's what I learned after a lot of research and calculations: 1. Run the numbers for BOTH scenarios. Calculate your total tax liability filing jointly vs. separately, then calculate the difference in student loan payments over 12 months. 2. Remember that filing separately disqualifies you from: student loan interest deduction, education credits, earned income credit, child and dependent care credit, and reduces your IRA contribution limits. 3. With a baby, the Child Tax Credit is substantial ($2,000), but both MFJ and MFS can claim it. 4. If your husband is only 40 payments away from forgiveness (about 3.5 years), consider the total savings over that period. Sometimes paying a bit more in taxes is worth the significant reduction in loan payments. 5. If you file separately, typically the higher earner should claim the child, but run the numbers both ways. Pro tip: Create a spreadsheet tracking this year by year. Our situation changed dramatically when our second child arrived!
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Kirsuktow DarkBlade
•This is super helpful! Quick question - when you say "typically the higher earner should claim the child" when filing separately, why is that? I would have thought it would be the opposite since the higher earner is in a higher tax bracket?
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Sienna Gomez
•Good question! While it seems counterintuitive, often the higher earner benefits more from claiming the child because they can utilize more of the available tax benefits. The Child Tax Credit begins to phase out at higher income levels, but with your combined incomes, that shouldn't be an issue yet. The higher earner typically gets more value from deductions because they're in a higher tax bracket. However, with PSLF in the mix, you need to balance tax savings against student loan payment increases. If your husband is the one on PSLF, having you claim the child might be optimal as it keeps his AGI lower for IDR payment calculations, even if it's not the most tax-efficient approach.
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Abigail bergen
Has anyone actually calculated how big the difference is between filing jointly vs separately with student loans on PSLF? Like actual numbers? My wife and I were in this exact situation and we figured the lower student loan payments would easily outweigh any tax benefits from filing jointly. But after actually calculating everything, we were shocked! Filing separately saved about $280/month on student loan payments ($3,360/year) but cost us around $4,100 in additional taxes and lost credits! We've been losing money for years by filing separately! Do the math carefully with your specific numbers!!
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Ahooker-Equator
•The numbers really do vary wildly depending on your specific situation. For me, I have about $180k in student loans on PSLF, and filing separately saves me about $450/month on loan payments but only costs about $1,800 extra in taxes. So I'm still ahead by about $3,600 annually. The tipping point seems to be how much of an income disparity exists between spouses. If there's a big gap, filing separately often wins. If incomes are similar, the tax benefits of joint filing might outweigh the loan payment savings.
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Harper Hill
This is such a complex situation that really depends on your specific numbers! I went through something similar last year with my spouse on PSLF and our first baby. A few key things I learned: 1. **Income-driven repayment plan matters**: Since your husband is on IBR, filing separately will indeed keep his payments lower since only his income counts. If he were on REPAYE, spousal income would count regardless. 2. **Child Tax Credit strategy**: The $2,000 Child Tax Credit is huge, but you need to decide who claims your daughter. Generally, whoever has the higher tax rate benefits more from claiming the dependent, but with PSLF you might want to keep your husband's AGI lower. 3. **State tax considerations**: Don't forget to factor in state taxes - some states don't allow separate filing or have different rules. 4. **40 payments left is key**: Your husband is getting close to forgiveness! That's roughly 3.5 years of payments. Calculate the total student loan savings over that entire period, not just one year. My recommendation: Create a spreadsheet comparing total costs (taxes + loan payments) for both scenarios over the next 3-4 years until forgiveness. The math might surprise you either way! Also consider consulting a tax professional who understands PSLF - the intersection of tax strategy and loan forgiveness is tricky, and the stakes are high with your income levels.
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Owen Devar
•This is exactly the kind of thorough analysis I was hoping for! The point about calculating over the full 3.5 years until forgiveness is brilliant - I was only thinking year by year. I'm curious about the state tax angle you mentioned. We're in California, and I hadn't even considered that state rules might be different from federal. Do you know if California has any special considerations for married filing separately that might affect our decision? Also, when you say "whoever has the higher tax rate benefits more from claiming the dependent" - with our similar income levels (I'm at $116k, husband at $125k), would the tax rate difference even be significant enough to matter? Or is the bigger factor keeping his AGI lower for the student loan calculations? Thanks for the spreadsheet suggestion - I think that's exactly what we need to see the full picture!
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