Married filing jointly vs. separate with student loans on income-based repayment
My husband and I have been married for about 2 years now. Last tax season we decided to file Married/separate because of our student loan situation. I was under the impression that our student loan payments would skyrocket if we filed jointly since it would factor in both our incomes. My husband earns about $118k/yr and I make around $107k/yr (we both got pretty significant raises in the past few months). I'm currently 80 payments into the 120 needed for Public Service Loan Forgiveness, so I'm trying to keep those monthly payments as low as possible until the loans get forgiven. I was planning to just file married/separately again this year, but we welcomed our first child in 2024 and I'm not sure how that changes our tax situation. Honestly, I'm not even 100% certain that what we did last year was the optimal choice for us financially. Could anyone provide some guidance on our situation? Two professionals with these income levels, both carrying substantial student loan debt, one pursuing PSLF, and now with a new baby? Would married filing separately with one of us claiming the dependent still be the best option for us? Really appreciate any insights you all can share on this!
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Connor O'Neill
Filing separately can definitely make sense when one spouse is pursuing PSLF. When you file jointly, your loan servicer will calculate your income-based payments using both incomes, which can significantly increase your monthly payments. However, having a child does change things. You should know that when filing separately, only one parent can claim the child as a dependent. This means only that parent would be eligible for child-related tax benefits like the Child Tax Credit. The person pursuing PSLF should probably not claim the child, as that could potentially increase your AGI for loan payment calculations. Keep in mind that filing separately also means you'll lose access to certain tax benefits like student loan interest deductions, traditional IRA deduction (if your income is within certain limits), education credits, and potentially the full benefit of the standard deduction. I'd recommend running the numbers both ways - calculate your tax liability filing jointly versus separately, then factor in the increased student loan payments over the remaining years until forgiveness. Whichever route saves more money overall would be your best option.
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Zainab Ibrahim
•Thank you for the detailed response! I didn't realize I'd lose access to the student loan interest deduction by filing separately - that's definitely something to consider. About how much do you think the child tax credit would be worth compared to keeping my IBR payments low? I have about 40 payments left before forgiveness.
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Connor O'Neill
•The Child Tax Credit for 2024 (filing in 2025) is worth up to $2,000 per qualifying child under 17, with up to $1,600 being refundable through the Additional Child Tax Credit. This is definitely substantial. For your IBR payments, you'd need to calculate the difference between what you'd pay filing separately versus jointly for those remaining 40 months. If your monthly payment would increase by $200 when filing jointly, that's $8,000 more in payments before forgiveness. If the tax benefits of filing jointly (including child tax credit, student loan interest deduction, etc.) exceed that amount, filing jointly might make more sense. If you're on PAYE or IBR rather than REPAYE, filing separately could still be advantageous.
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LunarEclipse
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Yara Khalil
•Does this tool actually look at the student loan forgiveness angle? I've been trying to figure this out for years and every tax person I've talked to doesn't understand how PSLF interacts with taxes. They just tell me to file jointly for the tax breaks without considering what happens to my payments.
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Keisha Brown
•I'm a little skeptical about these online calculators. How accurate was it for your specific situation? Did it actually match what your loan servicer calculated for your monthly payment? I've been burned before with tools that gave me completely wrong estimates.
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LunarEclipse
•It specifically analyzes PSLF scenarios and shows how each filing status affects your progress toward forgiveness. It actually pulls from the same formulas loan servicers use to calculate IBR/PAYE payments based on your AGI. The numbers matched up almost exactly with what my loan servicer calculated after I filed. The difference was maybe $3-4 per month. It's definitely more accurate than the basic calculators out there because it factors in specific details about your loan type, repayment plan, and tax situation all together. It shows you the total cost over your remaining PSLF period, not just the next payment.
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Yara Khalil
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Paolo Esposito
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Zainab Ibrahim
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Paolo Esposito
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Amina Toure
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Oliver Weber
One thing nobody has mentioned yet - make sure you check whether you're on REPAYE vs. PAYE/IBR. With REPAYE, filing separately doesn't help because they look at both spouses' incomes regardless of filing status. With PAYE or IBR, filing separately allows them to only look at your income. If you're on REPAYE, you might want to see if you can switch to PAYE before your annual recertification. Just be careful because switching plans can have other consequences for your PSLF progress.
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Zainab Ibrahim
•Omg thank you for mentioning this! I just checked and I am on REPAYE. I had no idea they would count my spouse's income regardless of filing status. Do you know if switching to PAYE would reset my payment count for PSLF?
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Oliver Weber
•Switching from REPAYE to PAYE should not reset your payment count for PSLF. All qualifying payments made under any eligible repayment plan count toward your 120 payments. The key is making sure PAYE is available to you - it has some eligibility requirements that REPAYE doesn't have. The main thing to watch for is that your switch is processed correctly and that your servicer properly tracks your previous qualifying payments. I'd recommend getting written confirmation that your payment count will carry over when you request the switch. Also consider your payment amount - PAYE caps payments at 10% of discretionary income while REPAYE has no cap, so run the numbers to make sure it makes sense for your situation.
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FireflyDreams
Has anyone calculated how the child tax credit compares to the student loan interest deduction? I'm in a similar situation but trying to figure out which benefit is worth more.
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Natasha Kuznetsova
•The child tax credit is worth up to $2,000 per qualifying child, while the student loan interest deduction is capped at $2,500 but that's just a deduction (not a credit). At your income levels, a $2,500 deduction might only save you about $550-600 in actual taxes (assuming 22-24% tax bracket). So the child tax credit is potentially worth significantly more than the student loan interest deduction. But the real question is whether those tax benefits outweigh the savings from lower IBR payments over the remaining PSLF period.
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NebulaKnight
Great discussion here! I'd like to add a few additional considerations for your situation: First, with your combined income of around $225k, you'll want to check if you're eligible for the full Child Tax Credit when filing jointly, as it phases out at higher income levels. For 2024, the phase-out begins at $400k for married filing jointly, so you should be fine, but it's worth confirming. Second, consider the Earned Income Tax Credit (EITC) implications. While you likely won't qualify due to your income levels, filing separately might put one spouse in a lower income bracket that could potentially qualify for other credits. Third, don't forget about state taxes! Some states have different rules for how they treat federal filing status, and this could impact your overall tax situation significantly depending on where you live. Finally, since you mentioned you both got significant raises recently, make sure to update your income information with your loan servicer for your annual recertification. If you're still on an older income amount, your current payments might be artificially low, which could cause issues later. I'd strongly recommend using one of the calculation tools mentioned here to run the numbers both ways, and definitely confirm your repayment plan type as others have noted. The REPAYE vs PAYE distinction could completely change your strategy.
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Nalani Liu
•This is really helpful context! I hadn't even thought about state tax implications. We're in California, so I'll need to look into how they handle federal filing status differences. You're absolutely right about updating our income with the loan servicer - we both got raises in the past few months but I haven't updated that information yet. I was actually kind of hoping to delay that since it would increase my payments, but I know that's not the right approach long-term. Do you happen to know if there's a specific time of year that's better to update income information with loan servicers? I'm wondering if I should wait until after I figure out my filing status for this year's taxes or if I should update it now regardless. Also, the point about EITC is interesting - even though we probably won't qualify, it's good to know there might be other credits I haven't considered that could be affected by filing separately.
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QuantumQuasar
•Regarding timing for updating your income information - you typically have to recertify annually anyway, so the timing depends on your recertification date rather than when you choose to update. However, if your raises were substantial, the loan servicer may eventually catch up through tax transcript reviews. For California specifically, they generally follow federal filing status, so if you file separately federally, you'll likely file separately for state taxes too. California doesn't have its own version of some federal credits, but they do have their own calculations for things like standard deductions when filing separately. One strategic consideration: if your annual recertification is coming up soon, you might want to get your tax filing decision sorted first. That way you'll know what AGI to report to your loan servicer. If your recertification isn't due for several months, you have more flexibility to plan. Also, since you're in California with those income levels, make sure to factor in the state tax implications of the child tax credit and other federal benefits when comparing filing jointly vs. separately. California's high state tax rates mean the actual value of federal deductions and credits can be amplified.
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