W2 employee told not to report tips to employer - is this legal?

This is definitely not the correct procedure! Tips are considered taxable income and should be reported to her employer. Here's how it normally works: Cash and credit card tips should be reported to the employer, typically on a daily or weekly basis depending on their system. The employer then includes these reported tips on her W-2 at the end of the year, withholds the appropriate taxes from her regular wages, and reports everything to the IRS. This is standard practice for tipped employees. If her employer isn't tracking her tips, they're not withholding the proper taxes throughout the year, which could lead to a surprise tax bill when you file. Additionally, unreported tips can raise red flags with the IRS, especially for credit card tips which leave an electronic trail.

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Former IRS employee here. Your wife NEEDS to start reporting tips to her employer ASAP. Here's why: - Employers are required by law to collect tip reports from employees - Credit card tips already have an electronic trail the IRS can track - Without proper withholding throughout the year, you'll owe a lump sum plus possible penalties - Unreported tips can trigger audits, especially in industries known for tip income Your wife should start keeping a daily log of ALL tips (cash and credit) and report them to her employer each pay period. If they refuse to accept them, document that you attempted to report them. This will help protect you if questions arise later.

Question - does anyone know how this affects Social Security benefits? I heard tip income that isn't reported to your employer doesn't count toward your Social Security earnings. Is that true?

This is a really common problem in the service industry, and your instincts are absolutely right to be concerned. What your wife's manager is telling her to do is not only incorrect but could create serious tax problems for you both. Here's what should be happening: Your wife needs to report ALL tips (cash and credit card) to her employer regularly - usually daily or weekly depending on their system. The employer should then include these tips on her paystubs, withhold appropriate taxes, and report everything on her W-2 at year end. The fact that credit card tips aren't showing up anywhere is a major red flag. These tips are already being processed through the business's payment system, so there's definitely a paper trail the IRS can follow. I'd recommend your wife start keeping detailed daily records of all tips received using IRS Form 4070A, then submit monthly reports to her employer using Form 4070. Even if the manager pushes back, having documentation that she attempted to report properly will protect you both. If the employer continues to refuse, you may need to contact the IRS directly or consult with a tax professional to avoid potential penalties and ensure you're compliant with tax law. Don't let this slide - it's much easier to fix now than deal with the consequences later!