W2 employee told not to report tips to employer - is this legal?
So I'm in a weird situation. My wife just started working at SuperCuts about a month ago and her manager told her NOT to report her tips to the salon, but instead just save them and report them when we file our taxes. This seems... off to me? We've never had jobs with tips before so I'm totally clueless. Looking at her paystub, there's nothing about tips on there at all - just her regular hourly wage. She gets both cash tips (which I guess makes sense not to report right away) but also credit card tips that the customers add when they pay. Shouldn't those at least be tracked somewhere officially? The whole thing is making me nervous because I don't want to mess up our taxes or get in trouble with the IRS. Is this normal in the salon industry or is her boss telling her to do something sketchy? What's the proper way to handle tips for a W2 employee?
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Owen Devar
This is definitely not the correct procedure! Tips are considered taxable income and should be reported to her employer. Here's how it normally works: Cash and credit card tips should be reported to the employer, typically on a daily or weekly basis depending on their system. The employer then includes these reported tips on her W-2 at the end of the year, withholds the appropriate taxes from her regular wages, and reports everything to the IRS. This is standard practice for tipped employees. If her employer isn't tracking her tips, they're not withholding the proper taxes throughout the year, which could lead to a surprise tax bill when you file. Additionally, unreported tips can raise red flags with the IRS, especially for credit card tips which leave an electronic trail.
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Brooklyn Knight
•Wait, so she's supposed to be telling her manager the tip amounts every day? They never explained this to her at all. What happens if we just report it all at tax time like they told her to do?
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Owen Devar
•Yes, she should be reporting her tips to her employer regularly. Most places have a system for this - either a form, app, or spreadsheet where employees track daily tips. If you report all the tips at tax time without having paid taxes throughout the year, you'll likely owe a lump sum payment when you file. You could also face underpayment penalties if the amount is significant. Additionally, reporting tips only at year-end means your wife isn't getting proper Social Security credits for that income, which could affect her future benefits.
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Daniel Rivera
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Vincent Bimbach
Former IRS employee here. Your wife NEEDS to start reporting tips to her employer ASAP. Here's why: - Employers are required by law to collect tip reports from employees - Credit card tips already have an electronic trail the IRS can track - Without proper withholding throughout the year, you'll owe a lump sum plus possible penalties - Unreported tips can trigger audits, especially in industries known for tip income Your wife should start keeping a daily log of ALL tips (cash and credit) and report them to her employer each pay period. If they refuse to accept them, document that you attempted to report them. This will help protect you if questions arise later.
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Brooklyn Knight
•Thanks for the insider perspective! We just talked to her manager again today and she acted like this was news to her - said she's "never had employees report tips before" which seems crazy. We're documenting everything now. Is there an official IRS form my wife should be using to track her tips?
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Vincent Bimbach
•You're welcome! Your wife's manager's response is unfortunately common but definitely incorrect. For tip tracking, she should use IRS Form 4070A "Employee's Daily Record of Tips" for her personal records. It's a simple form for tracking tips day by day. Then each month, she should submit Form 4070 "Employee's Report of Tips to Employer" summarizing her monthly tips. Both forms are available in IRS Publication 1244, which she can download from the IRS website. Even if her employer doesn't provide these forms, she should use them anyway and keep copies of everything she submits as proof she attempted to report properly.
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Kelsey Chin
Question - does anyone know how this affects Social Security benefits? I heard tip income that isn't reported to your employer doesn't count toward your Social Security earnings. Is that true?
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Norah Quay
•Yes, that's absolutely correct. Tips that aren't reported to your employer and included on your W-2 won't be counted toward your Social Security earnings record. Over time, this could significantly reduce your retirement benefits since they're calculated based on your lifetime earnings.
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Samantha Johnson
This is a really common problem in the service industry, and your instincts are absolutely right to be concerned. What your wife's manager is telling her to do is not only incorrect but could create serious tax problems for you both. Here's what should be happening: Your wife needs to report ALL tips (cash and credit card) to her employer regularly - usually daily or weekly depending on their system. The employer should then include these tips on her paystubs, withhold appropriate taxes, and report everything on her W-2 at year end. The fact that credit card tips aren't showing up anywhere is a major red flag. These tips are already being processed through the business's payment system, so there's definitely a paper trail the IRS can follow. I'd recommend your wife start keeping detailed daily records of all tips received using IRS Form 4070A, then submit monthly reports to her employer using Form 4070. Even if the manager pushes back, having documentation that she attempted to report properly will protect you both. If the employer continues to refuse, you may need to contact the IRS directly or consult with a tax professional to avoid potential penalties and ensure you're compliant with tax law. Don't let this slide - it's much easier to fix now than deal with the consequences later!
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Mei Lin
This is a really concerning situation that unfortunately happens more than it should in the service industry. Your wife's manager is giving her incorrect advice that could lead to serious tax complications. Here's what's actually required: All employees who receive more than $20 in tips per month must report those tips to their employer. This includes both cash and credit card tips. The employer is then legally required to withhold taxes on those tips and include them on her W-2. What's happening now is that your wife will end up owing a large tax bill when you file, potentially with underpayment penalties. Plus, as others mentioned, unreported tips won't count toward her Social Security earnings record, which could affect her future benefits. I'd strongly recommend she start documenting all tips immediately and attempt to report them to her employer using the proper IRS forms (4070A for daily records, 4070 for monthly reporting). If the manager continues to refuse, make sure you keep records of those attempts - this will help protect you if the IRS has questions later. Don't wait on this - the longer it goes on, the bigger the potential tax problem becomes. It's much better to address it now than face a surprise tax bill and penalties later.
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Omar Fawzi
•This is exactly what happened to my sister at her salon job! Her manager gave her the same "just report it at tax time" advice. When she finally started documenting and trying to report her tips properly, the manager got defensive and claimed they "didn't have a system for that." We ended up having to file Form 4137 for all the unreported tips from her first few months, and she got hit with both regular income tax AND the additional Social Security/Medicare taxes on those tips. It was a much bigger tax bill than we expected. The crazy part is that the credit card tips were already going through their payment system - they just weren't bothering to track them for payroll purposes. Definitely start keeping those daily records now, even if management pushes back. Better to have the documentation than get caught unprepared at tax time!
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Sofia Peña
This situation is more common than you'd think, but your wife's manager is definitely giving her bad advice that could cause major problems down the road. Here's the reality: The IRS requires employees who receive more than $20 in tips per month to report those tips to their employer regularly (usually daily or weekly). The employer must then withhold taxes and include the tips on her W-2. This isn't optional - it's the law. What's particularly concerning is that credit card tips are already being processed through the salon's payment system, creating an electronic trail. If the IRS ever looks into this, they'll see those credit card tips but won't see them reported on her W-2, which raises immediate red flags. If your wife continues following her manager's advice, you'll likely face: - A large tax bill when you file (both income tax AND additional Social Security/Medicare taxes on unreported tips) - Potential underpayment penalties - Lost Social Security credits that could affect future benefits - Possible IRS scrutiny since tipped employees in salons are often audited My advice: Start having your wife keep detailed daily records of ALL tips using IRS Form 4070A, then submit monthly reports to her employer using Form 4070. Even if the manager refuses to accept them, keep copies as proof she attempted to report properly. This documentation will protect you both if questions arise later. Don't let this slide any longer - it only gets worse with time!
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Madison King
•This is such helpful advice, thank you! We've been really stressed about this situation and it's good to know we're not overreacting. I'm definitely going to have my wife start using those IRS forms you mentioned - Form 4070A for daily tracking and Form 4070 for monthly reporting. One quick question: if her manager continues to refuse accepting the monthly reports, should we mail copies to the IRS directly, or just keep our own records for now? I want to make sure we're doing everything possible to stay compliant while also not creating unnecessary drama at her new job. Also, do you know if there's a way to calculate roughly how much extra we should be setting aside for taxes on these unreported tips? I'm worried we're going to be caught off guard come tax season even if we start reporting properly now.
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