Need help understanding the new W4 exemptions system for 2025 tax planning

I'm super confused about this new W4 system and hoping someone can help me make sense of it. I'm trying to help my sister adjust her withholdings. She's a single mom with 3 kids under 5 years old and makes about $52k annually. Her pay stubs show 0 exemptions for both Federal and State taxes. She gets paid biweekly, around $2000 gross, $1410 net, with about $210 going to federal taxes (she's paid about $3500 in federal taxes year-to-date). I used the W4 calculator for her situation, but I'm totally confused because it doesn't give an exemption number like the old system. The calculator says she'll get a massive refund (around $13k) because of child tax credits and EIC. We want to adjust her W4 to get more money in each paycheck instead of waiting for that huge refund. She's trying to put $9500 on Line 3 of the W4, but I'm confused about how that translates to the old exemption system. How will her employer know the right amount to withhold? Is there a way to estimate Line 3 amounts to target a smaller refund? Back when I was in my 20s with 2 kids and working at my first job, I claimed 6 exemptions to get a small refund instead of a huge one. I adjusted down as my salary increased and as my kids got older. How can we do something similar with this new W4 system? Thanks for any help you can offer!

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Rosie Harper

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The new W4 system can definitely be confusing if you're used to the old exemption-based system! Don't worry, I can help explain the differences. The new W4 eliminated the concept of "allowances" or "exemptions" and instead uses actual dollar amounts to calculate withholding. This is actually more accurate, even though it feels less intuitive. For your sister's situation, the Line 3 is for claiming dependents. She should put the total expected tax credits for her dependents there. For 2025, the Child Tax Credit is $2,000 per qualifying child under 17. So with 3 children under 5, she would put $6,000 in Line 3 if she expects to claim the full credit. If she wants to reduce withholding beyond that to account for other credits like EIC, she can use Line 4(b) for additional deductions OR use Line 4(c) to specify an additional amount to be withheld (use a negative number here to reduce withholding). The employer uses IRS withholding tables based on this information, her filing status, and her income to calculate the correct withholding - there's no need to convert to the old "exemption" numbers.

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Rosie Harper

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No, you don't want to put the full $13k on Line 3. Line 3 is specifically for the Child Tax Credit amount. Putting a higher amount there would incorrectly tell her employer she has more qualifying dependents than she actually does. Instead, she should put $6,000 on Line 3 for her three children. Then, if she wants to reduce withholding further to account for EIC and other credits, she should use Line 4(b) to claim additional deductions or credits. She could put an estimated amount there - perhaps the remaining $7,000 of her expected refund. This tells her employer to reduce withholding because she expects additional tax benefits.

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Elliott luviBorBatman

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Elliott luviBorBatman

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Yes, it actually works really well! I was getting refunds of $5-6k every year and now I'm much closer to breaking even while keeping more money in my paychecks. The system walks you through different scenarios so you can see exactly how changing your W4 affects your take-home pay. It handles multiple jobs and complex situations too. You enter your income sources separately, and it factors in things like child tax credits, earned income credit, and other deductions. It even let me adjust for shared custody situations where we alternate claiming our daughter.

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Mateusius Townsend

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Lena Schultz

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I'm going to go against the grain here and say the new W4 system is actually better than the old one, once you understand it. With the old system, an "allowance" was essentially a black box number that didn't directly relate to your tax situation. The new system is more transparent because you're working with actual dollar amounts. Line 3 is for tax credits (like the Child Tax Credit). Line 4(b) is for deductions beyond the standard deduction. Line 4(c) is for additional withholding if you want more taken out. For your sister with 3 kids under 5, she should: 1. Check "Single or Married filing separately" in Step 1(c) 2. Put $6,000 in Line 3 (for the Child Tax Credits) 3. If she qualifies for significant EIC, put an estimated amount in Line 4(b) This will increase her paycheck while still covering her tax liability.

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Lena Schultz

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That's a good concern to have. Line 4(b) is for deductions, not credits, so you need to convert the expected EIC credit amount to an equivalent deduction amount. A simple approach is to multiply her expected EIC by about 4 (assuming she's in the 25% tax bracket). If she wants to be extra safe, she could start by just putting the $6,000 for Child Tax Credits on Line 3 and leave Line 4(b) empty. This will already increase her take-home pay. Then after a few paychecks, she can submit a new W4 with a modest amount on Line 4(b) and gradually increase it if needed. This way, she can adjust her withholding incrementally without risking a big tax bill. Many people prefer getting a small refund rather than owing, so she might want to aim for a $500-1000 refund just to be safe.

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Lena Schultz

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The W4 redesign was only for federal withholding. Most states have their own withholding forms, although some do piggyback off the federal W4. California uses its own form called the DE 4. It still uses the allowance concept similar to the old federal W4. If you want to adjust your California withholding, you'll need to complete a DE 4 form and submit it to your employer separately from your federal W4. Generally, you can roughly align your state withholding with your federal by calculating what your old federal allowances would have been and using that number on your state form.

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Carter Holmes

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I completely understand the confusion - I went through the same thing last year when my company switched to the new W4 system! The key thing to remember is that the new system is actually more precise, even though it feels more complicated. For your sister's situation with 3 kids under 5 making $52k, here's what I'd recommend starting with: 1. Put $6,000 on Line 3 (Child Tax Credit for 3 kids) 2. Leave Line 4(b) empty initially to be safe 3. Monitor her next few paychecks to see the change This conservative approach will still increase her take-home pay significantly without risking owing taxes. The $6,000 on Line 3 alone should reduce her withholding by about $230 per month. Once she sees how that affects her paychecks, she can always submit a new W4 later with additional adjustments on Line 4(b) if she wants to capture more of that projected $13k refund in her regular pay. It's better to adjust gradually than to risk a surprise tax bill! The beauty of the new system is you can update your W4 anytime during the year as your situation becomes clearer.

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Lucy Lam

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This is really helpful advice! I like the gradual approach you're suggesting. One question though - when you say the $6,000 on Line 3 should reduce withholding by about $230 per month, how did you calculate that? I want to make sure I understand the math so I can explain it to my sister when we fill out her new W4. Also, is there a good rule of thumb for how much to put on Line 4(b) later if she wants to capture more of that EIC? I know someone mentioned multiplying by 4, but I want to make sure we don't go overboard.

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StarStrider

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@833b61bcc5df Great question about the math! The $230/month calculation comes from dividing the $6,000 Child Tax Credit by 26 pay periods (biweekly), which equals about $231 per paycheck. Since she gets paid twice a month, that's roughly $460 more per month in take-home pay. For Line 4(b) and the EIC, you're right to be cautious. The "multiply by 4" rule assumes she's in roughly a 25% tax bracket. For someone making $52k, she's likely in the 12% bracket, so multiplying expected EIC by about 8-9 would be more accurate (since $1 of deduction saves about $0.12 in taxes). But honestly, I'd recommend she start with just the Child Tax Credit adjustment first, see how that goes for 2-3 paychecks, then maybe add just $2,000-3,000 to Line 4(b) as a test. She can always increase it later if she's still getting too much withheld. Better to be conservative and get a small refund than owe unexpectedly! The IRS withholding calculator at irs.gov can also help estimate the right Line 4(b) amount once she has a few paychecks with the initial adjustment.

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A Man D Mortal

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The new W4 system definitely takes some getting used to! I went through this same confusion when helping my daughter adjust hers last year. One thing that really helped us understand the system better was using the IRS's own withholding calculator at irs.gov/W4App. It's free and walks you through your specific situation step by step. For your sister's case, it will factor in her income, filing status, number of dependents, and estimated credits like EIC. The calculator will then tell you exactly what to put on each line of the W4 - no guesswork needed. It even shows you how your changes will affect each paycheck and your projected refund. Since your sister is getting such a large projected refund ($13k), the calculator might suggest putting amounts on both Line 3 (for child tax credits) AND Line 4(b) (for other adjustments). The key is that it does the math for you based on current tax law. I'd recommend running through the calculator together - it takes about 10-15 minutes and gives you confidence that you're making the right adjustments. You can always be conservative with the first adjustment and run the calculator again in a few months if needed.

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