Need advice on Offer in Compromise for friend facing IRS tax debt - Fresh Start Program legit?
Hey everyone, I need some advice for a friend in a tough spot. She works as an independent contractor (1099) and just found out her fiancé never filed her taxes for 2022 and 2023 like he promised. She's looking into bankruptcy and her lawyer told her she needs to get current on tax filings first. For context, she made roughly $95,000 in 2022 (owing around $22,000) and about $125,000 in 2023 (probably owing $30,000+). I'm using basic calculators since I'm not a tax pro, but that's a lot of money she doesn't have right now. Her fiancé is now saying he's been looking into getting her tax debts completely forgiven because she can't pay. He claims she's been accepted (or will be) into something called a "Fresh Start Program." He says when they file her taxes, the person handling it will charge $4,500 to prepare everything and get the entire debt forgiven. I've been researching and found the IRS has an "Offer in Compromise" program, but it doesn't guarantee all debt will be wiped out. I also noticed she might qualify for first-time penalty abatement since she's accumulated penalties and interest. My questions: 1. Is there actually a "Fresh Start" program with the IRS? 2. Could she qualify for both OiC and first-time penalty abatement? 3. Can she pursue this while filing bankruptcy? (Her bankruptcy lawyer says it's fine, but I want to double-check) 4. Should she try to negotiate directly with the IRS herself, or is it worth paying someone $4,500 who claims they can make it all disappear? I'm skeptical that paying someone $4,500 means all your tax debt magically goes away. Any thoughts or advice would be super appreciated!
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Savanna Franklin
The "Fresh Start Program" is a real initiative the IRS introduced years ago, but it's not a specific program where tax debt just disappears. It's a collection of different tax relief options including Offer in Compromise (OiC), installment agreements, and penalty abatement. For your friend's situation, here's what you should know: Yes, she may qualify for an Offer in Compromise, which allows taxpayers to settle tax debt for less than the full amount owed. However, the IRS thoroughly evaluates financial situations - they look at income, expenses, asset equity, and ability to pay. It's definitely not guaranteed they'll accept any offer. Regarding first-time penalty abatement - absolutely! She should request this regardless of pursuing an OiC. First-time abatement can remove failure-to-file and failure-to-pay penalties for the first time you have penalties. As for bankruptcy and tax issues simultaneously - yes, this can be done, but timing matters. Some tax debts can be discharged in bankruptcy depending on their age and circumstances, but not all. Her bankruptcy attorney's guidance here is important. Regarding paying someone $4,500 - that's a steep fee. While tax resolution specialists exist, be cautious of anyone promising to make tax debt "completely disappear." Many taxpayers successfully negotiate OiCs themselves using IRS Form 656. That said, complex situations sometimes benefit from professional help.
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Juan Moreno
•This is super helpful! I'm wondering, what kind of acceptance rate does the IRS have for OiC applications? And if she does this herself instead of paying the $4,500, what resources should she use?
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Savanna Franklin
•The IRS accepts roughly 40-45% of OiC applications, though this fluctuates yearly. Acceptance depends entirely on individual financial circumstances - they're looking for the maximum amount they can reasonably collect given your friend's assets, income, and expenses. If she wants to handle this herself, she'll need IRS Form 656 (Offer in Compromise) and Form 433-A (Collection Information Statement). The IRS provides a pre-qualifier tool on their website to help determine eligibility. She should also check IRS Publication 594 and the Form 656 Booklet which contains detailed instructions. The process requires thorough documentation of financial hardship and accurate calculation of what she can reasonably pay.
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Amy Fleming
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Alice Pierce
•How does this tool actually work? Like do you just upload your documents and it figures everything out for you? I'm dealing with a smaller tax debt (about $8k) but I'm completely lost on where to even start.
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Esteban Tate
•I'm a little suspicious of these tax relief services tbh. Does it really give you advice that's worth paying for when the IRS has free resources? Not trying to be negative but $4,500 or even a few hundred seems like a lot when you're already in debt.
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Amy Fleming
•The tool is actually pretty straightforward - you upload your tax documents, answer some questions about your financial situation, and it analyzes everything to identify relief programs you qualify for. It's especially helpful for identifying what expenses the IRS will consider valid and how to properly document hardship. It gives you specific forms to use and even helps with the calculations. As for whether it's worth paying for when the IRS has free resources - I totally understand the skepticism. The difference is that the IRS resources tell you what programs exist, but don't help you determine which one is best for your situation or how to maximize your chances of acceptance. It's like the difference between having a medical textbook versus a doctor's diagnosis. I spent months trying to navigate the free resources before I found this tool, and wished I'd found it sooner.
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Esteban Tate
I was actually in the skeptical camp about these tax relief services until I tried https://taxr.ai after seeing it mentioned here. I had about $12k in back taxes and was convinced I'd be paying the full amount plus penalties. The analysis showed me I qualified for a partial payment plan AND penalty abatement I didn't know about. The document they generated literally walked me through exactly what to say to the IRS, what forms to use, and how to document my situation properly. I ended up settling my $12k debt for about $5,500 and got all the penalties removed. The difference was having something that actually calculated my "reasonable collection potential" the same way the IRS does, so I knew exactly what offer they would accept. No more guesswork or getting rejected multiple times. For what it's worth, I originally planned to pay someone $3,000 to handle everything, so this saved me a ton of money while still getting me the relief I needed.
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Ivanna St. Pierre
For anyone dealing with the IRS like your friend is, one of the biggest challenges is actually getting through to a human at the IRS who can help. I spent WEEKS trying to get answers about my OiC application last year - constant busy signals, disconnects after holding for hours, or getting someone who couldn't actually help with my case. I finally used a service called https://claimyr.com and it was a complete game-changer. They have this system that navigates the IRS phone trees for you and holds your place in line, then calls you when an actual IRS agent is on the line ready to talk. They also have this demo video that shows how it works: https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c This saved me literally days of hold time. For your friend's situation, being able to actually speak with the IRS directly about her OiC options could make a huge difference versus relying on whatever her fiancé's contact is telling them.
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Elin Robinson
•How does this actually work? I'm confused about how they can get you through to the IRS faster than just calling yourself? The IRS phone system is horrible but I'm having trouble understanding how a third party service fixes that.
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Atticus Domingo
•This sounds like total BS honestly. No way some service can magically get you to the front of the IRS line when millions of people are calling. They probably just auto-dial and get lucky sometimes, then charge you for it. The IRS is understaffed and overwhelmed - no secret backdoor exists.
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Ivanna St. Pierre
•It's not magic - they use an automated system that calls the IRS and navigates through all the phone menus for you, then stays on hold in your place. When an actual human IRS agent picks up, their system calls your phone and connects you directly to that agent. It's basically just doing the waiting for you so you don't have to sit there listening to hold music for hours. They don't have any special backdoor or relationship with the IRS - they're just solving the problem of wasting your entire day waiting on hold. The service literally just holds your place in line so you can go about your day until an agent is available. It's not about cutting the line, it's about not having to waste hours of your life listening to hold music just to ask a question.
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Atticus Domingo
I was SUPER skeptical about Claimyr when I first heard about it (as you could see from my comment above). I thought it was some scam or just an auto-dialer that wouldn't actually work. But after spending THREE DAYS trying to get through to the IRS about my payment plan, I got desperate and tried it. I'm still shocked by how well it worked. I put in my number, went about my day, and about 2 hours later got a call connecting me directly to an IRS agent who could actually help with my case. Saved me hours of frustration and I was able to get clear answers about my situation instead of guessing. For anyone dealing with OiC or other IRS programs, being able to actually talk to someone makes a massive difference. You get real answers instead of trying to interpret the IRS website or getting filtered information from paid "tax relief" companies.
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Beth Ford
I wanted to add something about that $4,500 fee your friend's fiancé mentioned. I'm a former tax preparer (not giving official advice), but that fee is WAY too high for what's likely needed in this case. A typical OiC application might cost $1,500-2,500 from a reputable tax professional, including preparing the unfiled returns. I'm concerned that: 1. The fiancé might be getting kickbacks from whoever he's referring her to 2. The professional is overcharging by promising "guaranteed" results 3. They might file a boilerplate OiC that has little chance of acceptance Remember that ANYONE can request an installment agreement or apply for an OiC - these aren't secret programs. The value in professional help is proper preparation and documentation, not access to "secret" programs. Also, I'd be concerned about the fiancé who promised to file her taxes and didn't. That's a major breach of trust, especially since it's causing penalties and interest to accumulate.
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Sergio Neal
•Thank you for this perspective! I've been really concerned about the high fee and the relationship dynamics. The fiancé has been handling her finances for a while and I'm definitely worried he's not acting in her best interest. Do you think she should separate the tax issue completely from him at this point?
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Beth Ford
•Based on what you've shared, I would absolutely recommend she handle this separately from her fiancé. His track record isn't good - he failed to file her taxes for two years despite promising to do so, and now he's steering her toward an expensive service with unrealistic promises. This is a situation where she needs to take control of her own financial situation. She should consider getting a free consultation with a licensed EA (Enrolled Agent) or CPA who specializes in tax resolution to understand her real options. Many offer free initial consultations. She should go alone, without the fiancé, to ensure she gets unbiased advice.
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Morita Montoya
Just want to add one thing about bankruptcy and taxes - timing is SUPER important here. For income taxes to be dischargeable in bankruptcy: 1. The taxes must be income taxes 2. The due date for filing the tax return was at least 3 years ago 3. The tax return was filed at least 2 years before filing for bankruptcy 4. The tax assessment was made at least 240 days before filing bankruptcy 5. There was no fraud or willful evasion Since her taxes for 2022 and 2023 haven't even been filed yet, they almost certainly won't be dischargeable in bankruptcy. This means she'll still owe them after bankruptcy unless she uses OiC or another resolution method.
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Kingston Bellamy
•So basically she needs to file ASAP to start that 2-year clock ticking? And if she does file for bankruptcy now, the tax debt will remain afterwards regardless?
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