Married Filing Jointly with Single Zero Withholding - Still Owing $1000+ in Taxes. What are we doing wrong?
Hey tax folks! First post here - hope I'm not breaking any rules! I'm really confused about our tax situation and hoping someone can explain what's going on. I thought we had adjusted everything correctly to break even this year, but apparently not. My wife and I file jointly with a combined income of about $225k. Last year, we got hit with a $1300 tax bill. My wife had been claiming 1 exemption, and I can't remember if she was withholding at the single rate or not. So this year, we both switched to 0 exemptions on our W-4s and selected the higher single withholding rate, thinking that would fix the problem. But we just did our taxes and we still owe around $1300! I'm so frustrated! Is there something else we should be doing with our withholdings? Is this just because of our income level and some kind of marriage penalty? We live in an expensive city where our income doesn't go as far as it would elsewhere, but I know tax brackets are the same nationwide. Out of curiosity, I plugged our info into TurboTax as if we were filing separately, and we both would've gotten small refunds! Should I just accept this and put aside money throughout the year to cover the tax bill? Or is there a better way to adjust withholdings so we break even? Thanks for any help you can offer!
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Brianna Schmidt
This is a common issue many couples face, especially at your income level. The "marriage penalty" isn't really a specific tax, but it can happen when two higher-earning spouses file jointly. The old W-4 system with allowances (0, 1, 2, etc.) has been completely redesigned. Since 2020, the IRS introduced a new W-4 form that doesn't use allowances anymore. It's now designed to be more straightforward, but that means your previous strategy isn't as effective. The simplest solution is to use the IRS Tax Withholding Estimator tool (search for it on irs.gov). Input your income, current withholding, and other details, and it will tell you exactly how to fill out your W-4s to get the result you want. Another option is to specify an additional dollar amount to be withheld from each paycheck. If you owe $1300 and get paid bi-weekly, adding about $50 extra withholding per paycheck for each of you would cover it. Also, check if you have any other income sources that aren't having taxes withheld - investment income, side gigs, etc. These can often be the culprit behind unexpected tax bills.
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Andrew Pinnock
•Thanks for the detailed explanation! I had no idea the W-4 system changed. That might explain why our strategy wasn't working. Does the Tax Withholding Estimator work well for dual-income households? And should we both adjust our W-4s, or just one of us?
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Brianna Schmidt
•The Tax Withholding Estimator is actually designed to handle multiple income sources, including dual-income households. It's particularly helpful for your situation since it accounts for both incomes together. You can adjust either or both of your W-4s. If it's easier, you could just have one person make all the adjustments (like having one person withhold extra). But splitting the changes between both W-4s might feel more balanced. The estimator will give you options for how to handle this.
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Alexis Renard
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Camila Jordan
•How is this different from just using the IRS Withholding Calculator? Does it actually give you different numbers? I've tried those online calculators before and they never seem to get it right for our situation.
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Tyler Lefleur
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Alexis Renard
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Camila Jordan
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Madeline Blaze
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Max Knight
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Emma Swift
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Madeline Blaze
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Emma Swift
Okay I need to apologize for being so skeptical about Claimyr in my earlier comment. I was desperate after reading this thread since I'm in the EXACT same situation as OP (married, both claiming 0, single rate, still owing $1400). I tried the service yesterday and I'm honestly shocked. After trying to call the IRS myself for THREE DAYS (being disconnected twice after waiting 1+ hours), Claimyr got me connected to an agent in about 15 minutes. The IRS agent was super helpful and explained that our issue was specifically related to having multiple jobs with similar income levels. She walked me through calculating exactly how much additional withholding we needed on each paycheck to break even next year. Turns out we each need to withhold an extra $77 per biweekly paycheck. For anyone struggling with withholding issues that seem complicated, getting personalized advice from an actual IRS agent made a huge difference. No more guessing or using calculators that don't seem to work for our situation!
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Isabella Tucker
Have you checked if you might be missing some deductions? My husband and I were in a similar situation ($240k combined income) and kept owing despite withholding at the single rate with 0 allowances. Turns out we weren't maximizing our retirement contributions. Once we both maxed out our 401ks, that lowered our taxable income enough that we broke even. Plus, you know, we're saving for retirement which is a bonus. Also, do you have any 1099 income on the side? Even small amounts of self-employment income without quarterly payments can push you into owing territory.
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Andrew Pinnock
•That's an interesting point about retirement contributions! We do contribute to our 401ks but definitely not maxing them out. How much difference did that make in your tax situation? And no, we don't have any 1099 income - just our regular W-2 jobs.
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Isabella Tucker
•For us, maxing out our 401ks made a huge difference. At your income level, it could save you around $8,000-10,000 in taxes annually depending on your tax bracket. When we went from contributing about 6% to the max (which is $22,500 per person for 2023), our withholding issues disappeared. It effectively reduced our taxable income by about $35,000 combined. It was a bit of a lifestyle adjustment to put that much away, but the tax savings plus the long-term retirement benefits made it worthwhile. And honestly, once it's automatically deducted, you adjust your spending and barely notice it.
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Jayden Hill
Check your state tax withholding too! Everyone's talking about federal, but my wife and I had this exact problem. We fixed our federal withholding but forgot about state taxes. We live in California with high state taxes, and even though our federal withholding was perfect, we were under-withholding for state.
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LordCommander
•This! I'm in NY and had the same issue. The state withholding tables don't always scale correctly with the federal ones, especially for dual-income households in high tax states.
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