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Annabel Kimball

Legitimate Tax Deductions for Claiming Child as Employee in Family Business

I've been reading a bunch of threads about hiring your kids in your business and claiming their wages as tax deductions. Recently caught an episode of Dave Ramsey where he seemed pretty against the whole concept, saying the IRS would flag it. I'm curious if anyone here has actually done this successfully? Are there legitimate ways to employ your children in your business that the IRS accepts, or is this one of those "too good to be true" tax strategies? Would love to hear some real-world experiences before I consider this for my small consulting business and my 15-year-old who's pretty tech-savvy.

Chris Elmeda

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This is actually a legitimate tax strategy when done correctly, but there are very specific rules you need to follow. The IRS does allow business owners to hire their children and deduct their wages as a business expense, but you need to treat it like a real job. First, the work must be necessary for your business and appropriate for their age. Second, you must pay them reasonable wages for the work performed - not excessive amounts. Third, keep detailed records of hours worked, tasks completed, and maintain proper payroll documentation. Fourth, if they're under 18 and it's a sole proprietorship or partnership owned entirely by parents, you don't have to withhold FICA taxes, which is an additional benefit. The real tax advantage comes because your business gets the deduction while your child can earn up to the standard deduction ($14,600 for 2025) tax-free. If they earn more, they'll pay taxes at their lower tax bracket.

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Jean Claude

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This sounds great in theory but how do you prove to the IRS that your kid is doing "necessary" work? My 14yo helps with social media for my shop but I'm worried about getting audited if I try to claim it.

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Chris Elmeda

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Documentation is your best defense. Take photos of your child working, maintain a detailed job description, have them clock in/out, and keep samples of their work whenever possible. For social media work, save screenshots of posts they create, engagement metrics, and any content calendars they develop. Regarding reasonable compensation, research what others in your area pay for similar work. If local businesses pay $15-18/hour for social media assistance, staying in that range strengthens your position. The key is treating the arrangement with the same professionalism as you would any other employee.

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Josef Tearle

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Does it actually check if the wage you're paying is reasonable? Like does it have data on what similar jobs pay in different areas? My daughter helps with bookkeeping but I'm not sure what's "reasonable" for a 16-year-old doing basic accounting.

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Shelby Bauman

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I'm skeptical about these online tools. Does it really help with the specific IRS requirements for family employment? Like does it create any forms or just give generic advice?

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Charity Cohan

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Laila Fury

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Has anyone here actually had an audit where this came up? I've been employing my teenagers in my restaurant for 3 years (washing dishes, bussing tables, food prep) and claiming the deduction. I pay them $13/hr which is what I pay other teen employees. Never had an issue but now I'm paranoid after reading about Ramsey's warnings.

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My brother got audited last year after claiming his 13yo as an employee in his consulting business. IRS rejected it because he couldn't prove the kid did actual work - no time sheets, no clear job description, and he was paying way above market rate. They disallowed like $8k in deductions plus penalties. Be careful!

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Laila Fury

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That's really helpful to know. I've always kept detailed timesheets and my kids punch in/out on the same system as my regular employees. We also have security cameras that show them working their shifts, and they're paid the same rate as non-family teen employees. Based on what you shared about your brother's experience, it sounds like my documentation would likely stand up to scrutiny. The key seems to be treating family members exactly like you would any other employee with proper records and reasonable pay rates.

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Simon White

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Dave Ramsey is wrong on this one. I've been employing my kids in my photography business for 5 years with no issues. My accountant set everything up properly. The trick is making sure the work is age-appropriate and actually needed. My 16yo manages my social media and assists at weddings, and my 14yo helps with photo editing and organization. I pay them market rates, keep meticulous records, and they file their own tax returns. It's 100% legitimate if done right!

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Hugo Kass

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Do they have to pay FICA/Medicare taxes on their earnings? I heard theres an exemption for kids under 18 in a family business??

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Simon White

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If you have a sole proprietorship or a partnership where the only partners are the child's parents, children under 18 are exempt from FICA taxes (Social Security and Medicare). This is a significant tax savings. However, if your business is structured as a corporation (including an S corporation) or an LLC taxed as a corporation, then your children's wages are subject to FICA taxes regardless of age. My business is a sole proprietorship specifically to take advantage of this exemption, saving about 15.3% on their wages.

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StarSeeker

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I've been successfully employing my 17-year-old in my marketing consulting business for two years now. She handles data entry, client research, and basic administrative tasks that I would otherwise outsource or do myself. The key is documentation - I have her sign timesheets, maintain detailed job descriptions, and pay her $16/hour which is competitive for entry-level admin work in our area. What really convinced me this was legitimate was when my CPA explained that the IRS actually encourages legitimate employment of family members because it redistributes income to lower tax brackets while teaching work ethic. The problems arise when people try to game the system with fake jobs or excessive wages. For your tech-savvy 15-year-old, tasks like website maintenance, basic data analysis, or social media management could be perfect fits for a consulting business. Just make sure you're paying fair wages and keeping records like you would for any employee. The tax savings are real - my daughter earns about $8,000 annually tax-free while my business saves on both the deduction and not having to pay FICA taxes on her wages.

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Jade Santiago

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This is really encouraging to hear from someone who's been doing it successfully for a couple years! I'm curious about the documentation you mentioned - do you have her track specific tasks completed each day or just hours worked? And have you ever had any questions from the IRS about it during regular filing, or has it been completely smooth sailing? I'm leaning toward trying this with my son but want to make sure I set up the record-keeping properly from day one.

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