Paying children from my sole proprietorship business - tax benefits and requirements?
Our family of 5 has a small side business that's been doing pretty well lately, especially considering how little time we need to spend running it these days. I've established the business as a sole proprietorship with my own EIN, and I operate under 3 different DBAs since we offer several different types of services. I recently heard that I could pay each of my three kids up to $12,950 per year tax-free (assuming they don't have other income from jobs), and that I could write off these payments as a business expense to potentially reduce our business profit to near zero. Of course, this would only apply if they're legitimately contributing work to the business. I'm planning to talk to my accountant during tax prep season, but I'd like to understand the logistics of this potential tax strategy before the year ends. Can I simply set my children up as independent contractors and issue them 1099s? What's the proper way to handle this to stay compliant while maximizing the tax benefit?
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CaptainAwesome
You can definitely pay your children from your sole proprietorship, but you need to set it up correctly! First, for kids under 18 working in a parent-owned sole prop, you don't need to withhold FICA taxes (Social Security and Medicare). That's a nice benefit right there. You also don't have to pay federal unemployment tax on their wages until they turn 21. Instead of 1099s, you should actually put them on payroll as employees and issue W-2s. This gives you better documentation for the IRS. Keep detailed records of hours worked, duties performed, and make sure the pay is reasonable for their age and the work they're doing. Make sure they're doing legitimate work for the business - cleaning the office, filing, basic computer tasks, modeling for photos if you sell products, etc. Pay them reasonable wages for their age and document everything. Remember that they'll need to file tax returns, but with the standard deduction ($12,950 for 2023), they likely won't owe any federal income tax if that's their only income.
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Yuki Tanaka
•Thanks for this info! I'm considering doing this with my teenager who helps with my Etsy shop. Question though - do I need to set up actual payroll software to do this properly? And does their money need to go into a specific type of account, or can I just transfer it to their regular savings account?
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CaptainAwesome
•You don't necessarily need payroll software, though it can make things easier. You can manually track their hours, pay, and taxes if your situation is simple. Just make sure you're keeping excellent records - hours worked, duties performed, and reasonable pay rates for their ages. For the bank accounts, you can deposit their earnings into any account, but I recommend setting up separate accounts in their names where you deposit their earnings. This creates a clear paper trail showing that they actually received the money. Some parents use custodial accounts they control until the kids are older, while others set up separate checking accounts with the kids as account holders.
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Esmeralda Gómez
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Klaus Schmidt
•How does this service work exactly? I'm trying to figure out if my lawn care sole prop can legitimately pay my 16 and 14 year olds. Do they connect you with actual tax pros or is it all automated?
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Aisha Patel
•I'm skeptical of AI tax tools... Did they actually give you specific documentation examples or just general advice? I've had bad experiences with "AI" solutions that just regurgitate generic information I could find anywhere.
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Esmeralda Gómez
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Aisha Patel
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Dmitri Volkov
•Wait, how does this actually work? Is this some kind of line-cutting service for the IRS? I didn't know that was even possible.
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Gabrielle Dubois
•This sounds like BS honestly. The IRS doesn't let people cut in line, and they're not going to give you specific tax advice over the phone anyway. They usually just direct you to publications or tell you to talk to a tax professional.
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LilMama23
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Gabrielle Dubois
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Tyrone Johnson
One thing nobody's mentioned yet - there are additional tax advantages beyond just income tax. When my brother and I helped with my dad's construction business as teenagers, we were able to open Roth IRAs with some of our earnings. Since we had earned income (even though we didn't owe any income tax on it because we were under the standard deduction), we could each contribute to Roth IRAs. That money has been growing tax-free for years now! Just make sure the kids actually do the work and you keep good records. My dad had us fill out simple timesheets and took photos of bigger projects we helped with. The IRS never questioned it.
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Ingrid Larsson
•Wait, really? My daughter is 15 and helps with my Etsy shop - taking product photos, packaging orders, etc. She can open a Roth IRA with that money? How much can she contribute?
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Tyrone Johnson
•Absolutely! If your daughter is earning legitimate income from your business (which it sounds like she is), she can open a Roth IRA regardless of her age. For 2023, she can contribute up to $6,500 or the total of her earned income, whichever is lower. For example, if she earns $4,000 working in your Etsy shop, she can contribute up to $4,000 to her Roth IRA. If she earns $8,000, she could contribute the full $6,500. The money grows tax-free, and since it's a Roth, she can withdraw the contributions (but not earnings) without penalties or taxes if she needs it before retirement age for things like education or a first home purchase.
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Carlos Mendoza
If you're going to do this, be SUPER careful with documentation. My friend tried this with his lawn care business and got audited. The IRS disallowed all the deductions for his kids because he couldn't prove they actually did the work or that the pay was reasonable. Keep a timesheet for each kid with dates, hours worked, and duties performed. Pay them regularly (biweekly or monthly) not just one big payment at year end. Take pictures of them working if possible. And pay them a reasonable wage for their age and the work they're doing - don't pay your 10-year-old $50/hour for stuffing envelopes!
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Zainab Mahmoud
•Would writing a job description for each kid be helpful too? I'm planning to implement this with my consulting business, and I'm thinking about creating actual job descriptions and "employment agreements" with my kids to make everything super official.
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Emma Wilson
•Absolutely! Having written job descriptions is a fantastic idea and shows you're treating this as a legitimate business arrangement. I'd recommend creating simple but specific job descriptions that outline duties appropriate for each child's age and abilities. For example, if your 12-year-old helps with filing and basic office tasks, write that up with specific duties like "organize client files alphabetically, prepare mailing envelopes, basic data entry under supervision." For older kids who can handle more complex tasks, be more detailed. Also consider having them sign a simple employment agreement (even if they're minors, it shows intent and documentation). Include their hourly rate, work schedule expectations, and basic workplace rules. This level of documentation shows the IRS you're running a real business operation, not just shifting money to avoid taxes. The key is making everything look professional and legitimate while still being age-appropriate. Your friend's audit situation is exactly why this documentation matters so much!
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Malik Johnson
Just a heads up for anyone considering this - make sure you understand the state requirements too! I implemented this strategy with my home-based marketing consulting business last year, paying my 16 and 14-year-old kids for legitimate work (social media management, data entry, client research). While the federal tax benefits worked exactly as described, I learned the hard way that some states have additional requirements for employing minors, even in family businesses. In my state, I needed to get work permits for both kids and follow specific hour restrictions during school months. Also, don't forget about workers' compensation insurance requirements - some states require it even for family employees in certain business types. I had to adjust my business insurance policy to cover them. The tax savings were definitely worth it (saved about $3,200 in taxes last year), but factor in these additional compliance costs when you're calculating the benefit. Still came out way ahead, but wished I'd known about the extra requirements upfront!
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Jayden Reed
•This is such an important point that often gets overlooked! I'm just starting to research this strategy for my freelance graphic design business, and I hadn't even considered state-specific requirements for employing minors. Can I ask what state you're in? I'm in California and wondering if I should contact the Department of Labor or if there's a specific agency that handles work permits for minors in family businesses. Also, did the workers' comp insurance add much to your costs, or was it a relatively small addition to your existing policy? Thanks for sharing your real-world experience - this kind of practical insight is exactly what I need to properly plan this out!
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