Is filing taxes as married still beneficial? Owing 2k after first year of marriage
This is my first time posting here, so sorry if I sound clueless. My wife and I just got married last summer and we're filing our taxes together for the first time. We've both always received refunds in previous years when filing single, but now we're shocked to see we owe around $2,700 to the IRS. We qualified for free tax preparation based on our household income, but all the in-person appointments were booked, so I used their online guided filing option instead. When we got to the end and saw that we owe money, I was convinced I must have made some mistake. My wife's cousin is a tax preparer and offered to look it over, but wants $600 for a full review and possible amendment. The timing couldn't be worse - my wife was laid off last month from her job, and we're already struggling with rent and utilities. Is there any way to challenge this tax bill or set up some kind of payment plan since we absolutely cannot pay $2,700 right now? I thought getting married was supposed to give you tax benefits, not make things worse! We filed jointly, to be clear - this $2,700 is our combined tax liability, not separate amounts.
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William Schwarz
Tax preparer here - marriage can actually create what's called a "marriage penalty" in some situations, especially if both spouses earn similar incomes. When you combine incomes, it can push you into a higher tax bracket than when you filed separately. The good news is you do have options. First, double-check that you claimed all possible deductions and credits. Some common missed ones are student loan interest, educational expenses, or health insurance premiums. Also verify that your employers withheld the correct amount - sometimes after marriage, people forget to update their W-4 forms to account for dual incomes. If the amount is correct, don't panic about not being able to pay immediately. The IRS offers payment plans that are fairly reasonable. You can set up an installment agreement online at irs.gov. The application fee is much lower than what you'd pay that CPA, and if you qualify as low income, the fee may be waived completely.
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Lauren Johnson
•But I thought the whole reason to get married was for tax benefits? My friends who got married always told me they saved money on taxes. Is that not true anymore? Also, how much is the IRS installment plan, like what's the minimum you can pay monthly?
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William Schwarz
•The "marriage benefit" typically applies when one spouse earns significantly more than the other or if one spouse doesn't work at all. When both spouses have similar incomes, especially if both are middle to high earners, they can face a penalty rather than a benefit. This is because our tax system isn't completely equalized between singles and married couples at all income levels. For IRS installment plans, you generally need to pay your balance within 72 months. The minimum monthly payment is your total balance divided by 72, but you can usually propose what you can afford. For a $2,700 balance, that's about $38 per month minimum, but you can offer to pay more if your budget allows. If you qualify as low income, you may also have additional payment options available to you.
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Jade Santiago
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Zoey Bianchi
Don't forget to check if you qualify for an Earned Income Tax Credit especially with one spouse not working now. That can significantly reduce what you owe or even give you a refund depending on your income level and if you have kids. Also, did you both adjust your W-4 withholdings after getting married? A lot of newlyweds forget this step and end up underwithholding throughout the year, which results in owing money at tax time.
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Ella Knight
•Thanks for mentioning this. We actually don't have kids yet, so I'm not sure if we'd qualify for the EITC. And honestly, I don't think either of us updated our W-4s after getting married - I didn't even know that was a thing we needed to do. Would fixing that help us for this year's taxes or just for next year?
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Zoey Bianchi
•You can still qualify for EITC without children, though the amount is smaller. It depends on your income level - for 2023 taxes, married couples filing jointly with no qualifying children can get EITC if their income is below about $24,210. Regarding the W-4 adjustments, unfortunately that would only help you for future tax years, not for the return you've already filed. But you should definitely both submit new W-4 forms to your employers right away to prevent this problem next year. When both spouses work, you often need to withhold at a higher rate than single filers to account for your combined income pushing you into higher tax brackets. The IRS has a Tax Withholding Estimator tool on their website that can help you fill out your W-4 correctly.
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Christopher Morgan
One thing no one's mentioned yet - have you considered filing Married Filing Separately instead of jointly? Sometimes that can result in a lower tax bill depending on your situation, especially if one of you has significant medical expenses or other itemized deductions.
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Aurora St.Pierre
•This is generally bad advice for most people. MFS rarely results in tax savings and actually disqualifies you from several tax benefits like education credits, child care credits, and earned income credit. It's usually only beneficial in very specific situations like when one spouse has income-based student loan payments or massive medical expenses.
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