IRS hit us with a $7,000 tax bill - need urgent advice on what to do
I am freaking out right now and could really use some help from anyone who's been through this. My wife and I got married 5 years ago and for the second year in a row, we're having serious tax problems. I just finished entering our W2s in TurboTax and nearly had a heart attack. When I put in just my W2, I was supposed to get a small refund (about $400). But as soon as I added my wife's W2, suddenly we owe the IRS more than $7,000! How is this even possible? After going back and checking our W4s from last year, I realized neither of us had checked the box indicating that both spouses work. We both did select to have additional withholding taken out of our paychecks, but apparently it wasn't nearly enough. We've already fixed our W4s for this year (plus we had a baby last year, so we updated for that too), but that doesn't help us with this immediate problem. Between us, we had over $7,000 in federal taxes withheld throughout the year, and we STILL owe another $7,000+? That seems insane. We absolutely don't have $7,000 sitting around to pay the IRS. Our savings took a hit with the baby expenses and we're just getting by month to month. Can anyone advise on what options we have? Payment plans? Offers in compromise? Any way to reduce what we owe? I'm desperate here.
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Mei Lin
Congratulations on your new baby! I know this tax situation feels overwhelming, but you've got several options here. This is a common issue for dual-income couples. When both spouses work but don't indicate that on W4 forms, the withholding tables don't account for the fact that your combined income pushes you into a higher tax bracket. Each employer withholds as if that job is your only income, which creates the shortfall you're seeing. The good news is the IRS offers payment plans that are fairly easy to set up. You can apply online for an installment agreement using Form 9465 or through the IRS website. If you owe less than $50,000, you can usually get up to 72 months to pay. The setup fee is around $31 if you use direct debit and apply online. There's also an option called an Offer in Compromise if you truly can't pay the full amount, but those are harder to qualify for and take longer to process. Given your situation, a payment plan is probably your best first step.
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Jamal Wilson
•Thank you so much for this information. I didn't realize it was the tax bracket issue causing this massive difference. How much does the IRS typically charge in interest and penalties if we go with a payment plan? And should we still file on time even if we can't pay the full amount?
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Mei Lin
•You should absolutely file on time even if you can't pay the full amount. Filing late results in a penalty of 5% of the unpaid taxes for each month your return is late, up to 25%. The failure-to-pay penalty is much smaller at 0.5% per month. For interest, the IRS charges the federal short-term rate plus 3%, which currently totals about 7-8% annually. It's not ideal, but it's lower than most credit cards. You'll continue to accrue these charges until the balance is paid off, but if you set up a plan and stick to it, you'll be okay. Remember that you can always pay more than the minimum payment to reduce interest costs.
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Liam Fitzgerald
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Amara Nnamani
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Giovanni Mancini
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Amara Nnamani
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NebulaNinja
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Fatima Al-Suwaidi
•How exactly does that work? Do they just call the IRS for you or what? The IRS phone system is a nightmare but I'm confused about how a third party service can get around their phone system.
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Giovanni Mancini
•This sounds too good to be true. The IRS is notoriously impossible to reach. I've spent literally days of my life on hold with them. If this actually worked, everyone would use it. Plus, isn't it dangerous to have a third party involved with your tax matters?
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NebulaNinja
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Giovanni Mancini
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Dylan Mitchell
Another thing to consider - file your return on time even if you can't pay! This seems obvious but many people delay filing because they can't pay, which makes everything worse. The penalties for not filing (5% per month) are 10x worse than penalties for not paying (0.5% per month). Plus if you can't pay right away, you can request a short-term extension of up to 120 days at no cost - something few people know about. Also, figure out if you qualify for first-time penalty abatement. If you've had a clean tax record for the past 3 years, the IRS will often waive penalties (though not interest) on a first-time issue.
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Jamal Wilson
•Do you know how I can specifically request this first-time penalty abatement? Would I need to call the IRS directly or is there a form? We've never had issues before these last two years so maybe we qualify.
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Dylan Mitchell
•You can request first-time abatement by calling the IRS directly - there's no specific form for it. When you call, specifically ask for "first-time penalty abatement" under the IRS First Time Abatement policy. Be prepared to verify that you haven't had penalties in the prior 3 tax years. Alternatively, you can write a penalty abatement letter after you receive a bill with penalties. Include your name, address, SSN, and a statement requesting first-time abatement. Make it clear you've had a clean compliance history and are taking steps to avoid future issues (like updating your W4s, which you've already done).
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Sofia Morales
If you're looking for a cheaper solution, consider putting part of the tax bill on a 0% interest credit card if you qualify for one, and setting up a payment plan with the IRS for the rest. I did this last year when hit with a $5k surprise bill. Got approved for a card with 15 months no interest, put $3k on that, and set up a manageable payment plan with the IRS for the remaining $2k. Just make sure you can pay off the card before the promotional period ends or you'll get hit with high interest.
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Dmitry Popov
•This could be dangerous advice depending on the person's credit situation. IRS interest rates (currently around 7-8%) are often lower than credit card rates after promotional periods (often 18-25%). If they can't pay off the card in time, they'd be in worse shape.
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