How to claim a cousin as a dependent on my tax return?
I need some help figuring out a dependent situation for my taxes. My cousin, who is 16, has been living with me for the entire year. I've been supporting her financially - covering about 70% of her expenses. When I started doing my taxes and tried to claim her as a dependent, I ran into a problem. In the tax software I'm using, there's no specific option for "cousin" in the dropdown menu for relationship. I ended up selecting "other" but then the software said I wouldn't qualify for the earned income credit. I'm not sure if I'm using the right terminology here, but basically I'm wondering if there's any way around this? Can I still claim her and get that tax break, or am I just out of luck because she's my cousin rather than another type of relative? Any advice would be super appreciated! This is my first time dealing with this situation.
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Aisha Abdullah
You're running into an issue with the IRS distinction between "qualifying child" and "qualifying relative" for dependency purposes. Unfortunately, a cousin doesn't meet the relationship test for a qualifying child under IRS rules - only children, siblings, nieces/nephews, and stepchildren qualify under that category. Your cousin can still be claimed as a "qualifying relative" if they meet all these tests: 1) They lived with you all year, 2) Their gross income was less than $4,500, 3) You provided more than half their support, and 4) They can't be claimed as a qualifying child by anyone else. The downside is that qualifying relatives don't make you eligible for the Earned Income Credit (EIC) - that credit specifically requires a qualifying child. The "other" designation in your software is correct. You can still claim her as a dependent and get the dependent tax deduction, just not the EIC.
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GalaxyGuardian
•Thanks for explaining! So just to be clear, I can still get the dependent deduction for her, just not the Earned Income Credit? About how much difference does that make to my refund? Also, is there any other classification I could use that would let me qualify for the EIC with her? She really is 100% dependent on me.
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Aisha Abdullah
•Yes, you can definitely still claim her as a dependent and receive the dependent tax deduction, which is worth $2,000 in tax savings. You just won't qualify for the Earned Income Credit with her as your dependent. The EIC value varies based on your income level, but could be worth several thousand dollars depending on your situation. Unfortunately, there's no way to classify her differently - the IRS rules are very specific about which relationships qualify for EIC purposes, and cousins simply aren't on that list. Even though she's completely dependent on you, the relationship test for EIC can't be worked around. The rules are based on your specific relationship to the dependent, not just the level of support you provide.
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Jamal Brown
I went through this exact situation last year with my 17-year-old cousin. Here's what I learned: The IRS publication you want to look at is Publication 501. It explains that cousins can only be "qualifying relatives" not "qualifying children" - which means you get the dependent deduction (which helps!) but not the EIC. One thing nobody mentioned yet - check if you qualify for "Head of Household" filing status since you're supporting your cousin. That lower tax rate might help offset some of the loss from not getting EIC. You'd need to provide more than half the cost of keeping up the home, and your cousin would need to have lived with you the entire year (which you said they did). Don't beat yourself up about the EIC thing - the rules are what they are. At least you still get some tax benefit for supporting her!
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Mei Zhang
•Can you explain more about the Head of Household thing? I thought you needed to have a qualifying child for that, and if a cousin doesn't count as a qualifying child for EIC, would they count for Head of Household?
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Jamal Brown
•Good question! The Head of Household rules are slightly different. You can qualify with a "qualifying person" who lived with you more than half the year. A qualifying person can be your qualifying child OR any relative (including a cousin) that you can claim as a dependent. So even though your cousin doesn't meet the relationship test to be a qualifying child for EIC purposes, they CAN be your qualifying person for Head of Household purposes if you provided more than half their support, they lived with you the whole year, and you paid more than half the cost of keeping up the home. This filing status can save you quite a bit compared to filing as Single.
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Liam McConnell
Has anyone used TurboTax for claiming a non-traditional dependent like this? I'm trying to claim my step-brother's son who lives with me but the software seems confused every time I try to enter the relationship.
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Amara Oluwaseyi
•I used H&R Block software last year for a similar situation with my cousin. When I selected "Other Relative" it walked me through additional questions to make sure I understood which credits I qualified for. The software was pretty clear that I wouldn't get EIC but would still get the dependent deduction. Maybe try H&R Block instead?
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