Do I have to claim my adult child as a dependent on my taxes?

This is actually a common question with adult children. If your daughter meets the criteria for being your dependent, you're technically supposed to claim her - but there's more to consider here. For someone to be your qualifying child dependent, they must: 1) be related to you, 2) live with you for more than half the year, 3) be under 19 or under 24 if a full-time student, 4) not provide more than half of their own support, and 5) not file a joint return. Based on what you've shared, it sounds like your daughter meets these criteria. The IRS doesn't have a system that automatically flags when eligible dependents aren't claimed. However, if your daughter tries to claim herself while meeting the criteria to be your dependent, she's technically filing incorrectly. This could potentially cause issues if either return is audited. Have you considered running the numbers both ways? Calculate the total tax benefit to your household if you claim her versus if she claims herself. Then make an informed decision based on your family's situation.

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Here's what my CPA told me when I was in this situation: If your child qualifies as your dependent but you choose not to claim them, they still have to check the box on their return saying they "can be claimed as a dependent" which will prevent them from claiming credits that dependents aren't eligible for. However, there's a workaround worth exploring. If your daughter pays for more than half of her own support, she would no longer qualify as your dependent. Tuition and education expenses she pays herself (even from student loans in her name) count toward her support. You might want to recalculate the support test counting all education expenses she's responsible for. For our family, we found that when we properly counted all expenses, our son actually did provide more than half his support when we included his student loans and part-time job, which legitimately made him independent.

Has anyone noticed the wording of the education credit form? It asks if "you can be claimed" not if "you are claimed" as a dependent. I made this mistake with my son and it triggered an audit because he claimed education credits when he technically could have been claimed as my dependent (even though I didn't claim him). The IRS agent explained that the system flags contradictions in how the support test is applied between related taxpayers. We had to provide extensive documentation of exactly how much support he provided for himself. It ended up being a huge hassle and we owed penalties. Just be careful and make sure you're following the actual rules, not just what seems most beneficial.