How do I handle a gift from siblings living in a foreign country for US taxes?
So my situation is pretty unique and I'm feeling lost about the tax implications. My sister and brother who live in Japan are planning to send me a substantial gift (around $32,000 collectively) to help with my down payment on a house here in the US. From what I understand, in the US when someone gives a gift to another person, the giver is responsible for any gift tax. But my siblings live in Japan where apparently the recipient (me) would be the one who pays the tax according to their laws. I'm really confused about whose rules apply here. Since I'm a US citizen receiving money from non-US citizens in another country, do I need to pay gift tax here in the US? Or does my sister and brother need to deal with the US gift tax even though they don't live here? Or maybe neither of us pays anything to the US? Has anyone dealt with international family gifts before? I don't want to mess this up since it's a significant amount of money. Thanks for any help!
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Harper Collins
The good news is that as the recipient of a gift in the US, you generally don't have to pay any gift tax or include the gift in your income - regardless of whether the gift comes from a US person or a foreign person. For foreign donors (like your siblings in Japan), the US gift tax rules still technically apply to them if they're giving gifts to US citizens, but there are important exceptions. Non-US citizens who aren't US residents (it sounds like your siblings fit this category) are only subject to US gift tax on transfers of certain US-situated property (like US real estate or tangible personal property physically located in the US). If your siblings are sending you money (cash/wire transfer), that's not considered US-situated property, so they wouldn't be subject to US gift tax rules. Your siblings may still need to deal with Japan's gift tax rules since that's their country of residence. Just make sure to keep good records of the gift. While you don't need to report it as income, if you receive more than $100,000 from foreign sources in a year, you might need to file Form 3520 (Annual Return to Report Transactions with Foreign Trusts and Receipt of Certain Foreign Gifts).
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Kelsey Hawkins
•Wait I'm confused. I thought there was a $17k annual gift limit before the donor has to file paperwork? Does that not apply if the money is coming from non-US citizens?
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Harper Collins
•You're thinking of the annual gift tax exclusion, which is actually $18,000 for 2024 (it was $17,000 for 2023). You're right that this exists, but the rules apply differently for non-resident aliens (people who aren't US citizens or residents). For gifts of non-US situated property (like cash transfers from abroad), non-resident aliens generally aren't subject to US gift tax at all, regardless of the amount. The US gift tax system primarily focuses on US citizens, US residents, and transfers of US-situated property by foreign persons.
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Dylan Fisher
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Edwards Hugo
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Gianna Scott
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Edwards Hugo
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Caleb Bell
Doesn't the FBAR requirement come into play here too? If you're receiving money from overseas and it goes into your bank account, don't you have to report that if your foreign accounts exceed $10k at any point?
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Danielle Campbell
•FBAR is for when YOU have foreign financial accounts that total over $10k. If your siblings just wire money directly to your US bank account, that's not an FBAR issue since you don't have a foreign account yourself.
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Caleb Bell
•Thanks for the clarification! That makes sense - I was confusing the FBAR requirements with the foreign gift reporting. So basically if the money just comes straight to my US account, no FBAR needed, but potentially Form 3520 if it's over $100k from foreign sources.
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Rhett Bowman
Something nobody has mentioned yet - make sure your siblings document this properly on their end too. My cousins in Korea sent me money last year, and while I didn't have to pay US tax, they got hit with gift tax in Korea. Different countries have different thresholds and rules. Japan definitely has gift taxes so they should check with a local tax professional there!
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Donna Cline
•That's a really good point I hadn't considered. I'll definitely tell my sister and brother to check the Japanese gift tax rules before they send the money. I don't want them to be surprised with an unexpected tax bill on their end while I'm not paying anything here. Do you know if they need to file anything with the US government even though they're not US citizens? Or is their tax obligation strictly with Japan?
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Rhett Bowman
•From what I understand, they generally wouldn't need to file anything with the US government for a cash gift if they're not US citizens/residents and they're transferring non-US property (like money from a Japanese bank account). Their obligations would be primarily with the Japanese tax authorities. Japan does have pretty significant gift taxes that vary based on the relationship and amount. I think for siblings the exemption amount is fairly small there compared to the US. They should definitely consult with a Japanese tax professional because their system works quite differently from ours!
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Keisha Jackson
This is such a helpful thread! I'm in a similar situation where my parents in the UK want to help with my wedding expenses. Reading through everyone's experiences, it sounds like the key points are: (1) I won't owe any gift tax as the recipient, (2) my parents likely won't have US gift tax obligations since they're non-US residents giving cash, and (3) I need to be aware of the Form 3520 requirement if it's over $100k. One thing I'm wondering about - does the timing of when the money arrives matter? Like if my parents send $50k this year and another $50k next year, would that change the reporting requirements since each individual year would be under $100k? Or does the IRS look at the total gift amount regardless of when it's received? Also, has anyone dealt with currency conversion issues? I assume we'd use the exchange rate on the day the money is received for any reporting purposes?
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Sean Fitzgerald
•Great questions! From my understanding, the Form 3520 reporting threshold is calculated on an annual basis, so if you receive $50k this year and $50k next year, each year would be under the $100k threshold and you wouldn't need to file Form 3520 for either year. The IRS looks at it year by year, not as a cumulative total across multiple years. For currency conversion, you're absolutely right - you'd use the exchange rate on the date the funds are received or deposited into your US account. The IRS typically accepts using the Treasury's published exchange rates for that date, though you could also use other reasonable sources like major bank rates. Just make sure to document which rate you used and keep records in case you ever need to show your calculations. One other thing to consider - even though the reporting thresholds are annual, it might be worth keeping detailed records of all international gifts regardless of amount. It helps establish a clear paper trail if questions ever come up later, especially since you're dealing with substantial amounts across multiple years.
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