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Angelica Smith

Is money from family considered under gift tax if I'm borrowing and paying back?

I recently had to relocate to a different city after going through some major personal changes. My brother has offered to help me out financially until I get back on my feet. The amount he's willing to let me borrow is pretty substantial (around $30,000) to cover my initial housing deposit, first few months rent, and some furniture since I had to leave most of my stuff behind. I'm planning to pay him back within 6-8 months once I'm settled in my new job, but we don't have any formal loan agreement or interest terms - it's just a family helping family situation. What I'm confused about is whether the IRS would consider this a gift in both directions? Like when he sends me the money initially, and then again when I pay him back? I've heard about gift tax rules but don't fully understand how they apply to family loans. It seems kind of ridiculous that the IRS would count both transactions as separate gifts when it's clearly just borrowed money, even if it's interest-free. Do I need to worry about either of us having tax implications from this arrangement?

The good news is you don't need to worry too much about this situation. The IRS distinguishes between genuine loans and gifts, even between family members. For it to be considered a legitimate loan and not a gift, you should create a simple written agreement stating the loan amount and repayment terms. The agreement doesn't need to be complicated - just something documenting that both parties understand it's a loan meant to be repaid. While technically loans between family members should charge at least the "applicable federal rate" of interest to avoid being partially classified as a gift, the IRS generally doesn't scrutinize family loans unless they involve very large amounts. For 2025, the annual gift tax exclusion is $19,000 per person. This means your brother can give you up to $19,000 per year without even needing to report it. Even if he gives you more than that amount, he would only need to file a gift tax form - he wouldn't actually owe any taxes unless he's already given away millions throughout his lifetime. When you pay him back, those repayments aren't considered gifts at all - they're simply loan repayments, which have no gift tax implications.

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What if we already transferred some money without creating a loan document first? Is it too late to create one now? Also, what's this "applicable federal rate" you mentioned - is that something I need to worry about?

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It's not too late to create a loan document now, even if some money has already been transferred. Just make sure it covers the full amount and is signed by both parties. Backdating it slightly to when you first discussed the arrangement is generally acceptable in this kind of family situation. The Applicable Federal Rate (AFR) is the minimum interest rate the IRS requires for loans to avoid being considered partially a gift. For 2025, short-term AFRs are around 3-4% depending on the month. However, for family loans under $100,000, the IRS has a special provision where if the borrower's net investment income is less than $1,000 for the year, you can essentially have an interest-free loan without gift tax consequences. And even if you do charge interest, your brother would need to report that interest as income, but that's typically a small amount.

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Something nobody's mentioned yet - make sure you're clear on who's responsible for reporting what if you do charge interest on the loan. If your brother charges you even a small amount of interest, he technically needs to report that as income on his tax return. It's not a big deal with small amounts, but worth knowing. My sister loaned me $15k last year and charged me 1% interest just to make it official. She had to report the $150 interest on her taxes. Not a huge deal, but something to be aware of.

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Does the brother actually need to issue a 1099-INT in this case? Or just report it as miscellaneous income?

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For small loans between family members, a formal 1099-INT isn't typically required. Your brother would simply report the interest received as "interest income" on his Schedule B if he itemizes his interest income, or directly on line 2b of Form 1040 if it's a smaller amount. The IRS doesn't generally expect family members to go through the formal 1099-INT process for personal loans, but the income still needs to be reported. The most important thing is having documentation of your loan agreement in case either of you gets audited down the road.

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Alexis Renard

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I went through this exact situation with my parents helping me buy a car last year. Here's what worked for us - we created a super simple one-page loan document that included: - The exact amount borrowed ($22,500) - A minimal interest rate (we used 2%) - A payment schedule (monthly for 2 years) - Both our signatures Nothing fancy, no notary or anything. This made it crystal clear it was a loan, not a gift. I've been paying them back monthly, and neither of us had any tax issues. The interest they've received is so small they just included it with their other interest income. The IRS isn't out to get you on family helping family situations as long as you have some basic documentation showing it's actually a loan you intend to repay.

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Camila Jordan

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Did you use any specific template for that loan document? I need to create something similar with my mom but don't want to pay a lawyer for something simple.

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Alexis Renard

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I just used a free template I found online after searching "simple family loan agreement template." The key elements were making sure it had the loan amount, interest rate (even if small), payment schedule, and both our signatures. I didn't use anything fancy or pay for legal services. Most important parts were being specific about repayment terms and having both signatures. We also each kept a copy. It doesn't need to be complicated - the IRS just wants to see there's a genuine expectation of repayment, which distinguishes a loan from a gift.

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