Tax implications of getting a $200k family loan from parents - HELOC or mortgage?
My parents have offered to help me out with a $150k loan for my home renovation project. I've been researching options and thought maybe they could take out a HELOC or a new mortgage on their house (which is completely paid off) to get the funds. We're considering keeping just their names on the loan since adding mine would apparently increase the interest rate (we all maintain excellent credit scores). I'm trying to understand the tax implications of this arrangement. Is it considered legal for my parents to take out this loan and then provide me with the money as a "gift loan" where I'd be responsible for paying the principal and interest payments to the bank, but I wouldn't pay my parents any additional interest? I understand this would need to be documented as a gift for tax purposes. I've searched online but most information I find relates to parents directly paying off their child's existing mortgage or medical bills, outright gifts, or traditional family loans with interest. I can't find details on my specific situation where they would be the official borrowers but I'd be making all the payments. I know I'd need to fill out proper tax forms so the IRS can track everything, but I'm unclear on the specifics. Anyone familiar with the tax rules around this kind of family loan arrangement?
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Cole Roush
The arrangement you're describing has some important tax implications you need to understand. What you're talking about is basically a "nominee loan" where your parents are borrowing the money but you're the one using it and making the payments. While this can work, the IRS has rules about family loans to prevent people from avoiding gift taxes or income taxes. When your parents take out a loan and give you the money, if you don't pay them interest at least equal to the IRS's Applicable Federal Rate (AFR), the IRS considers the unpaid interest as a gift from your parents to you. They would need to report this on their gift tax return if it exceeds the annual exclusion amount. For a loan this size, proper documentation is crucial. You should create a formal promissory note specifying the loan amount, payment schedule, and interest rate (even if it's 0%). Your parents should report the mortgage interest they pay on their tax return if applicable, and you wouldn't get to deduct those interest payments since the loan isn't in your name.
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Scarlett Forster
•If the parents report the mortgage interest on their taxes but the child is actually making the payments, isn't that a bit sketchy since the child is essentially getting the benefit of the mortgage without it being in their name? Also, would the bank consider this arrangement a form of fraud since the parents aren't the ones actually using the loan or making the payments?
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Cole Roush
•The mortgage interest deduction goes to whoever is legally obligated on the loan, so the parents would be entitled to the deduction even if their child makes the payments. It's not sketchy if everything is properly documented - the parents took out the loan, they're legally responsible for it, so they get the deduction. Regarding the bank, this could potentially be an issue if the loan agreement specifically prohibits this type of arrangement. Many lending agreements include clauses about how the money can be used. The lender might consider it a violation of terms if they discover the funds were passed to someone else. It's definitely worth reviewing the fine print or even discussing this upfront with the lender to avoid any complications.
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Arnav Bengali
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Sayid Hassan
•How long did the analysis take? Did it actually provide the specific tax forms you needed to fill out? I'm in a similar situation but with a smaller loan amount ($75k) from my uncle.
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Rachel Tao
•Did they give you any guidance on how to structure the repayment plan? My parents want to help me but they're nervous about the whole "gift loan" thing and want to make sure everything's properly documented to avoid future issues with the IRS.
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Arnav Bengali
•The analysis took about 15 minutes from upload to getting the report. It identified all the required forms including Form 9465 for the payment plan documentation and Form 709 for gift tax reporting if applicable. It also provided templates for a proper promissory note. Yes, it gave detailed guidance on structuring the repayment plan, including sample language for the promissory note and recommendations for using the minimum applicable federal rate (AFR). It explained how to properly document everything so both parties are protected and IRS-compliant. The guidance was especially helpful for showing how to separate the loan from any gift elements to keep everything clean for tax purposes.
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Rachel Tao
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Anna Kerber
Something nobody has mentioned yet - if your parents do a HELOC, the interest might be deductible for them ONLY if the money is used to buy, build, or substantially improve their own home. Since they're giving the money to you, they might lose the mortgage interest deduction, which could be a significant tax hit for them. Also, there are annual gift tax limits ($17,000 per person for 2023). If they "loan" you money but don't charge at least the minimum IRS interest rate (Applicable Federal Rate or AFR), the IRS can reclassify the "forgiven" interest as a gift. This could create additional gift tax reporting requirements.
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Jasmine Hancock
•Thanks for pointing this out! So if they get the HELOC but then give me the money, they'd lose the interest deduction since it's not being used on their home? Would that still be true if I'm using it to renovate a portion of their property that I'll be living in? And regarding the gift tax limits, if they charge me the minimum AFR, would we avoid those gift tax reporting requirements entirely?
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Anna Kerber
•If you're renovating a portion of their property that you'll be living in, that could potentially qualify as improving their home, which might preserve the interest deduction. However, this gets complicated quickly and depends on ownership details, so you'd want professional advice specific to your situation. Regarding the gift tax, yes - if they charge you at least the minimum Applicable Federal Rate (AFR), which is quite low compared to commercial rates, you would generally avoid the "below-market loan" rules that trigger gift tax implications. The AFR changes monthly, but it's published on the IRS website. Make sure to document everything with a formal promissory note that specifies the interest rate, payment schedule, and other terms to demonstrate this is a legitimate loan arrangement.
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Niko Ramsey
Has anyone considered the option of an intra-family mortgage instead? My brother loaned me $175k to buy my house and we used a service to create a legally binding mortgage with him as the lender. I got a lower rate than the bank offered, he got better returns than his savings account, and everything is properly documented for tax purposes. The advantage is that everything is clearly aboveboard with the IRS since it's structured as a traditional mortgage, just with a family member as the lender. I can even deduct the mortgage interest I pay him, and he reports the interest as income. Might be cleaner than the HELOC arrangement.
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Seraphina Delan
•Did you need a lawyer to set this up or did you use some online service? I've been thinking about doing something similar with my parents but wasn't sure about the documentation needed.
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Molly Chambers
One thing to keep in mind is that if your parents take out a HELOC or mortgage in their names but you're making the payments, you'll want to make sure the loan agreement doesn't prohibit this arrangement. Some lenders have clauses about the borrower being the actual user of funds. Also, consider the liability aspect - if something happens and you can't make the payments, your parents are still legally responsible for the debt. This could put their home at risk. You might want to explore getting life insurance or disability insurance to protect them in case you become unable to pay. From a practical standpoint, you'll need to set up a system where you can reliably make the payments directly to the lender or reimburse your parents immediately. Any delays could affect their credit score since they're the official borrowers. Having a separate account dedicated to these payments might help keep everything organized and documented for tax purposes.
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