Is interest on a promissory note from family member tax deductible for my home purchase?
My uncle is going to lend me about $120,000 to buy my first house (which will be my primary residence). I've been looking at properties in the $385,000-$425,000 range, and he's offered to help with this loan instead of me going through a traditional bank for part of it. We're planning to draw up a proper promissory note with interest and everything to make it official. I'm wondering if the interest I'll be paying him on this family loan would still be tax deductible like a regular mortgage? I know I can deduct mortgage interest on my taxes, but wasn't sure if it works the same way when the loan is from a family member rather than a financial institution. Any insights would be super helpful before we finalize everything!
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Emma Wilson
Yes, you can absolutely deduct the interest on a promissory note from a family member for your primary residence - but there are some important requirements to make sure it qualifies! The loan needs to be properly documented with a written agreement that specifies the loan amount, repayment schedule, and interest rate. The loan also needs to be secured by the property (meaning they could technically foreclose if you don't pay), and you'll need to record a proper mortgage or deed of trust with your local government. Make sure your uncle reports the interest income he receives from you on his taxes too. The IRS looks at both sides of family loans to ensure they're legitimate. Also, be aware that the interest rate should be at least equal to the minimum federal rate (AFR) published by the IRS for the month the loan is made - otherwise it could be considered a gift with different tax implications.
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Malik Davis
•Wait so do I need to actually put the house up as collateral? What if we just want to do a personal loan but I'm still using it for the house? Does that still count for the mortgage interest deduction?
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Emma Wilson
•Yes, for the interest to be deductible as mortgage interest, the loan must be secured by the property - meaning the house itself serves as collateral. This requires recording a mortgage or deed of trust with your local county records office. If you just do a personal unsecured loan, even if you use the money for your house, you cannot deduct the interest as mortgage interest on your taxes. The IRS is very specific about this requirement - the loan must be legally secured by your primary residence to qualify for the mortgage interest deduction.
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Isabella Santos
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Ravi Gupta
•How exactly does the analysis work? Like do I need to have the promissory note already written up before using it, or can they help with creating one that's IRS-friendly?
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GalacticGuru
•I've heard about services like this but always wondered if they're really any better than just asking an accountant. Did they actually find something an accountant would have missed? I'm skeptical of AI tools for something this important.
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Isabella Santos
•The analysis works by scanning your existing documents and checking for specific language and terms required by the IRS for family loans to qualify for mortgage interest deductions. You'd want to have a draft ready to upload, but they'll highlight all the issues that need fixing. They're actually complementary to working with an accountant - many accountants focus on tax filing but aren't document specialists. In my case, they identified missing security provisions that my accountant hadn't caught because she wasn't a real estate attorney. Their system is trained on thousands of IRS-reviewed documents, so it recognizes patterns that make certain terms deductible or not.
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GalacticGuru
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Omar Fawaz
•How does this even work? The IRS phone system is notoriously impossible to get through. Are you saying this service somehow jumps the queue or something?
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GalacticGuru
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Chloe Anderson
One thing nobody mentioned yet - the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act of 2017 really changed the mortgage interest deduction rules. Now you can only deduct interest on up to $750k of qualified residence loans (for married filing jointly, $375k for single). Also, you might need to itemize deductions to claim the mortgage interest, and with the higher standard deduction ($13,850 for singles in 2023), it might not make sense to itemize unless you have lots of other deductions too.
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Diego Vargas
•Does the $750k limit apply to the combined total if you have both a regular mortgage from a bank plus a family loan? Like if I have a $500k mortgage plus a $300k family loan, does that put me over the limit?
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Chloe Anderson
•Yes, the $750,000 limit applies to the combined total of all loans used to buy, build, or substantially improve your primary residence. So in your example of a $500,000 bank mortgage plus a $300,000 family loan, your total would be $800,000, which exceeds the $750,000 cap. In that scenario, you could only deduct interest on $750,000 of the total $800,000 in loans. You'd need to calculate what percentage of your total interest paid corresponds to that $750,000, and that's what would be deductible. It's definitely worth running the numbers to see if itemizing makes sense given your particular situation.
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Anastasia Fedorov
Make sure the interest rate isn't too low or the IRS might consider it a gift! There's something called the Applicable Federal Rate (AFR) which is the minimum interest rate that should be charged for family loans. It changes monthly. If the rate is below AFR, the IRS might recharacterize part of the loan as a gift and then your uncle could have gift tax issues.
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StarStrider
•Where can I find the current AFR rates? I'm planning a similar family loan next month and want to make sure we set the right interest rate.
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Miguel Ramos
•You can find the current AFR rates on the IRS website at irs.gov - they publish them monthly in Revenue Rulings. Just search for "Applicable Federal Rates" or "AFR rates." The rates are broken down by loan term (short-term, mid-term, and long-term) and are updated every month. For a home purchase loan like yours, you'd typically use the long-term AFR since it's likely to be a multi-year loan. You can also find historical AFR rates there if you need to look up what the rate was for a specific month. Make sure to use the AFR that was in effect during the month you actually make the loan, not when you're planning it.
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Lindsey Fry
Just want to add one more consideration that's often overlooked - make sure you and your uncle both understand the payment tracking requirements! Since this will be treated as a legitimate mortgage for tax purposes, you'll need to keep detailed records of all payments made throughout the year. Your uncle should probably issue you a Form 1098 (Mortgage Interest Statement) by January 31st each year showing how much interest you paid, just like a bank would. If he doesn't issue one, you can still deduct the interest, but you'll need to provide his name, address, and SSN on your tax return when you claim the deduction. Also worth noting - if you ever refinance or pay off the family loan early, make sure to handle any prepayment penalties or forgiven debt properly for tax purposes. The IRS scrutinizes family loans more closely than bank loans, so having everything properly documented from day one will save you headaches later!
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Emma Wilson
•This is really helpful info about the Form 1098 requirement! I hadn't thought about that part. Quick question - if my uncle doesn't want to deal with issuing a 1098 form, does that mean I can't claim the deduction? Or is providing his SSN and address on my return when I file sufficient for the IRS? I want to make sure I understand the backup documentation requirements in case he's not comfortable with the extra paperwork.
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