Gift tax exclusion from foreign family member - will I owe taxes on overseas gift for house down payment?
Hey everyone, I'm in a bit of a time crunch and could really use some advice. My relative from Europe has surprisingly gifted me a substantial amount of money that I'm planning to use as a down payment on a house. This was completely unexpected but obviously amazing timing for me. The mortgage company I'm working with asked for a "Gift Letter" which my European family member signed and sent over. But now my mom is freaking out saying the lender will report this to the IRS and I'll get slammed with a huge tax bill. I did some quick research and found that there's an annual gift tax exclusion of around $18,000 per person, plus a lifetime exemption of like $13.99 million. From what I understand, if the gift exceeds the annual $18,000 limit, the giver can file "Form 709" to apply the difference toward their lifetime exemption, meaning no actual taxes would be owed. My big question is: Can my relative in Europe still fill out this Form 709 even though they're not a US citizen/resident? Or am I on the hook for a massive tax bill? Are there any other options I should consider? This is super urgent since we're in the middle of the home buying process. Any help would be massively appreciated!
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Liam Mendez
The good news is that as the recipient of a gift, you generally don't pay any gift tax - that responsibility falls on the donor. In your case with a foreign relative, the rules get a bit more interesting. Foreign individuals who aren't US citizens or residents can still make gifts to US persons, but the tax implications differ. Foreign donors aren't subject to the US gift tax system in the same way US citizens are. They're only subject to gift tax on transfers of certain US-situs property (basically real estate and tangible personal property physically located in the US). If your relative is gifting you money from a foreign bank account, that's considered foreign-situs property, and they likely wouldn't need to file a Form 709 at all. However, be aware that large transfers of money from overseas may trigger reporting requirements for you under FINCEN regulations. The mortgage company is primarily asking for the gift letter to verify the source of funds isn't a loan that would affect your debt-to-income ratio. They typically don't report this information to the IRS for tax purposes.
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Emily Jackson
•Thanks for this info! So to be clear, I won't owe any taxes on this gift since I'm just the recipient? And my European relative won't need to file anything with the IRS since the money is coming from a foreign bank account? What about those FINCEN regulations you mentioned? Do I need to file something with the government about receiving this money?
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Liam Mendez
•You're correct that as the recipient, you won't owe any gift taxes. Your European relative most likely won't need to file anything with the IRS since the money is being transferred from a foreign bank account. Regarding FINCEN regulations, if you receive more than $10,000 from a foreign source, you may need to file a FinCEN Form 114 (FBAR) if the money sits in your foreign account for any period of time. However, if the money is directly transferred to your US account, you typically don't need to file an FBAR. You may still need to report the gift on Form 3520 (Annual Return to Report Transactions with Foreign Trusts and Receipt of Certain Foreign Gifts) if the amount exceeds $100,000 from a nonresident alien individual in a single year.
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Sophia Nguyen
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Jacob Smithson
•Did the service also help with any FBAR filing requirements? I've heard those can have pretty severe penalties if you miss them. Also wondering how they handled the Form 3520 situation if your gift was over $100k?
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Jacob Smithson
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Emma Garcia
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Ava Kim
Don't forget about your state tax implications too! While most states follow federal gift tax rules, a few have their own gift tax systems. What state are you in? That could potentially add another layer to consider.
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Emily Jackson
•I'm in California. Do they have separate gift tax rules I should know about? This is getting complicated fast.
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Ava Kim
•California doesn't have a state gift tax, so you're in the clear there! Only Connecticut has a true gift tax at the state level currently. Just focus on the federal requirements that others have mentioned, particularly the Form 3520 if your gift exceeds $100,000 from a foreign person in a single year. While you won't owe taxes on the gift, failing to file required information returns can result in penalties, so that's the main thing to be careful about.
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Ethan Anderson
Has anyone mentioned currency conversion issues yet? When I received money from my relatives in Germany, my bank gave me a terrible exchange rate AND charged a conversion fee. I lost almost 4% of the gift value just in the transfer process. Might be worth looking into specialized forex services instead of a direct bank-to-bank transfer.
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