How to report a large monetary gift from foreign relative for taxes?
Hey everyone, I'm stressing about a tax situation I'm facing this year. My aunt who lives in Spain recently gave me a gift of $28,000 to help with my graduate school tuition. I've never received such a large amount of money before, and I'm completely clueless about whether I need to report this on my tax return. I know there are special rules about foreign gifts, but everything I've read online is super confusing. Does anyone know if I need to pay taxes on this gift? Do I need to fill out some special form because it came from outside the US? My aunt already paid taxes on this money in Spain, so I'm hoping I don't have to pay taxes again here. Any help would be much appreciated because I don't want to mess up my taxes and get in trouble with the IRS!
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Maya Patel
You're asking a good question! Generally, recipients of gifts don't pay income tax on the gift, regardless of whether it's from a foreign or domestic source. However, there are reporting requirements for large foreign gifts. Since your gift is over $10,000, you'll likely need to file Form 3520 (Annual Return to Report Transactions with Foreign Trusts and Receipt of Certain Foreign Gifts). The threshold for reporting gifts from foreign individuals changes yearly, but it's typically around $100,000, while gifts from foreign corporations or partnerships have a $17,339 threshold (for 2024). In your case, since the gift is from an individual relative and is $28,000, you may not need to file Form 3520, but I'd recommend double-checking the current year's threshold to be sure. The penalties for not filing when required can be pretty steep - starting at $10,000!
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Isabella Brown
•Thanks so much for the helpful info! So just to make sure I understand correctly - I probably won't owe any taxes on this gift, but I might need to report it on this Form 3520? And where do I find the current year's threshold amount to know for sure if I need to file the form?
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Maya Patel
•You're welcome! Yes, you won't owe taxes on the gift itself - gifts are not considered taxable income to the recipient. For the current threshold, check the IRS website for the latest Form 3520 instructions. For 2025 filing (2024 tax year), the threshold for gifts from foreign individuals is $100,000, so since your gift is $28,000 from an individual relative, you actually wouldn't need to file Form 3520. But if you received multiple gifts from different foreign persons that total over $100,000, then reporting would be required.
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Aiden Rodríguez
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Emma Garcia
•Did you find this was better than like TurboTax or those other tax software programs? I'm getting a similar gift from my uncle in Mexico and I'm trying to figure out if I need special help or if regular tax software can handle this.
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Ava Kim
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Aiden Rodríguez
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Emma Garcia
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Ethan Anderson
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Layla Mendes
•How does this actually work? Like do they just sit on hold for you? I've got some questions about a gift from my cousin in Germany and I've been dreading making that call...
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Lucas Notre-Dame
•This sounds like BS honestly. Nothing gets you through to the IRS faster. I've tried everything and ended up just going to a local office in person after waiting 3 months for an answer about my foreign accounts.
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Ethan Anderson
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Lucas Notre-Dame
I have to admit I was completely wrong about Claimyr. After my skeptical comment I decided to try it anyway because I was desperate to talk to someone about my foreign gift reporting requirements. They got me through to an IRS agent in 58 minutes when I had previously wasted DAYS trying on my own. The agent confirmed that my $30,000 gift from my German cousin needed to be reported on Form 3520-A, not the regular 3520 like I thought, which would have been a huge mistake. The agent also walked me through exactly what documentation I needed to keep. Worth every penny just for the stress relief of knowing I'm doing everything correctly now.
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Aria Park
One thing nobody mentioned yet - make sure you have documentation from your aunt confirming this was a gift! My brother got audited over a foreign gift because he couldn't prove it wasn't income. Have your aunt write a simple gift letter stating: - The money is a gift with no expectation of repayment - The relationship between you two - The date and amount of the gift Keep this with your tax records along with any transfer documentation. Even if you don't need to file Form 3520, having this documentation is super important if the IRS ever has questions!
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Isabella Brown
•Thanks, this is really helpful! Is there a specific format this gift letter needs to follow? Does it need to be notarized or anything formal like that?
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Aria Park
•No specific official format is required, but it should be signed and dated by your aunt. It doesn't need to be notarized, though that certainly wouldn't hurt if it's easy to do. A simple letter stating "I, [Aunt's Name], am gifting $28,000 to my nephew/niece [Your Name] on [Date] to help with graduate school expenses. This is a gift with no expectation of repayment." Then have her sign and date it. Also keep any wire transfer receipts or bank statements showing the transfer. If the money came in multiple installments, document all of them to show they were part of the same gift.
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Noah Ali
Just wanted to add that if your aunt is a US citizen or resident living abroad, there might be different rules! The $17,000 annual gift tax exclusion would apply, and since your gift is over that amount, SHE might need to file a gift tax return (Form 709), not you. But this only applies if she's a US person. Also remember that just because you don't owe taxes doesn't mean you don't have filing requirements. The reporting thresholds and actual tax liability are totally different things!
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Chloe Boulanger
•This is so confusing! So if the gift giver is American but living abroad, THEY file something, but if they're a foreigner, the recipient might need to file? Tax law makes zero sense sometimes.
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Ethan Clark
I went through something very similar last year when my grandmother in Italy gave me $25,000 for my wedding. I was completely overwhelmed by all the different forms and requirements! Here's what I learned: Since your aunt is in Spain (not a US person), you're dealing with foreign gift reporting rules. The good news is that as the recipient, you won't owe any taxes on the gift itself - gifts are never taxable income to the person receiving them. For reporting, you'd only need to file Form 3520 if the total gifts from foreign persons exceed $100,000 in a tax year (for 2024). Since your gift is $28,000, you're well below that threshold, so no Form 3520 required. However, I'd definitely recommend keeping detailed records: get a gift letter from your aunt (doesn't need to be fancy - just stating it's a gift with no repayment expected), keep all wire transfer documentation, and maybe even save some emails or texts about the gift. I learned this the hard way when my tax preparer asked for documentation I almost didn't have! The fact that your aunt already paid taxes in Spain doesn't affect your US tax situation - there's no double taxation issue here since you're not paying any US taxes on the gift anyway.
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Yara Sabbagh
•This is really reassuring to hear from someone who went through the exact same situation! I was getting so stressed reading about all these different forms and thresholds. It's good to know that $28,000 is well under the $100,000 reporting limit. I'm definitely going to ask my aunt for that gift letter - seems like everyone is recommending that as the most important documentation to have. Did you end up needing any of that documentation later, or was it just for peace of mind? And did your tax preparer charge extra for dealing with the foreign gift aspect, or was it pretty straightforward once you had the right paperwork?
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Zoe Walker
•I actually never needed to provide the documentation to anyone after that initial tax preparation, but having it gave me so much peace of mind! My tax preparer didn't charge anything extra - once I had the gift letter and wire transfer records, they just confirmed I didn't need to file any additional forms and that was it. The whole "foreign gift" aspect sounds way scarier than it actually is when you're under the reporting thresholds. The documentation is really just insurance in case the IRS ever has questions down the road. Better to have it and not need it than the other way around! Sounds like you're on the right track getting organized with this.
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Carmen Lopez
I've been following this thread and wanted to share my experience as well. I received a $35,000 gift from my uncle in Canada last year and was in a similar panic about reporting requirements. After doing extensive research and consulting with a tax professional, here's what I learned that might help: Even though Canada is a different country than Spain, the same basic principles apply. Since your aunt is not a US person, you're looking at the foreign gift reporting rules, and as others have mentioned, the $100,000 threshold for Form 3520 means you don't need to file anything. One thing I want to emphasize that hasn't been mentioned enough - make sure you understand the difference between a "gift" and other types of transfers. The IRS can be suspicious of large foreign transfers, especially if they can't clearly establish it was truly a gift versus payment for services, loan proceeds, or income. Having that gift letter and family relationship documentation becomes crucial if questions ever arise. Also, don't forget that if you have any foreign bank accounts where this money was held (even temporarily), you might have FBAR reporting requirements if your foreign account balances exceed $10,000 at any point during the year. This is completely separate from the gift reporting rules but something to keep in mind!
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