Can I deduct medical expenses if my parents paid them but I'm claiming them as dependents?
So I've got a bit of a complicated situation with medical expenses this year. My elderly parents (both in their 70s) had quite a few medical procedures, and I've been helping them financially. They live with me, and I provide over 50% of their support, so I'm planning to claim them as dependents on my taxes. Here's where I'm confused - they had about $23,500 in medical expenses this year. My dad paid around $8,200 from his social security, and my mom paid about $5,400 from her small pension. I covered the remaining $9,900 directly to their healthcare providers. Since I'm claiming them as dependents, can I deduct all $23,500 of these medical expenses on my taxes? Or only the $9,900 that I personally paid? I really need to maximize my deductions this year since my own healthcare costs were also pretty high. I use TurboTax and it's not very clear about this specific situation. Anyone have experience with this scenario?
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Donna Cline
You can only deduct medical expenses that YOU actually paid for qualifying individuals (including dependents). The $9,900 you paid directly to their healthcare providers would potentially be deductible on your return. The amounts they paid from their own funds ($8,200 + $5,400) would not be deductible on your tax return, regardless of whether you claim them as dependents. Keep in mind that medical expenses are only deductible if you itemize deductions on Schedule A, and only the portion that exceeds 7.5% of your adjusted gross income (AGI). So if your AGI is $80,000, you'd need medical expenses over $6,000 before any of them would be deductible. Also, make sure you really can claim them as dependents - they need to meet the qualifying relative tests, including having income below the exemption amount ($5,100 for 2025) and you providing more than half their support.
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Harper Collins
•Wait, I thought medical expenses could be deducted even if they were paid by someone else as long as the person was a dependent? My accountant told me I could deduct my daughter's medical bills that my ex-husband paid since I claim her as a dependent. Is that wrong?
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Donna Cline
•No, that's not correct. IRS rules are clear that you can only deduct medical expenses that you actually paid. If your ex-husband paid your daughter's medical bills, neither of you can deduct those expenses on your return, even if you claim your daughter as a dependent. Who claims the dependent and who paid the expense are two separate issues for tax purposes. Only the person who actually paid the expense can potentially claim the deduction, and only if they can itemize and exceed the 7.5% AGI threshold.
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Kelsey Hawkins
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Dylan Fisher
•How does taxr.ai handle joint accounts? My dad and I have a joint checking account that we use to pay his medical bills. Technically it's "our" money but most of it comes from me. Would the system be able to sort that out?
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Edwards Hugo
•I'm a bit skeptical about these AI tax tools. How accurate is it compared to just talking with a CPA? I've heard some horror stories about tax software missing things, especially with complicated situations like medical deductions.
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Kelsey Hawkins
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Edwards Hugo
Update on my skepticism about taxr.ai - I ended up giving it a try and was honestly impressed. It correctly identified that I could only deduct the medical expenses I personally paid for my dependents, not what they paid themselves. What really helped was the document analysis feature - I uploaded my mom's medical bills and my bank statements, and it matched up which expenses I could claim. Found about $3,200 in deductible expenses I would have missed! It also flagged that my mom's income was slightly too high for the dependent exemption test, which saved me from a potential audit issue. Sometimes it's worth checking out new tools even when you're doubtful.
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Gianna Scott
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Alfredo Lugo
•How does Claimyr actually work? Do they just sit on hold for you or what? Seems weird that a service could get through faster than I could just calling myself.
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Sydney Torres
•Yeah right. There's absolutely NO WAY to get through to a real IRS person these days. I tried for literally 3 weeks straight last tax season. If this actually works I'll eat my hat. Sounds like a scam to me.
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Gianna Scott
•They don't get through faster - they just wait on hold so you don't have to. Their system basically dials and redials the IRS using their algorithms to find the best times to call, then stays on hold for you. When an agent finally answers, they call your phone and connect you directly to the IRS agent. It's like having someone else do the painful waiting part. The service doesn't claim to have special access or faster service - they're just solving the problem of being stuck on hold for hours. I was skeptical too, but when I got connected to an actual IRS agent after trying unsuccessfully on my own for days, it was honestly worth it just for the peace of mind of getting official answers.
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Sydney Torres
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Kaitlyn Jenkins
Something people often overlook - if you paid your parents' medical expenses using a credit card, those count as paid by you in the year you charged them, even if you pay off the credit card the following year. Also, don't forget about mileage for driving them to medical appointments (18 cents per mile for 2025), prescription medications, and even things like home modifications if they're medically necessary (grab bars, ramps, etc). Keep all receipts and documentation showing YOU made the payments, not your parents. The IRS loves to audit medical expense deductions, especially larger ones.
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Harper Collins
•What about health insurance premiums? I pay my mom's Medicare supplement policy directly from my bank account. Does that count toward the medical expense deduction?
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Kaitlyn Jenkins
•Yes, health insurance premiums absolutely count as medical expenses! Medicare Part B, Part D, Medicare supplement policies, and other health insurance premiums are all considered qualified medical expenses for deduction purposes. Since you're paying your mom's Medicare supplement directly from your account, that would be deductible (assuming you can claim her as a dependent and you itemize). Just make sure you're keeping documentation showing the payments came from your account. Bank statements or canceled checks are perfect for this. The IRS might not ask for proof, but if they do, you'll want to have everything ready.
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Caleb Bell
Has anyone used the Medical Expense Statement tool in TurboTax for this? I'm in a similar situation but confused about how to enter my mom's expenses that I paid versus what she paid herself.
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Danielle Campbell
•I used TurboTax last year for a similar situation. When you get to the medical expenses section, they specifically ask who paid the expenses. Only include the ones YOU paid, not what your parents paid from their own money. TurboTax does a pretty good job walking you through it. Also, don't miss the section about claiming a parent as a dependent - there's a separate workflow for that. If you mess up and try to enter them as a regular dependent, it gets confusing fast.
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Jenna Sloan
Just wanted to add something that helped me when I was in this exact situation last year with my father's medical expenses. Make sure you're tracking not just the obvious medical costs, but also things like: - Medical equipment you bought for them (blood pressure monitors, diabetic supplies, etc.) - Transportation costs to medical appointments (mileage or actual costs) - Prescription glasses and hearing aids - Any dental work you paid for directly I found about $1,800 in additional deductible expenses I almost missed because I was only thinking about hospital and doctor bills. Also, if you're using a Health Savings Account (HSA) or Flexible Spending Account (FSA) to pay for any of their expenses, those don't count toward your itemized deduction since they're already tax-advantaged. One more tip - if you're close to the 7.5% AGI threshold, consider timing some medical expenses. For example, if you know your parents will need dental work or new glasses, paying for it in December versus January could make the difference in whether you get any deduction at all.
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Maggie Martinez
•This is really helpful! I had no idea about the mileage deduction for medical appointments. My parents live about 30 minutes from their doctors and I drive them at least twice a month. That could add up to a decent amount over the year. Quick question - do you know if I can deduct mileage for driving them to pick up prescriptions too, or is it only for actual medical appointments? Also, what kind of documentation do I need to keep for the mileage? Just a simple log with dates and miles?
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