Can I deduct medical expenses if my parents paid for them instead of me?
So I've got this medical situation that's been going on for about a year now. I had to get this surgery that wasn't fully covered by my insurance and my parents ended up paying for a huge chunk of my medical bills since I couldn't afford it (like $7,800 out of pocket). I'm filing my taxes now for 2024 and wondering if I can somehow claim these medical expenses as deductions even though technically my parents paid them? They're older and don't itemize their deductions anyway since they take the standard deduction. Would it be legal for me to claim these expenses since they were MY medical bills even if I didn't physically pay them? I'm really trying to maximize my refund this year since I'm still paying off other debts from the whole ordeal. Any advice appreciated!
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Lucy Taylor
You can only deduct medical expenses that YOU paid for. The IRS looks at who actually made the payment, not who the services were for. Since your parents paid those expenses, they would be the ones eligible to deduct them on their taxes, not you - even though the medical services were for you. If your parents don't itemize, they won't benefit from the deduction anyway. But that doesn't transfer the deduction to you. The money they gave you would be considered a gift, and gifts aren't deductible as medical expenses. For future reference, medical expenses are only deductible if you itemize deductions (rather than taking the standard deduction), and even then only the portion that exceeds 7.5% of your adjusted gross income.
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Connor Murphy
•What if my parents technically "loaned" me the money and I'm paying them back? Would that change anything? Or what if we say they paid the hospital directly as my "agent" but the money was considered mine?
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Lucy Taylor
•The "loan" situation is tricky. If you can document that it was actually a legitimate loan that you're repaying, and you made the payments to the medical provider from your funds (or reimbursed your parents in the same tax year), you might have an argument. But you'd need proper documentation showing this was truly a loan, not a gift. As for the "agent" scenario, this generally doesn't work. The IRS looks at who actually provided the funds. If your parents paid directly, they made the payment - not you. Having them act as your "agent" typically wouldn't transfer the deduction eligibility to you unless you provided the funds first.
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KhalilStar
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Amelia Dietrich
•So this service can tell you specifically about cases where someone else paid your medical bills? My brother covered some of my treatments last year and I'm confused about the whole thing.
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Amelia Dietrich
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Madison King
One thing nobody's mentioned - if you're a dependent on your parents' tax return (are you?), then medical expenses your parents pay for you can be counted as their medical expenses. So if they DO itemize, they could deduct your expenses that they paid. But if they take the standard deduction like you mentioned, then unfortunately those deductions basically just disappear since nobody can use them.
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Isaac Wright
•I'm actually not a dependent on their taxes - I'm 27 and financially independent except for this one-time help with the medical bills. That's why I was hoping there might be some way I could claim the deduction. Sounds like I'm out of luck unless I can document it as a loan like some people suggested above.
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Madison King
•Yeah, if you're not a dependent, then the rule is simply whoever paid gets the deduction. Since they paid and they don't itemize, no one gets to benefit from those potential deductions. If you're going to document it as a loan, make sure you do it properly. Create a simple loan agreement showing the amount, repayment terms, and have both parties sign it. Also keep records of your repayments to them. Without documentation, the IRS would likely consider it a gift if it ever came up in an audit.
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Julian Paolo
Has anyone actually managed to deduct medical expenses recently anyway? With the 7.5% AGI threshold it seems almost impossible unless you had catastrophic medical costs or really low income.
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Ella Knight
•I did last year, but only because I had a major surgery that cost about $22,000 out of pocket and my income was around $55,000. So my threshold was about $4,125 and I was able to deduct almost $18K in expenses. Made a big difference but it was literally the only year I've ever passed that threshold.
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Julian Paolo
•Thanks for sharing your experience. I guess it really does take some extraordinary circumstances to benefit from the medical expense deduction. The 7.5% threshold makes it so hard for average people to qualify. Almost makes me think it's not worth tracking all these medical expenses unless you know for sure you're going to exceed that percentage.
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Yara Khoury
I've been through this exact situation! My mom paid for my emergency room visit last year ($3,200) and I spent weeks researching this. The bottom line is what Lucy said earlier - only the person who actually paid can deduct the expense. However, there IS one legitimate workaround if you act quickly: if you can reimburse your parents for the full amount they paid BEFORE you file your taxes (and ideally in the same tax year), then YOU become the one who paid the expense and can claim the deduction. You'd need to be able to show clear documentation of the reimbursement though. The loan arrangement some people mentioned can work too, but it needs to be documented properly from the start. A retroactive "loan agreement" probably won't hold up if the IRS looks into it. Also keep in mind that even if you can claim the $7,800, you'd still need to itemize deductions AND have that amount exceed 7.5% of your AGI to actually benefit from it. For many people, that means the deduction ends up being worthless anyway because they're better off taking the standard deduction.
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Vince Eh
•This is really helpful, thank you! The reimbursement option is interesting - I hadn't thought about that. Unfortunately it's probably too late for me since this all happened last year and I don't have $7,800 sitting around to reimburse them right now. But good to know for anyone else reading this who might be in a similar situation earlier in the process. The AGI threshold point is also really important - I should probably calculate whether I'd even benefit from itemizing before spending too much time on this. Sounds like for most people the standard deduction ends up being better anyway.
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