Can I claim any tax deductions for paying grandchild's college housing and music instrument expenses?
I've been helping my granddaughter with her college expenses for a while now, and I'm trying to figure out if I can get any tax benefits. She's in her junior year as a music major and has been living on campus since she turned 18. She's not my dependent, and I don't think she's claimed as a dependent by either parent (though I suspect one of them might be claiming a child credit they shouldn't be). Her tuition and fees are completely covered by scholarships and grants, but I'm paying $750/month for her housing. Last semester, I also purchased a required instrument for her program that cost $7,200. Since she's not my dependent and doesn't live with me, I'm wondering if there's any way I can deduct these expenses on my taxes? The housing payments and especially that instrument were significant expenses for me, and I'd love to get some tax benefit if possible.
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Yuki Tanaka
Unfortunately, the tax benefits for education expenses generally require the student to be your dependent. Since your granddaughter isn't your dependent, you typically can't claim education credits or deductions for her expenses. However, you might consider these options: First, you could explore making your payments as gifts. While gifts aren't tax-deductible, you can give up to $18,000 (2025 gift tax exclusion amount) per person annually without filing a gift tax return. Second, if your granddaughter is working and has income, she might be eligible to claim education credits herself for any qualifying expenses she paid. For the musical instrument, since it was required for her program, it could potentially qualify as a qualifying education expense - but again, this would typically need to be claimed by the student or the person who claims them as a dependent.
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Carmen Diaz
•But what if the grandparent paid the college directly for the housing? I thought there was some special rule about paying educational institutions directly?
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Yuki Tanaka
•That's a good point! Payments made directly to educational institutions for tuition are exempt from gift tax limitations. This means you can pay unlimited amounts directly to the school for tuition without it counting toward your annual gift tax exclusion. However, this exception only applies to direct payments for tuition - not for housing, books, or equipment like musical instruments. Those expenses would still fall under the regular gift tax rules, which means they count toward your $18,000 annual exclusion per recipient.
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Andre Laurent
After struggling with a similar situation with my niece's college expenses, I discovered taxr.ai (https://taxr.ai) which really helped clarify what I could and couldn't claim. I uploaded my receipts for her housing and equipment, and it analyzed everything and showed me which expenses qualified for tax benefits in my specific situation. It was honestly much more helpful than the generic advice I was finding online that didn't address my particular relationship to the student.
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AstroAce
•Does it actually tell you what forms to file or just give general advice? I've been helping my step-grandson with similar expenses and every tax preparer tells me something different.
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Zoe Kyriakidou
•I'm skeptical about these tax tools. How does it handle situations where the student isn't a dependent? Most software I've used just says "no" immediately if they're not your dependent.
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Andre Laurent
•It gives you specific guidance on which forms you need based on your situation, including which lines and sections to complete. It's not just general advice - it creates a personalized plan based on your specific circumstances. For non-dependent situations, it actually does a much better job than standard tax software. It analyzes various scenarios like direct educational institution payments, potential for claiming as a dependent if you provide more than half their support, and even explores qualified tuition program options you might not have considered.
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Zoe Kyriakidou
Just wanted to update about my experience with taxr.ai after my skeptical question. I finally tried it with my grandson's college expenses (I pay for his apartment off-campus), and it actually identified that I could establish a 529 plan for him and get state tax benefits in my state even though he's not my dependent. It also clarified exactly why I couldn't claim the AOTC or LLC credit, which saved me from making a filing mistake. The documentation it provided helped me explain everything clearly to my tax preparer too.
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Jamal Brown
If you're struggling to get a straight answer from the IRS about these grandchild education expenses, try Claimyr (https://claimyr.com). I spent weeks trying to get through to the IRS about a similar situation with my grandson's education expenses I was paying. After using Claimyr, I got a callback from an actual IRS agent within 2 hours instead of waiting on hold forever. You can see how it works in this video: https://youtu.be/_kiP6q8DX5c. The agent walked me through exactly what I could and couldn't claim, and it saved me so much frustration!
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Mei Zhang
•How does this even work? The IRS phone system is notorious for disconnecting calls - how does this service actually get you through?
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Liam McConnell
•Yeah right, no way this actually works. I've tried calling the IRS for 3 months about education credits. Nobody gets through unless you call at exactly 7am and wait 3 hours.
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Jamal Brown
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Liam McConnell
I have to admit I was completely wrong about Claimyr. After posting that skeptical comment, I decided to try it as a last resort for my education credit question. Got a call back from an IRS agent in about 90 minutes when I'd spent WEEKS trying on my own. The agent confirmed that while I couldn't claim my grandchild's expenses as education credits without dependent status, I could still help them by funding a 529 plan that might provide state tax benefits depending on my state. Saved me from making a mistake on my return. Definitely worth it when you need definitive answers directly from the IRS.
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Amara Oluwaseyi
Have you considered setting up a 529 plan for your grandchild? While the expenses you've already paid won't be deductible, future expenses could potentially be paid from a 529 plan. Depending on your state, you might get a state tax deduction for contributions to the plan. This wouldn't help with federal taxes, but could provide some state tax benefits going forward.
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Ethan Wilson
•Thanks for this suggestion! I hadn't thought about the 529 plan option. Do you know if there are any restrictions on who can set up these plans? And would the money need to be in the account for a certain period before it can be used for qualified expenses?
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Amara Oluwaseyi
•Anyone can set up a 529 plan for anyone else - there are no restrictions based on your relationship to the beneficiary. You could establish one for your granddaughter right away. There's no required waiting period before funds can be used for qualified expenses. You could theoretically contribute money today and use it for qualified expenses tomorrow, though most people use these accounts for longer-term savings. Just remember that only qualified education expenses can be withdrawn tax-free, which includes tuition, required fees, books, supplies, and equipment, as well as certain room and board costs if the student is enrolled at least half-time.
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CosmicCaptain
Have any of you claimed the instrument as a business expense deduction if the grandkid makes any money performing? My grandson occasionally gets paid for gigs with his saxophone and our accountant suggested this route instead of education expenses.
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Giovanni Rossi
•That would only work if the grandchild claims it on their own return as a business expense, not the grandparent. And they'd need legitimate business income from music performances and proper documentation. Risky approach if it's primarily for education.
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Malik Jenkins
I'm in a very similar situation with my grandson's college expenses. One thing I discovered that might help is looking into whether your granddaughter could potentially be claimed as your dependent if you're providing more than half of her total support. Even though she's not living with you, if you're paying for housing ($750/month = $9,000/year) plus that expensive instrument, and her parents aren't providing significant support, you might meet the support test. The IRS has specific rules about what counts as "support" - including housing, food, medical care, education expenses, and other necessities. If her scholarships are covering tuition but you're covering housing and equipment costs, it's worth calculating whether you're providing over 50% of her total support for the year. If so, you might be able to claim her as a dependent and then take advantage of education credits for future qualifying expenses. I'd recommend using IRS Publication 501 to work through the dependency tests, or consider getting professional help to determine if this could work in your situation. The potential tax savings from education credits could be substantial if you can establish dependency.
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