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Emma Morales

Can I be taxed on money received as a gift from my parents for house down payment?

So my parents recently offered to help me buy my first house by gifting me a chunk of money for the down payment (around $40k). I'm super grateful, but I'm worried about taxes. Do I have to report this as income? Would I owe taxes on this gift? I've heard different things from friends - some say gifts aren't taxed but others say I'll get hit with a big tax bill. Just trying to figure out if I need to set aside some of that money for potential taxes before I talk to mortgage lenders. Thanks in advance for any advice!

The good news is that as the recipient of a gift, you generally don't have to pay any tax on it or report it as income! The person who gives the gift (the donor) is the one responsible for any potential gift tax, not you. For 2025, your parents can each give up to $18,000 per person annually without having to report it to the IRS (this is called the annual exclusion). So if both your parents are giving you money, they could give up to $36,000 combined ($18,000 from each parent) without any tax implications for anyone. Even if they go over that amount, they wouldn't necessarily owe taxes right away. They'd just need to file a gift tax return (Form 709), and it would count against their lifetime gift and estate tax exemption, which is over $13 million per person in 2025.

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Thanks so much! So if my parents are giving me $40k total, and they're married, would they still need to file anything since it's over the $36k combined limit you mentioned?

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If your parents are giving you $40,000 total as a married couple, they have a couple of options. If they split the gift equally, each giving you $20,000, then your dad would need to file a gift tax return for the $2,000 that exceeds his $18,000 annual exclusion, and your mom would file for her $2,000 excess. Alternatively, they could structure it with one parent giving you $18,000 and the other giving you $22,000, so only one parent would need to file the gift tax return for the $4,000 excess. Either way, they wouldn't owe any actual tax unless they've already used up their lifetime exemption, which is very unlikely for most people.

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Did it help with the mortgage part too? My lender is being super picky about gift funds and asking for all kinds of documentation proving it's actually a gift and not a loan.

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Something important to mention - the mortgage lender will want a "gift letter" from your parents stating the money is truly a gift with no expectation of repayment. They'll also probably want to see bank statements showing the money coming from your parents' account and landing in yours. This is standard procedure when using gift funds for a down payment.

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Do they actually verify with the gift giver? My uncle wants to help with my down payment but he's super private about his finances and wouldn't want anyone calling him or asking for his bank statements.

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Most lenders won't call the gift giver directly, but they do typically require a signed gift letter from them. As for bank statements, they usually want to see the money leaving the gift giver's account and entering yours to verify it's actually coming from the person who signed the gift letter. Some lenders might be more flexible if the money has been in your account for a while (usually 2+ months), as it becomes "seasoned" and they might not ask for as much documentation. But for a recent gift, they'll want that paper trail. If your uncle is concerned about privacy, you might want to talk to your loan officer about what specific documentation they require for your situation.

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I work at a bank (not giving tax advice!!) but just FYI we see this all the time with first-time homebuyers. The gift itself isn't taxable to you, but we need to see documentation for anti-money laundering regulations. Make sure you don't deposit the gift in cash - have your parents wire it or write a check so there's a clear paper trail. Makes the mortgage process way smoother!

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That's super helpful, thank you! My parents were actually wondering if they should just give me cash to avoid "paperwork" but sounds like that would actually create more problems than it solves.

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Definitely avoid cash! That would create a nightmare for your mortgage application. Banks have to report large cash deposits and it raises all sorts of red flags during underwriting. A wire transfer or cashier's check creates the cleanest paper trail. Also wanted to add - when your parents do the wire transfer, make sure the wire shows their names as the senders. Sometimes people use business accounts or have someone else send it, which can complicate things. The name on the wire should match the name on the gift letter exactly. One more tip: get the gift letter signed BEFORE the money transfers. Some lenders are picky about the dates and want to see that the gift letter was executed before the actual transfer happened. Good luck with your home purchase!

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This is all really great advice! As someone who just went through this process myself, I can confirm that having everything properly documented from the start saves so much headache later. My parents initially wanted to just transfer money from their savings, but we ended up having them get a cashier's check instead since it created the clearest paper trail. The mortgage underwriter loved how clean and straightforward our documentation was. Thanks for sharing these practical tips - wish I had known about the timing of the gift letter beforehand!

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One more thing to consider - make sure your parents keep good records of this gift for their own tax purposes! Even if they don't owe any gift tax, they should document the gift amount, date, and recipient in case the IRS ever asks questions down the road. Also, if your parents have given you or your siblings other large gifts in previous years, they might want to review their total lifetime gifting to make sure they're tracking it properly against their lifetime exemption. Most people never come close to the $13+ million limit, but it's good to keep records just in case. Congratulations on your first home purchase! The gift tax rules can seem scary at first, but as everyone has mentioned, the recipient (you) is almost never responsible for any taxes on gifts received.

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This is such helpful advice! I'm just starting to learn about all this and honestly had no idea about the record-keeping aspect for my parents. They're pretty organized with their finances, but I should probably mention they should document this gift properly. Quick question - when you mention the lifetime exemption tracking, is that something they need to report annually or just keep their own records? I don't want to create extra work for them, but I also want to make sure we do everything right. Thanks for all the great info everyone - this community has been incredibly helpful for a first-time buyer like me!

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