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One thing nobody's mentioned yet is that you should consider requesting a PIN from the IRS for future tax filings given your history with identity concerns. If your parents misused your financial info before, a PIN adds an extra layer of security so nobody can file returns using your SSN. You can request one when you file your current year return, or go to the Identity Protection PIN page on the IRS website. It's free and gives you a lot more security.
This is really helpful advice that I hadn't thought about. With my parents' history of financial abuse, I definitely need this extra protection. Is this something I should do before or after catching up on my back taxes?
I would recommend doing it as soon as possible, independent of catching up on your back taxes. You can request an Identity Protection PIN directly from the IRS website by going to their "Get an IP PIN" tool. This will help secure your tax account immediately, even while you're working on filing your past returns. The IP PIN is valid for one calendar year, so you'll get a new one each year. This ensures that even if someone has your personal information, they cannot file a fraudulent tax return in your name because they won't have the current PIN. Given your history of family identity issues, this extra protection is definitely worth setting up right away.
Has anyone gone through the IRS Fresh Start program? I'm in a similar situation (6 years unfiled) and trying to figure out the best approach. Really worried about penalties.
The Fresh Start program is great but it's mostly for people who've already filed and owe money they can't pay. For unfiled returns, you need to file first, then look into payment options like an Installment Agreement or Offer in Compromise depending on your situation.
Just to add one more data point - I was in this exact situation (NRA spouse, living apart, MFS, with dependents). I used TaxAct and it worked perfectly for me. When you get to the filing status part, select MFS but then it should ask if you lived apart from your spouse for the last 6 months of the year. Make sure you select "yes" to that question. Same with the dependent questions - be sure to indicate that the child lived with you more than half the year. The software was smart enough to then apply the EITC rules correctly. I got audited one year and had documentation of my spouse living abroad (his foreign tax returns, rental agreement, utility bills in his name, etc.) and it was approved without issue.
Thank you so much for this specific advice! When you got audited, did they specifically ask for documentation proving the separation, or was it more about proving your dependent status? I'm trying to figure out what paperwork I should be gathering now just in case.
They asked for both! They wanted proof that my dependent lived with me (school records, medical records, etc.), AND they wanted evidence that my spouse and I were truly living separately for the last 6 months of the year. For the separation evidence, I provided my spouse's foreign tax returns showing he paid taxes in another country, his rental agreement overseas dated before July, utility bills in his name at the foreign address, and employment records showing he worked abroad. I also had some flight information showing when he left the US. The more documentation you can gather, the better!
I know everyone's talking about software, but has anyone considered just going to a tax professional for this? I had a similar situation with an NRA spouse and EITC questions, and I went to a local enrolled agent who specialized in international tax situations. Cost me about $250 but they knew exactly how to handle it, got me maximum credits, and provided a letter to include with my return explaining the EITC exception. Well worth the money for peace of mind, especially if you're worried about potential audits.
I second this! I tried doing it myself with software for two years and missed out on credits I could have claimed. A professional who knows international situations is worth every penny. Plus, when the IRS sent me a letter questioning my EITC claim, my tax pro handled the response for free as part of their service.
Is there a specific certification or credential I should look for when finding someone who specializes in these international situations? There are so many "tax preparers" out there and I don't want to end up with someone who just knows the basics.
5 Just to add another perspective - I'm a small salon owner, and sometimes there are legitimate reasons for 1099 discrepancies, though $4,800 seems excessive. Sometimes business owners count credit card processing fees or booth rental against contractor payments. This isn't correct practice, but it happens. I would recommend your brother check his payment records carefully - does he have receipts for every payment? Bank deposits? Cash app records? Having solid documentation is crucial regardless of whether the salon corrects the form or not.
22 Do credit card fees really add up to that much though? And even if they do, isn't it illegal to deduct those from reported contractor payments? I thought the 1099 was supposed to show the gross amount paid.
5 Credit card fees typically run 2-3%, so no, they wouldn't account for a $4,800 discrepancy unless your brother earned well over $150,000 from this one shop. You're absolutely right that the 1099-NEC should show the gross amount paid to the contractor before any fees. What sometimes happens (incorrectly) is that salon owners might deduct booth rental fees or product charges before calculating the 1099 amount. This is incorrect - those should be handled separately, and the 1099 should reflect the total payments made to the contractor.
18 Make sure your brother keeps immaculate records going forward! I'm a barber too and I use a simple spreadsheet where I record EVERY transaction, including tips. I also take pictures of daily receipts and keep all payment app notifications. This has saved me twice when dealing with incorrect 1099s. Remember that even if the barbershop doesn't fix their mistake, your brother is legally obligated to report his full income. The last thing he wants is an audit where he can't substantiate his actual earnings!
1 Thank you all for the advice! I'm showing my brother this thread tonight. He does keep pretty good records with a booking app that tracks all his appointments and payments, plus he has his bank statements showing deposits. I think we'll start with a formal written request for a corrected 1099-NEC, and if that doesn't work, he'll report the full income anyway and keep all his documentation ready. And maybe check out some of these services you've all recommended to make sure he's handling everything correctly!
One option nobody's mentioned yet - if your husband's company has a corporate discount with a tax service like TurboTax or H&R Block, you might be able to get discounted or free state filings. My consulting firm gives us a code for TurboTax that includes unlimited state filings. Might be worth asking his HR department if they offer any tax preparation benefits.
Do most consulting companies actually offer this? I'm a consultant too and had no idea this might be a thing. Is this common for larger firms or just certain industries?
It's definitely more common with mid-to-large consulting firms that specialize in industries where multi-state work is normal (IT, healthcare, engineering). My company (about 500 consultants) started offering it after too many people complained about tax preparation costs. Smaller firms might not, but it never hurts to ask HR. Some companies don't advertise it well - ours is buried in the benefits portal under "lifestyle perks" rather than with the main benefits. Worth checking your company intranet or asking colleagues if they know about any discounts.
Be careful about using multiple free filing services for different states! I tried this last year and it created a huge mess. The problem is that each service calculates your federal return slightly differently, which affects your state returns. When I filed my federal + CA return on one service, then tried to do just my NY return on another, the numbers didn't match up with what I had reported federally. I ended up with notices from both states questioning the discrepancies. Had to file amended returns and it was a huge headache. Just pay for one service that can handle all states together - the extra money is worth avoiding the potential audit flags.
Wait can you explain more? I thought state returns are separate from federal? Why would filing them on different platforms cause issues as long as you enter the same W-2 info?
The issue is that your state returns reference information from your federal return (adjusted gross income, deductions, etc.). Each tax software might calculate these numbers slightly differently based on how they interpret certain situations or which deductions they find. For example, if TurboTax calculates your AGI as $58,750 on your federal return (which affects your CA return), but then FreeTaxUSA calculates it as $58,600 when you try to do just your NY return there, you've now reported two different AGIs to different states. States compare notes with the IRS and each other. When they see discrepancies, it raises flags. You'd need to manually ensure every number matches exactly across platforms, which defeats the purpose of using software in the first place.
Atticus Domingo
One thing nobody's mentioned yet is state tax filings! Even if your federal taxes are covered with just a personal return + Schedule C, many states require separate annual filings for LLCs regardless of their federal tax status. These are usually not tax returns but "annual reports" or "statements of information" that keep your LLC in good standing. The fees vary wildly by state - some are under $50, others several hundred. Missing these can result in penalties or even your LLC being administratively dissolved!
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Leslie Parker
ā¢Wait what?? I had no idea about these state filings. I'm in Michigan - do you know what might be required here? Is this something completely separate from the tax extension stuff?
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Atticus Domingo
ā¢Michigan requires an Annual Statement for LLCs, due February 15th each year, and there's a $25 filing fee. This is completely separate from your tax extension - it's more about keeping your business registration active with the state. You file it with Michigan's Department of Licensing and Regulatory Affairs (LARA), not with the tax authorities. The good news is that Michigan sends reminder notices, but don't rely solely on those. Missing the filing can result in your LLC being not in "good standing" which could affect your liability protection. You can file it online through Michigan's LARA website. This is definitely something to add to your annual business compliance calendar!
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Beth Ford
lol welcome to small business ownership! i made sooo many mistakes my first year. quick tip thats saved me tons of headaches: set aside 30% of all your income immediately in a separate savings account for taxes. most new business owners (me included!) forget that nobody's withholding taxes from their paychecks anymore.
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Morita Montoya
ā¢30% seems high though? Doesn't it depend on your profit margins and tax bracket? I've been setting aside about 20% and it's been enough so far for my freelance work.
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