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One thing nobody's mentioned is that your husband should look into the Voluntary Disclosure Program. By coming forward voluntarily before any IRS enforcement actions, you might be able to get some penalties reduced. Make sure your CPA is exploring ALL options for penalty abatement. Each year might be handled differently depending on circumstances.
Thank you for mentioning this! I had no idea this was a thing. I'll definitely ask our CPA about the Voluntary Disclosure Program. Is there anything specific we need to do to qualify for this?
You're already taking the right first step by working with a CPA to file all the past returns. The key requirements are that you're coming forward voluntarily (before the IRS contacts you about the unfiled returns) and that you're filing accurate returns for all missing years. Make sure your CPA specifically requests penalty abatement using Form 843. They should cite "reasonable cause" and explain the circumstances that led to the unfiled returns. Having professional help with this process is crucial because the specific language and approach matter a lot in how the IRS responds.
I'd be really worried about the house and other assets. My brother didn't file for just 2 years and they put a lien on his house!!! Make sure your name is not on anything important if possible.
That's not entirely accurate. The IRS doesn't immediately put liens on property, especially if you're voluntarily coming forward. They typically only place liens after multiple notices and lack of response or cooperation.
For future reference, to file jointly on TurboTax, you need to do it from ONE account. The software isn't smart enough to combine two separate account filings into one joint return. Easiest approach is to have one spouse complete their info first, then add the second spouse's info to the same return.
Thank you for this explanation! I think this is exactly what happened - we each used our own accounts thinking TurboTax would somehow combine them. So if we amend, should we just use my wife's account since her return was already accepted?
Yes, since your wife's return was already accepted, you should use her TurboTax account to prepare the amended return. You'll log into her account, locate her accepted return, and then select the option to amend it. When amending, you'll need to add all your income information, deductions, and credits to create a complete joint return. Make sure you have all your tax documents ready, including your W-2s, 1099s, and anything else relevant to your tax situation. TurboTax will guide you through the amendment process, but just remember you're essentially creating a new joint return that includes both of your information.
Just a heads up - if you do decide to amend, make sure you check if you'd actually benefit from filing jointly vs separately. Most couples do save money filing jointly, but there are certain situations where filing separately is better (like if one spouse has income-based student loan payments or significant medical expenses). Worth calculating both ways before going through the amendment process.
This! My husband and I accidentally filed separately last year and were about to amend until we realized we'd actually save about $1800 by staying with separate returns due to his income-based student loan situation. Definitely worth checking both scenarios.
Just a quick tip from someone who's been freelancing for years - make sure you're also setting aside money for quarterly estimated tax payments going forward. The IRS expects you to pay taxes throughout the year when you're self-employed, not just at tax time. I learned this the hard way my first year when I got hit with an underpayment penalty even though I paid everything I owed by April. For 2025, you'll need to make payments in April, June, September, and January of the following year.
Thank you! How much should I be setting aside for those quarterly payments? Is it just a percentage of what I make each quarter?
A good rule of thumb is to set aside about 30% of your profit for taxes. This should cover both income tax and self-employment tax for most people. But it does depend on your tax bracket and what other income you have. The payments are supposed to be based on your projected annual income, not just what you made that quarter. The IRS wants relatively even payments, not payments that fluctuate wildly from quarter to quarter. You can use Form 1040-ES to calculate the recommended amount, or many tax software programs can help you estimate this after you file this year's return.
Has anyone else had issues getting mortgage lenders to understand self-employment income without 1099s? When I bought my house last year, my lender kept asking for 1099s, and I had to explain multiple times that not all clients provide them but I still reported everything on my Schedule C.
This is super helpful info - I didn't even think about the mortgage aspect. I'm going to start gathering those bank statements now to show the deposits. Did you have to get anything special from your clients or was the paper trail enough?
The paper trail was enough in my case - bank statements showing the deposits plus my QuickBooks reports that matched those deposits. For the larger clients, I also had copies of the contracts showing the agreed payment amounts. No need to get anything special from the clients themselves. The lender just wanted to verify that the income was legitimate and consistent.
Everyone's focusing on the tax deduction part but let me just say - if you're paying $2,800 in credit card interest annually, that's the real problem! That's money down the drain. You should really consider consolidating that debt with a personal loan at a lower interest rate, or look into 0% balance transfer offers. Even without tax benefits, reducing your interest payments is basically giving yourself a guaranteed return on investment. No tax deduction is going to make up for the money you're losing to high interest rates.
I know credit card debt isn't ideal, but it happened after some medical expenses that weren't fully covered by insurance. I've actually been looking into balance transfer offers like you suggested. Do you have any recommendations for specific cards that have good 0% offers right now?
I don't want to recommend specific cards since offers change frequently, but look for cards offering at least 15 months at 0% APR on balance transfers. Pay attention to the balance transfer fee (usually 3-5% of the transferred amount) and factor that into your calculations. Credit unions often have personal loan rates significantly lower than credit card interest rates if the balance transfer doesn't cover everything. The key is to make a plan to pay off the debt during the 0% period, or you'll just end up back in the same situation when the promotional rate expires.
Just to add another perspective - the tax code is designed to incentivize certain behaviors. Homeownership? Tax break. Education? Tax break. Starting a business? Tax breaks everywhere. But buying consumer goods on credit? No tax breaks. The government doesn't want to encourage consumer debt. The system is actually working as designed, even if it feels unfair. My advice? Structure your finances to align with the incentives in the tax code. If you're going to take on debt, try to make it the kind that comes with tax advantages when possible.
This is actually a really good point that I never thought about. The tax code is basically a list of things the government wants to encourage.
Ayla Kumar
Hey! Former IRS employee here. Everyone's given great advice, but I wanted to add a few things: 1. As a dependent under 24 who's made less than the standard deduction, you're not REQUIRED to file, but you SHOULD file to get back any tax that was withheld from your paychecks. 2. The IRS has a special program called Free File that partners with tax software companies to provide free filing for people with simple returns. You can find it on irs.gov. 3. Don't stress too much about making mistakes! For simple returns, the software really does guide you through everything. And if you do make a small error, the IRS will usually just send you a letter with corrections. 4. Keep all your tax documents (W-2s, etc.) for at least 3 years after filing.
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Demi Lagos
ā¢Thank you so much for all this helpful info! Quick question - if I file and get a refund this year, will that affect my parents' ability to claim me as a dependent on their taxes?
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Ayla Kumar
ā¢You filing your own tax return won't affect your parents' ability to claim you as a dependent at all! These are completely separate issues. Your parents' ability to claim you depends on whether you meet the dependency tests (like if they provide more than half your support, if you're a full-time student under 24, etc.), not whether you file your own return. So go ahead and file to get that refund - it won't impact your parents' taxes in any way.
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Lorenzo McCormick
Does anyone know if using those free tax services actually works? I'm in the same boat (first time filing, made about $8k last year) and my friend said I should just pay H&R Block to do it for me.
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Carmella Popescu
ā¢Absolutely do NOT pay H&R Block for a simple return! I used to work there - they charge like $150+ for returns that literally take 15 minutes to file. If you only made $8k and have a W-2, use the IRS Free File options or even the free version of TurboTax/FreeTaxUSA. Save your money!
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Lorenzo McCormick
ā¢Thanks for the advice! That's what I was worried about. I just heard the free versions try to trick you into upgrading halfway through. I'll check out the IRS Free File program that people mentioned.
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