Heads up - the verification process might be diff than u expect. My letter had a QR code that took me to ID.me but others get sent to the IRS portal directly. IME the avg wait was ~5 wks but that was b4 the April rush. Rn the IRS is slammed w/ returns so prob longer. Def call if it goes past 6 wks. Also check ur transcripts not WMR - transcripts update 1st and WMR is often behind by days.

I went through identity verification in January and can share some specifics that might help with your timeline planning. After completing verification on ID.me (took about 20 minutes), my transcript showed the 971 notice code within 3 days, then had to wait for the 571 release code. Total time from verification to refund deposit was 5 weeks and 2 days. For medical expense planning, I'd honestly budget for 6-8 weeks to be safe. The IRS customer service rep I spoke to (week 4 of waiting) mentioned that verified returns don't get priority processing - they just rejoin the regular queue. My advice: set up transcript monitoring through the IRS app and don't check WMR daily - it'll drive you crazy and the transcript updates first anyway.

Why not just setup an LLC and have the business buy the alcohol? Then its clearly a business expense and you personally arent drinking it, your business entity is providing it as part of the service?

As someone who's dealt with similar content creator tax issues, I'd strongly recommend getting professional guidance on this one. The IRS has very specific rules about entertainment expenses, and alcohol deductions are heavily scrutinized regardless of business purpose. While your situation is unique since you only drink for content creation, you'll still likely face the 50% limitation on these expenses. The key is proving business necessity - keep detailed records linking each purchase to specific streams, viewer engagement metrics, and revenue generated from that content. Consider also documenting that these venues/drinks are essential to your brand and audience expectations. If you can show that your audience tunes in specifically for this type of content and that removing alcohol would significantly impact your business income, that strengthens your case. But definitely consult with a tax professional who understands creator economics before taking any large deductions.

Random question but does anyone know if tax software like TurboTax handles all this correctly? Like do I need to manually separate out my qualified dividends when entering everything or does it do that automatically?

This is such a helpful thread! I'm in a similar situation as the original poster - first year with significant investment gains and totally confused about how everything gets taxed together. One thing I'm still not clear on though - if my total income puts me right at the threshold between tax brackets for qualified dividends (like right around that $46,800 mark someone mentioned), do ALL my qualified dividends get taxed at the higher rate, or just the portion that pushes me over the threshold? For example, if I have $45,000 in regular income and $5,000 in qualified dividends, does the entire $5,000 get taxed at 15%, or just the portion above $46,800 (so like $3,200 at 15% and $1,800 at 0%)? I know regular income tax brackets work as marginal rates where you only pay the higher rate on income above each threshold, but I can't figure out if qualified dividends work the same way or if it's all-or-nothing based on your total income level.

i feel u fam. got one last week and almost had a heart attack but it was just confirming my address change lmaooo

Hey! I totally get the anxiety - IRS letters can be super intimidating even when they're nothing serious. Like others said, you really need to open it to know what's going on. Most of the time it's just routine stuff like confirming info or asking for documentation. The notice number (usually CP### or LTR####) will tell you exactly what type it is. Once you open it, definitely post a pic with your personal info blurred out and we can help you figure out next steps!

When I got married, we both kept our W4s at "single" rate for the first year just to be safe. Yes, we overwitheld and got a big refund, but I'd rather get a refund than owe! In your situation with two decent incomes, definitely check that box 2c at minimum.

I went through this exact same thing when I got married two years ago! That jump in take-home pay is totally normal but can be scary. Here's what worked for me: First, don't panic - you're not going to owe a "giant" tax bill, but you'll probably owe something if you don't adjust. With your combined income of around $128k, you're likely hitting higher tax brackets together than the withholding tables account for. I'd strongly recommend using the IRS Tax Withholding Estimator (it's free on irs.gov) rather than just checking box 2(c). Yes, it's a bit tedious, but it gave me much more accurate results. You'll need both of your recent pay stubs and last year's tax returns. The estimator will tell you exactly how much extra to withhold on line 4(c) of your W4, or whether checking box 2(c) is sufficient. In my case, we needed an extra $85 per paycheck withheld beyond what box 2(c) would have done. Also, since you just changed this a few weeks ago, you have time to adjust if needed. Better to spend 30 minutes with the calculator now than get surprised next April!