ID.me verification requiring video interview with 'trusted referee' - is this normal?
I finally got around to doing the ID.me verification for my DEO account yesterday after putting it off for weeks. I uploaded my driver's license and took a selfie, but then it suddenly said I needed to do a video call with a 'trusted referee' to complete verification. I wasn't expecting to talk to an actual person! I had to wait in a virtual queue for over an hour. Is this normal or did I do something wrong during the initial verification steps? The referee asked me to show my ID again on camera and asked some personal questions. Just wondering if everyone has to do this video interview part or if my verification attempt somehow got flagged for extra review?
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Javier Cruz
yep thats normal for some ppl. happened to me too when i did mine last month. system couldnt match my selfie to my drivers license photo (probably cuz my license pic is like 7 yrs old lol). the video call is their extra security step when the automated system cant verify u 100%
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Natasha Orlova
•Oh that makes sense! My license photo is terrible and I look completely different now. Thanks for letting me know it's not just me. How long did it take after your video call for your DEO account to show you as verified?
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Emma Thompson
This is completely normal. ID.me has two verification paths: 1) The automated path - where your selfie and ID match perfectly and you're verified immediately 2) The trusted referee path - where there's any issue with your documentation or facial match, and you need a video call Common reasons for needing the referee include: - Significant appearance changes since ID photo was taken - Poor quality photos or lighting during selfie capture - ID cards with damage or wear - System technical issues The video call is actually a good security feature as it prevents fraudulent claims. Your DEO account should update within 24-48 hours showing you're verified through ID.me.
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Malik Jackson
•So what happens if u dont do the video call part?? I got to that step and just closed everything cuz i wasnt prepared to talk to somebody. now im worried my account is gonna get locked or something
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Emma Thompson
•If you don't complete the video call, your ID.me verification will remain incomplete. Without completed ID.me verification, you won't be able to access your DEO CONNECT account to claim weeks or manage your benefits. Your account may not get locked immediately, but you won't be able to proceed with any benefit claims until verification is complete. I recommend going back and finishing the process as soon as possible.
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Isabella Costa
THEY DID THIS TO ME TOO!!! And then the wait time was like 3 HOURS before I could talk to a referee!!! Ridiculous system. Why make us jump through all these hoops just to get our benefits??? The whole thing is designed to frustrate people into giving up.
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StarSurfer
•The wait times are definitely frustrating. If you're still struggling with getting through to DEO after completing ID.me verification, I found a service called Claimyr that helped me skip the phone queues. Instead of waiting for hours, they got me connected to a DEO agent in about 20-30 minutes. They have a demo video showing how it works at https://youtu.be/UzW_hbUy-ss?si=zORd51jeq1GX5Ldj. Their website is claimyr.com - it was worth it for me after spending days trying to get through on my own.
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Isabella Costa
•Thanks for the tip! Anything to avoid those wait times. DEO's phone system is the worst.
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Ravi Malhotra
I work in IT security and can explain why this happens. ID.me uses facial recognition technology to match your selfie with your ID photo. When the confidence score falls below a certain threshold (too many differences between images), it routes you to manual verification with a trusted referee. This is actually a good thing - it means their security is working properly rather than automatically rejecting you. Common triggers include: - Significant weight loss/gain - Different hairstyle/color - Facial hair changes - Aging (if ID is several years old) - Different glasses - Poor lighting during selfie capture After your video verification, your ID.me status should link to your DEO account within 48 hours. If it doesn't update by then, contact DEO directly.
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Freya Christensen
•Not true my sister did it and she looks the same as her id and still had to do the video call thing probably just another way for them to delay benefits
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Ravi Malhotra
•There are other technical factors that can trigger the video verification beyond just physical appearance. The system also checks for image quality, unusual patterns in the verification attempt, network issues, or inconsistencies in the supporting documentation. It's not necessarily about delaying benefits but ensuring the right person is accessing the account. Around 30-40% of all verification attempts get routed to video verification even with good photo matches.
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Natasha Orlova
Update: My DEO account is now showing that I'm verified! It took about 36 hours after the video call. For anyone else going through this process, make sure you have good lighting for the video call and have your ID ready. The referee was actually really nice and the call only took about 5 minutes once I finally got connected. Thanks everyone for confirming this is normal!
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Javier Cruz
•glad it worked out!! the whole process is stressful enough without wondering if ur doing it right lol
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Liam Murphy
Just went through this exact same thing last week! The video call requirement caught me off guard too - I was expecting it to be completely automated. My wait time was about 90 minutes which was frustrating, but the actual call with the referee was pretty straightforward. They just verified my identity documents and asked a few basic questions to confirm I was really me. The whole video portion took maybe 10 minutes once I got connected. My verification status updated the next day and I was able to access my DEO account without any issues after that. Definitely normal from what I can tell!
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Yara Abboud
I just finished my ID.me verification this morning and had the exact same experience! The video call requirement totally blindsided me - I was expecting it to be completely automated like most online verifications. My wait time was about 2 hours which was pretty brutal, but I used the time to get organized and make sure I had good lighting set up. The actual video call with the referee was much less intimidating than I expected - they were very professional and walked me through each step. They had me show my driver's license from different angles and asked me to verify my address and last 4 of SSN. The whole video portion took maybe 5-6 minutes once connected. Based on what others are saying, it sounds like this is just their standard security protocol when the automated system can't get a high enough confidence match. My verification status is still showing as pending, but hopefully it'll update within the next day or two like everyone else's did!
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Kayla Morgan
•Congrats on getting through the video call! The 2 hour wait sounds rough but at least you used the time productively to get your setup ready. I'm sure your verification will update soon - from what I've been reading here it seems like most people see their status change within 24-48 hours after completing the video call. It's crazy how many of us got surprised by this requirement! I wonder if ID.me could do a better job of explaining upfront that some people might need to do a video interview, just so we're not all caught off guard when it happens.
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Ellie Simpson
I just went through this exact same thing last week! I was so confused when it suddenly switched to requiring a video call - I thought for sure I had done something wrong during the upload process. My wait time ended up being about 2.5 hours which was absolutely brutal, but I stuck it out since I didn't want to start over. The referee was actually really nice though and made the whole thing feel very routine. They had me hold up my ID at different angles, verify my address, and asked a couple other basic questions to confirm my identity. The actual video portion only took about 8-9 minutes once I finally got connected. What really helped was making sure I was in a room with good natural light and had my physical ID easily accessible. My DEO account updated to show verified status about 30 hours later. It's definitely frustrating that they don't warn you upfront that this might be required, but it seems like it's just part of their normal security process when the automated matching doesn't work perfectly. Hang in there - once you get through the video call part, everything should update pretty quickly!
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Marcus Williams
•That 2.5 hour wait sounds absolutely brutal! I'm impressed you stuck it out - I probably would have given up and tried again later. It's really helpful to hear that the referee made it feel routine rather than intimidating. I'm planning to do mine this weekend and these firsthand accounts are making me feel much more prepared for what to expect. The lack of upfront warning about the potential video call requirement does seem like a major oversight on ID.me's part - it would save everyone a lot of confusion and stress if they just mentioned it as a possibility from the start.
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StarSailor
I just completed my ID.me verification yesterday and had the exact same experience! I was totally caught off guard when it suddenly required a video call - I thought I had somehow failed the automated process. My wait time was about 1.5 hours which felt endless, but the referee was really professional and made the whole thing quick once connected. They had me show my driver's license from different angles and asked basic verification questions like my address and last 4 of SSN. The actual video call only took about 5-6 minutes. My DEO account is still showing pending verification, but based on everyone's experiences here it sounds like it should update within the next day or two. It's really reassuring to read all these similar experiences - definitely makes it clear this is just their standard security protocol when the facial recognition can't get a high enough match. Thanks for posting this question, it's been super helpful to see I'm not alone in being surprised by this requirement!
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Gabrielle Dubois
•I'm going through the same thing right now! Currently sitting in the queue waiting for a referee and it's been about an hour so far. This thread has been super helpful - I was starting to panic thinking I did something wrong when it suddenly switched to requiring a video call. It's good to know this is normal and that the actual call is quick once you get connected. Did you have any technical issues during your call, or did everything go smoothly? I'm a bit worried about my internet connection dropping or something going wrong during the video portion after waiting so long to get connected.
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Ahooker-Equator
•@Gabrielle Dubois Everything went smoothly on my end! My internet connection held up fine during the call. The referee actually asked me at the beginning if I could see and hear them clearly, and they checked that their audio/video was working on my end too. If you do have any technical issues, they re'pretty understanding about it - from what I could tell they deal with connection problems fairly regularly. Just make sure you re'using a stable wifi connection rather than cellular data if possible. You re'almost there - an hour wait is pretty typical from what everyone s'saying here! The actual call will be over before you know it.
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Chad Winthrope
I just went through this same process two weeks ago and was completely blindsided by the video call requirement! I had set aside maybe 20 minutes thinking it would be a quick automated upload, but ended up spending almost 3 hours total between the wait time and call. My queue time was around 2 hours 15 minutes which was absolutely brutal, but I stuck it out since I didn't want to start over. The referee was actually really nice though - very patient and professional. They had me show my driver's license from multiple angles, verify my full name and address, and confirm the last 4 digits of my SSN. The actual video portion took maybe 8-10 minutes once connected. What helped me was having good overhead lighting and making sure my phone was on silent so there wouldn't be any interruptions. My DEO account updated to verified status exactly 48 hours after the call completed. It's definitely frustrating that there's zero warning about potentially needing to do a video interview, but it seems like this is just their standard security protocol. At least now I know for next time to block out a whole afternoon if I ever have to do ID verification again!
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Jibriel Kohn
•Wow, 2 hours 15 minutes is definitely on the longer side of wait times I've been seeing here! That's really frustrating, especially when you were only expecting it to take 20 minutes total. I'm impressed you stuck it out rather than giving up and trying again later. The 48 hour verification update timeline is helpful to know - seems like most people are seeing their status change somewhere between 24-48 hours after completing the call. I totally agree about the lack of warning being the most annoying part. It would be so much better if ID.me just mentioned upfront that some verifications require a video interview so people could plan accordingly and not get caught off guard like we all did!
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Jamal Anderson
I just completed my ID.me verification this morning and had the exact same experience! I was totally unprepared for the video call requirement - thought it would be a simple upload and done process. My wait time was about 2 hours which was pretty brutal, but I used that time to find better lighting and make sure my setup was ready. The referee was super professional and patient once I got connected. They had me show my driver's license from multiple angles, verify my address and last 4 digits of my SSN, and confirm my full name and DOB. The actual video portion only took about 5-6 minutes. Based on everyone's experiences here, it sounds like this is completely normal when the automated facial recognition can't get a high enough confidence match. Really wish ID.me would give people a heads up that this might be required instead of springing it on you unexpectedly! My verification is still showing as pending, but hopefully it'll update within the next day or two like everyone else's has.
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Sofia Morales
•That 2 hour wait sounds rough, but good thinking using that time to optimize your setup! I'm impressed you stuck it out - I probably would have given up and tried again later. It's really reassuring to hear from someone who just went through this today. All these firsthand accounts are making it clear that this video requirement is way more common than any of us expected. Based on everyone's timelines here, your verification should definitely update within the next 48 hours. The lack of warning from ID.me really is the worst part of this whole process - would save everyone so much stress if they just mentioned it as a possibility upfront!
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