Can I get EDD benefits after leaving job due to domestic violence situation?
I recently had to abruptly leave my job of 3 years because I needed to escape a domestic violence situation. My abusive partner knew where I worked and would show up unexpectedly. I didn't give my employer any notice - just packed up and moved to a different city for my safety. I'm now trying to get back on my feet and wondering if I qualify for unemployment benefits in this situation? I've heard EDD has some exceptions for 'good cause' to quit, but I'm not sure if my situation counts. I didn't file a police report (was too scared) but I do have texts from my partner that show threats. Would that be enough proof? Has anyone gone through something similar with EDD?
27 comments


Luca Russo
yea u can apply, they have special rules for DV victims. my cousin went thru similar thing last yr
0 coins
Zara Mirza
•That's a relief to hear. Did your cousin have to provide any specific documentation or proof? I'm worried they won't believe me without a police report.
0 coins
Nia Harris
Yes, you absolutely can apply and likely qualify for benefits. EDD recognizes domestic violence as 'good cause' for leaving employment. You'll want to indicate this when you file your claim - there's a specific question about why you left your job where you can select this reason. As for documentation, text messages showing threats can definitely help. Other supporting evidence might include statements from friends/family who knew about your situation, medical records if you ever sought treatment, communications with domestic violence support organizations, or restraining orders if you had one. When you file, be prepared for a phone interview with an EDD representative who will discuss your situation. Be honest about why you left, and explain that you feared for your safety. They understand these situations are sensitive and handle them accordingly. Wishing you safety and peace as you rebuild.
0 coins
GalaxyGazer
•This is actually NOT completely correct! My sister went through this and EDD did approve her but they kept asking for more and more documentation. They wanted proof she was actually LIVING with the abuser - rental agreement with both names or something similar. It was traumatic for her to keep having to "prove" the abuse. So just be prepared for that possibility!!
0 coins
Mateo Sanchez
The EDD system is TERRIBLE with sensitive situations like this. I left my job due to stalking (not DV but similar safety concerns) and they made me jump through SO MANY HOOPS. The initial rep I talked to was understanding, but then I got transferred to someone else who questioned EVERYTHING. It felt like I was being accused of lying!! They kept saying "where's the documentation" and "we need more evidence" - like excuse me??? I was RUNNING FOR MY LIFE!!! Make sure to request a phone interview with someone who specializes in these cases. The regular EDD people sometimes don't know the DV exceptions AT ALL.
0 coins
Zara Mirza
•Oh no, I'm so sorry you went through that. That's exactly what I'm afraid of - having to keep explaining and justifying a really traumatic situation. Did you eventually get approved?
0 coins
Mateo Sanchez
•Yes, I did get approved but it took TWO MONTHS of back and forth! And that was AFTER I managed to get a police report (which I know you don't have). The system is designed to make people give up, I swear. My advice is DON'T GIVE UP!! Keep pushing and if one rep is unhelpful, try to talk to someone else. And document EVERYTHING.
0 coins
Aisha Mahmood
So sorry ur going through this. My friend was in similar situation and got benefits. EDD was actually understanding once she explained. Hang in there! ❤️
0 coins
Ethan Moore
I work with DV survivors and help them navigate these systems. Here's some practical advice for your situation: 1. When filing your claim, select "compelling family or health circumstances" as your reason for leaving work. Then in the explanation box, clearly state it was due to domestic violence. 2. Be prepared for the phone interview. Have your evidence organized (texts, emails, names of witnesses, dates of incidents). 3. Consider contacting a local domestic violence organization - they often have advocates who can help you with this process and sometimes even write supporting letters. 4. Remember that California specifically protects DV survivors in unemployment law under Section 1256 of the UI Code. 5. If you're denied initially, definitely appeal! Many people get approved on appeal, especially with sensitive situations. One other thing - when you file, you may need to provide your new address. If you're concerned about your ex finding this information, you can request address confidentiality through EDD's privacy protocols.
0 coins
Zara Mirza
•Thank you so much for this detailed information. I hadn't even thought about the address privacy issue - that's really important. I've reached out to a local DV organization and they're helping me gather documentation. Do you think it's worth mentioning the specific section of the UI Code during my interview?
0 coins
Ethan Moore
•You're welcome! It's not necessary to cite the specific code section, but it doesn't hurt either. The EDD representatives should be familiar with the policies. What's most important is clearly explaining how the domestic violence situation made it necessary for you to leave your job. Focus on the safety aspect - that you genuinely feared for your wellbeing and leaving was your only reasonable option. I'm glad you've connected with a DV organization - their support can make a big difference in this process.
0 coins
Yuki Kobayashi
I had a completely different issue with EDD but couldn't get through on the phones for WEEKS. Kept hitting that stupid "we're experiencing high call volume" message. Finally I found this service called Claimyr that got me through to an EDD rep in less than 20 minutes. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/JmuwXR7HA10?si=TSwYbu_GOwYzt9km For something as complicated as your situation, you definitely want to talk to a real person rather than just submit online. Check out their website at claimyr.com - it was worth it for me since I was going crazy trying to get through on my own.
0 coins
Zara Mirza
•Thank you, I hadn't heard of this service. You're right that I'd feel much better talking to an actual person about my situation rather than just submitting forms online. I'll check out that video.
0 coins
Luca Russo
•does this service actually work? the regular edd number never connects me to anyone
0 coins
Yuki Kobayashi
•@profile6 Yeah it worked for me. They basically keep dialing for you and then call you when they've got an EDD agent on the line. Saved me from having to redial for hours.
0 coins
Carmen Vega
I remmbr reading somewhere that they can waive the work search requirments for a bit in DV cases too. Like u dont have to apply to jobs right away if ur still getting settled after moving. not 100% sure tho
0 coins
Ethan Moore
•This is correct. EDD can grant temporary exemptions from work search requirements for individuals who have left work due to domestic violence and are in the process of relocating or establishing safety. You would need to explain this during your eligibility interview and they can note it in your file. However, this is typically a temporary accommodation, not a permanent waiver of work search requirements.
0 coins
Mateo Sanchez
Whatever you do, DON'T put your work history online in the EDD portal where your abuser might somehow see it! My friend's ex somehow figured out where she was working through some public records and it created a whole new safety issue. Ask EDD about their privacy protections for DV survivors specifically. Some reps know about them and some don't!
0 coins
Zara Mirza
Thank you all so much for your advice and support. I filed my claim today and requested a phone interview. I've been working with a local DV organization to gather supporting documentation, and they're actually providing me with a letter explaining my situation. I also found some emails and texts that show the pattern of abuse, plus I have two friends who witnessed incidents and are willing to provide statements. I'm feeling a bit more hopeful now, though still nervous about the process. I'll update this thread after my phone interview to let you all know how it went. Thanks again for all your help - it means more than you know to not feel alone in this.
0 coins
Aisha Mahmood
•Good luck! You're doing all the right things. ❤️
0 coins
Kk Kara
•@Zara Mirza What was your outcome?
0 coins
Jacob Lewis
You're being so brave through all of this. Just wanted to add that when you do your phone interview, don't feel like you have to rush through explaining your situation. Take your time, and if you need a moment to collect yourself that's completely okay. The rep should be patient with you given the sensitive nature. Also, if at any point during the process you feel like the person you're talking to isn't understanding the DV exception or seems dismissive, don't hesitate to ask to speak with a supervisor or request to be transferred to someone who specializes in these cases. You deserve to be treated with compassion and understanding. Wishing you all the best with your interview - you've got this! 💪
0 coins
Fernanda Marquez
•Thank you for such kind and encouraging words. You're absolutely right about taking my time during the interview - I tend to rush when I'm nervous, especially talking about difficult topics. It's reassuring to know I can ask for someone who specializes in these cases if needed. I hadn't thought about that option but it makes total sense. Really appreciate the support from everyone here! 💙
0 coins
Kk Kara
•@Fernanda Marquez Did you have an interview with EDD?
0 coins
McKenzie Shade
I went through something very similar about 18 months ago. Left my job suddenly due to an abusive ex who was escalating and showing up at my workplace. EDD did approve my claim, but it took about 6 weeks total from filing to first payment. A few things that helped me: - I kept a detailed timeline of incidents leading up to when I left work - Screenshots of threatening messages (which you mentioned having) - A brief statement from my therapist confirming I was dealing with domestic violence trauma - Contact info for the DV hotline I had called (even though I didn't file a police report either) The phone interview was actually less intimidating than I expected. The rep was professional and seemed experienced with these situations. They asked specific questions about how the abuse related to my work situation and why leaving felt necessary for my safety. One tip - when they ask about your job search activities, mention any steps you're taking to establish safety first (new address, changed phone number, etc.) as they do understand these situations require settling in before actively job hunting. You're taking all the right steps by working with a DV organization. Stay strong - the system does work for survivors, even if it's not always smooth. Feel free to reach out if you have questions after your interview!
0 coins
Kk Kara
•@McKenzie Shade What documentation did they ask you to provide? I ve'been hesitant to apply for UI because I don t'have a current police report or anything. I do have texts to my boss explaining there was a DV incident and pictures of my injuries that I took several days later to show her proof that I was unable to go in to work. When I went to pick up my check about (2 weeks after the incident I) still had black eyes and bruises, so hopefully my ex-employer will be able to confirm that I quit due to domestic violence.
0 coins
Jasmine Quinn
•@McKenzie Shade Thank you so much for sharing your experience - it s'really encouraging to hear from someone who went through something so similar and got approved. The timeline idea is brilliant, I m'going to work on putting together a detailed timeline of events. It s'helpful to know that even without a police report, the combination of evidence you had was sufficient. Your point about mentioning safety steps during job search questions is really smart too - I hadn t'thought about framing it that way. Really appreciate you taking the time to share all these practical details!
0 coins