When to apply for baby bonding PFL after birth on 3/15? New dad confused about timing
My daughter was just born last Friday (3/15/25) and I'm planning to take time off for baby bonding in May when my wife goes back to work. I'm completely confused about when I should actually submit the PFL application. The EDD website says something about applying "no earlier than the first day of your leave" but also mentions a 7-day waiting period? My HR department wasn't helpful at all and just gave me the EDD website link. Do I apply right now even though I'm not taking leave until May? Or do I wait until right before May? I'm worried about delays in processing and want to make sure the money comes through when I actually need it. This is our first child and I have no idea how any of this works! Thanks for any help.
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Giovanni Conti
First off, congratulations on your new daughter! For baby bonding PFL, you'll need to apply WHEN you actually start your leave in May, not now. There's no 7-day waiting period for PFL (you might be confusing it with SDI/disability, which is what birth mothers usually get first). The process works like this: 1. When you start your actual leave in May, file your claim 2. You'll need the baby's birth certificate (or hospital record) 3. Your employer will need to complete their portion 4. Benefits typically begin processing within 2 weeks Important: You have 12 months from your daughter's birth date to use your 8 weeks of baby bonding time. You can split it up or take it all at once.
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Amara Chukwu
ā¢Thank you so much! That makes a lot more sense. I was definitely mixing up PFL with SDI. So I wait until the actual first day of my leave in May to submit everything? I'm just worried about having no income for several weeks if there are processing delays.
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Fatima Al-Hashimi
I took baby bonding leave last summer, and here's my practical advice: Apply exactly on your first day of actual leave, not before. BUT - prepare all your documentation ahead of time so you're ready to submit immediately: ⢠Have a copy of your daughter's birth certificate scanned and ready ⢠Talk to your employer NOW about the DE2508 form they'll need to complete ⢠Make sure your EDD account is set up and you remember your login Processing took 11 calendar days for me, and payment came 3 days after approval. So about 2 weeks total from application to money in my account.
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NeonNova
ā¢same here! exact same timeline for me too. just make sure ur employer actually fills out their part or itll get stuck! mine got lazy about it and i had to bug them 3 times
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Dylan Campbell
congrats on the baby!! just be careful cause i thought i could apply early too but you definitely can't. if you submit before your leave starts they'll just deny it and you'll have to reapply anyway which just wastes time. make sure your HR actually knows what they're talking about because mine gave me wrong info too š
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Amara Chukwu
ā¢Thank you! Yeah my HR department has been pretty useless throughout this whole process. They just hand out pamphlets without actually explaining anything. I appreciate the heads up!
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Sofia Hernandez
The EDD system is SUCH A NIGHTMARE!!! When I applied for PFL after my twins were born last year, I did EXACTLY what the website said and still got denied because of some obscure paperwork issue they never explained properly. Had to reapply THREE TIMES before it went through, and by then I was already back at work and almost missed out on the money completely!!! Make sure you call them to verify EVERYTHING because their website is full of contradictory information. And don't expect the online messaging system to work - they NEVER respond!!
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Dmitry Kuznetsov
ā¢I had the same nightmare experience trying to reach EDD about my baby bonding claim. After being on hold for 2+ hours multiple days in a row, I finally used Claimyr (claimyr.com) and got connected to an EDD agent in under 15 minutes. Saved my sanity during an already stressful time with a newborn. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/DOLxZQb92wM?si=6N1iCQ3a8Cdb2Ay5 - totally worth it when you need answers right away.
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Fatima Al-Hashimi
One more important tip about your May start date - make sure you're clear with your employer about your exact leave dates. Your employer's certification on the DE2508 form needs to match the dates you put on your application. If there's any discrepancy, your claim will get flagged for review which adds delays. Also, when you do apply, choose direct deposit instead of the debit card option. Direct deposit is much faster once your claim is approved. The debit card can take an extra 3-5 business days to arrive in the mail.
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Amara Chukwu
ā¢This is really helpful, thank you! I wasn't even aware there were different payment options. I'll definitely set up direct deposit when the time comes.
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Ava Thompson
When I had my baby last year, I thought I could outsmart the system by applying for PFL a week before my leave started. Big mistake! My claim got denied, and I had to reapply, which actually ended up DELAYING my benefits by almost 3 weeks! My husband and I were really counting on that money for bills. Oh also, random tip - when you do apply in May, do it first thing in the morning on a weekday. I've heard the system processes applications faster when submitted during business hours rather than on weekends or late at night. Not sure if it's true but worked for me!
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Dylan Campbell
ā¢i did mine at like 1am when i was up with the baby lol. still got processed in 2 weeks š¤·āāļø don't think time of day matters
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NeonNova
my baby is 4 months now and the whole process was easier than i thought! just make sure ur work actually knows what theyre doing. my manager kept confusing PFL with vacation time and it was super annoying. also the EDD website times out like every 10 mins while ur filling out the application so have all ur info ready before u start!!
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Amara Chukwu
ā¢Thanks for the tip about the website timing out! I'll make sure to have everything ready to go. My manager seems just as confused as I am about the whole process.
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Giovanni Conti
Since you'll be taking your leave in May (approximately 6-7 weeks after birth), make sure you understand how PFL interacts with other leave types. If you're also using FMLA/CFRA for your bonding time, those run concurrently with PFL. The full PFL benefit period is 8 weeks for baby bonding, and you can use it anytime within 12 months of birth. If you think you might want to split your leave (some now, some later), you'll need to submit separate claims for each period. Just something to consider in your planning.
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Amara Chukwu
ā¢That's a good point about FMLA. I need to double-check with HR about how everything overlaps. I'm planning to take the full 8 weeks all at once, but it's good to know I have options to split it if needed.
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Dmitry Kuznetsov
Just want to clarify something important that people mix up all the time - there's NO waiting period for PFL baby bonding. The 7-day waiting period is only for disability claims (SDI), which is what birth mothers typically use for recovery after childbirth. For dads taking baby bonding leave, you apply on the first day of your leave, and if approved, you get paid for the entire period beginning with that first day. No unpaid waiting week like with disability claims!
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Sofia Hernandez
ā¢They USED TO have a waiting period for PFL too though!!! The rules changed a few years ago so a lot of the advice online is outdated and confusing. Just another way EDD makes everything needlessly complicated!!! š¤¬
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