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Daniela Rossi

Confused about Baby Bonding PFL vs 'state bonding time' - What's left after my 6 weeks of PFL ends?

I'm completely confused about my leave options after having my baby in March 2025. My 6 weeks of Paid Family Leave ends this Friday, and I was planning to return to work on Monday. However, my HR department left me a voicemail today asking if I was returning Monday or 'taking state bonding time.' I thought the 6 weeks of PFL WAS my bonding time! My leave history so far: - 4 weeks pregnancy disability before birth (baby arrived naturally one day before due date) - 6 weeks disability after birth for recovery - 6 weeks PFL for bonding that ends this Friday My leave summary shows I still have time available under CFRA (6.60 weeks), PDL (11.53 weeks), and FMLA (0.8 weeks). What is this 'state bonding time' my HR mentioned? Is it paid or unpaid? Is it different from what I've already taken? I'm so confused because I thought I was out of paid time!

Ryan Kim

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Sounds like your HR is referring to the California Family Rights Act (CFRA) leave, which gives you up to 12 weeks of job-protected time off to bond with your new baby. The catch? It's UNPAID unless your employer has some kind of paid program on top of the state benefits. Your leave summary shows you still have 6.60 weeks of CFRA available. Basically, you've used all your PAID state benefits (disability + PFL), but you still have the right to take more unpaid time off with job protection. That's probably what they're asking about.

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Daniela Rossi

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Oh! So it's unpaid time? That changes everything - I don't think we can afford for me to take unpaid leave right now. But I'm still confused because I thought CFRA and PFL ran concurrently. Did I somehow use only part of my CFRA time?

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Zoe Walker

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This is a common misunderstanding with California's leave system! Let me clarify: 1. Pregnancy Disability Leave (PDL): You used 10 weeks total (4 before birth + 6 after) 2. Paid Family Leave (PFL): You used 6 weeks for baby bonding 3. CFRA: This gives you 12 weeks of job-protected bonding leave Here's the key: CFRA baby bonding leave does NOT run at the same time as PDL. So when you were on PDL, you weren't using CFRA time. Your 6 weeks of PFL DID use up some CFRA time, but you still have 6.6 weeks of CFRA protected leave remaining. So yes, you can take additional time off (6.6 more weeks), but it would be unpaid unless your employer offers supplemental paid leave. Your job would be protected during this time.

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Daniela Rossi

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Thank you so much for explaining! I think I get it now. So my 6 weeks PFL was actually running concurrently with CFRA (using up 6 weeks of my 12 total CFRA weeks). And now I have 6.6 weeks of CFRA left, but with no more state pay. Is that right?

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Elijah Brown

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yep ur HR is just checking if ur gonna use the rest of ur protected leave time. i took the full cfra time with my kid last yr but yeah the last 6 wks were unpaid and it SUCKED financially but was worth it for me. depends on ur situation i guess

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Daniela Rossi

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Thanks for sharing! Did your employer require you to take the remaining CFRA time all at once? Or can it be broken up? I'm wondering if I could maybe take a couple weeks now and save the rest for later...

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I went through EXACT same confusion when my twins were born!! The CA leave system is RIDICULOUS!!! Nobody explains that PFL and CFRA are different things! My HR dept gave me wrong info TWICE and I almost lost my job protection because of their mistakes. When I tried calling EDD for clarification I spent 4 HOURS on hold only to be disconnected!!! Beyond frustrating!!!

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To put it simply: you've used all your PAID leave from the state, but you still have protected unpaid leave available. Here's what each program gives you: - PDL: Up to 17.33 weeks of job-protected leave for pregnancy-related disability (you used 10 weeks) - PFL: 8 weeks of partial wage replacement (not job protection) for bonding (you used 6 weeks) - CFRA: 12 weeks of job-protected leave for bonding (you used 5.4 weeks, have 6.6 weeks left) - FMLA: 12 weeks of federal job protection (you used 11.2 weeks, have 0.8 weeks left) Your HR is asking if you want to use your remaining CFRA time. It's job-protected but unpaid. The reason your CFRA and FMLA usage amounts differ is because FMLA runs concurrently with PDL, while CFRA bonding leave does not overlap with PDL.

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Daniela Rossi

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This is SO helpful! I see now - my state disability payments were coming during my PDL time, and my PFL payments were during part of my CFRA time. And I have CFRA time left but no more state payments. Ugh, why isn't this explained better anywhere?!

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Zoe Walker

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Quick update on your PFL usage - I notice you mentioned you've used 6 weeks of PFL, but California increased PFL to 8 weeks in 2020. So you might actually have 2 more weeks of paid benefits available! Double-check with EDD to make sure you're getting all the paid benefits you're entitled to before deciding whether to take unpaid leave.

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Daniela Rossi

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Wait, WHAT?? I had no idea PFL is actually 8 weeks now! That would be amazing if I still have 2 weeks of paid leave left. I'm definitely going to check with EDD about this. Thank you so much for mentioning it!

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Your leave summary actually makes sense to me - I'm an HR manager (not yours obviously lol). Your FMLA and PDL time ran together for your pregnancy/birth recovery. Then your CFRA and PFL ran together for bonding. But CFRA gives more weeks than PFL pays for. So you have used: - Most of your FMLA (overlapped with PDL and part of PFL) - About 6 weeks of CFRA (during your PFL) - All of your paid benefits So you have about 6.6 weeks of unpaid but job-protected CFRA leave remaining.

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Daniela Rossi

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Thank you for explaining from an HR perspective. So if I understand correctly, the fact that I still have 11.53 weeks of PDL showing as available doesn't really matter at this point since I'm past the recovery period and into bonding time, right?

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Ryan Kim

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Also, check if your employer offers any supplemental paid leave that might cover the remaining CFRA time! Some companies have policies that will provide partial pay during CFRA leave after state benefits run out. Worth asking HR about when you talk to them.

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Elijah Brown

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god i wish my company did this!! we just get the bare minimum state stuff. my friend at google gets like 24 weeks PAID parental leave can u believe that?? so unfair

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Daniela Rossi

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Update: I called my HR back and you all were right! They were asking about the remaining unpaid CFRA time. I also asked about the PFL being 8 weeks instead of 6, and they confirmed I actually DO have 2 more weeks of paid leave left! Apparently there was some miscommunication about my leave schedule. So I'm going to take the 2 more weeks of paid PFL and then probably return rather than taking unpaid time. Thank you all SO much for your help - would have been completely lost without your explanations!

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Zoe Walker

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That's great news! So glad you're getting those additional 2 weeks of paid leave. California's system is confusing but at least the benefits are relatively generous compared to most states. Enjoy your additional bonding time with your little one!

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Landon Morgan

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Wow, what a journey you've been on! I'm so glad you got it sorted out and discovered you had those extra 2 weeks of paid PFL - that's a huge difference maker financially. Your experience really highlights how confusing California's leave system can be, even for HR departments! I'm currently pregnant and trying to figure out my own leave plan, and your post has been incredibly helpful in understanding how all these different programs work together. Thanks for sharing your story and for providing that update - it gives me hope that I'll be able to navigate this maze too when my time comes. Enjoy those extra weeks with your baby!

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Yara Sayegh

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I'm so glad this thread helped you understand the system better! As someone who just went through this maze myself, my biggest advice is to start documenting everything early and don't be afraid to ask HR multiple times for clarification. Also, definitely verify your PFL entitlement - I almost missed out on 2 weeks of paid leave because of miscommunication! The California system is generous but SO confusing. Good luck with your pregnancy and future leave planning!

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Sophia Miller

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This thread has been so educational! I'm a new parent myself and had no idea about the complexity of California's leave system. Reading through everyone's experiences really shows how important it is to advocate for yourself and double-check everything with both HR and EDD. The fact that you almost missed out on 2 weeks of paid PFL because of miscommunication is exactly why these discussions are so valuable. It's frustrating that such an important system is so poorly explained, but I'm grateful for communities like this where people share their real experiences. Congratulations on your new baby and I'm so glad you got those extra paid weeks figured out!

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Absolutely agree! This whole thread has been like a masterclass in California leave benefits that I never got anywhere else. I'm expecting my first baby in a few months and honestly had no clue about the difference between PFL, CFRA, PDL, etc. Seeing Daniela's real experience - from the confusion to the happy discovery of extra paid weeks - is so much more helpful than any official government website I've tried to read. It's crazy that new parents have to become experts in this complicated system right when they're dealing with everything else that comes with having a baby. Thank you to everyone who shared their knowledge here!

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Emma Bianchi

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As a California parent who just went through this exact situation last year, I can't emphasize enough how important it is to get everything in writing from both your HR department and EDD! I had a similar experience where my HR initially told me I only had 6 weeks of PFL, but when I called EDD directly, I discovered I was entitled to the full 8 weeks. The key lesson I learned is that even HR departments sometimes aren't fully up to date on all the changes to California's leave laws. I also recommend keeping detailed records of all your leave dates and payments - it really helps when you're trying to figure out what benefits you've used and what's still available. Congratulations on your new baby, and I'm so happy you discovered those extra 2 weeks of paid leave! Those early weeks are so precious.

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This is such great advice about getting everything in writing! I'm actually dealing with a similar situation right now - I'm 7 months pregnant and trying to get clarity from my HR about my leave options. After reading this whole thread, I realize I need to be way more proactive about understanding all the different programs and not just rely on what HR tells me. The fact that even HR departments can be confused or not up-to-date is honestly a bit scary, but at least now I know to verify directly with EDD too. Did you find the EDD representatives helpful when you called, or was it hard to get through? I keep hearing mixed things about wait times and getting accurate information from them.

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