Can I combine California PFL baby bonding with employer-provided leave or do I have to choose?
I'm due to have my first baby in March 2025 and trying to understand how leave works. My employer offers 6 weeks of paid parental leave at 100% salary. I also know California has the Paid Family Leave program for bonding time. Can I use both? Like take the California PFL (8 weeks I think?) and THEN use my employer's 6 weeks? Or are they mutually exclusive and I have to pick one? My HR dept wasn't clear and gave me a bunch of confusing paperwork. Has anyone successfully combined both types of leave?
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Abigail Patel
Yes! You can absolutely use both California PFL and your employer's parental leave. They're two separate benefits and you're entitled to both. The key is coordinating them properly. Most people use them in this order: 1. Pregnancy Disability Leave (if applicable) + SDI benefits 2. California PFL for baby bonding (8 weeks) 3. Employer-provided parental leave (your 6 weeks) Some employers require you to use their benefit concurrently with state benefits, while others allow consecutive use. You need to specifically ask your HR if they allow you to "supplement" or "stack" the benefits.
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Rhett Bowman
•Thank you so much! I'll ask HR specifically about "supplementing" or "stacking" - those terms might help get a clearer answer. I didn't even think about pregnancy disability leave before the baby bonding time. Is that automatic or do I have to apply for that separately?
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Daniel White
i had my baby last yr and used both!!! my work gave me 4 wks and then i got the CA bonding time after. but my friend at another company had to take them at the same time bc of her work policy. so it really depends on ur employer rules
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Rhett Bowman
•That's really helpful to know it varies by company. Did your employer pay you their full benefit on top of what California gave you, or did they just cover the difference?
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Nolan Carter
The correct answer depends entirely on your employer's specific policy. California PFL provides approximately 60-70% of your wages up to a maximum benefit amount when you take time off to bond with a new child. This is a state benefit that you're entitled to regardless of what your employer offers. Your employer's policy will determine whether: 1. You can take their 6 weeks AFTER your state PFL (consecutive/stacked) 2. You must take their 6 weeks AT THE SAME TIME as your state PFL (concurrent/supplemental) In the concurrent scenario, your employer might pay the difference between the state benefit and your full salary. In the consecutive scenario, you could potentially get 14 weeks total (8 weeks state + 6 weeks employer). Ask your HR department specifically: "Is your parental leave policy concurrent with or consecutive to California PFL benefits?"
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Natalia Stone
•This is such important information! When I had my baby in 2024, my employer told me I HAD to take their leave concurrently, but then I found out from a coworker that wasn't true. I had to show HR the actual company policy (which they apparently didn't understand). Make sure you get it in writing!
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Tasia Synder
Don't forget that CA PFL is NOT job protected! You need CFRA for that! So many ppl don't know this and get confused.
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Abigail Patel
•Good point! California Family Rights Act (CFRA) provides the job protection, while PFL provides the partial wage replacement. You need to make sure you qualify for CFRA (work for an employer with 5+ employees, worked there 1+ year, worked 1,250+ hours in the past 12 months). Most people use CFRA and PFL together.
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Selena Bautista
I HATE how confusing they make this!!! When I had my baby last year, I spent HOURS on hold with EDD trying to figure out how to coordinate everything. I kept getting disconnected or getting different answers each time I called. So frustrating!!! Eventually I found this service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me connected to an EDD rep in like 10 minutes instead of waiting for hours. They have a video demo: https://youtu.be/DOLxZQb92wM?si=6N1iCQ3a8Cdb2Ay5. It saved my sanity during maternity leave planning. The EDD rep was able to explain exactly how to file everything to maximize my benefits.
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Mohamed Anderson
•Does that service actually work? I've spent like 4 hours on hold with EDD over the past few days trying to figure out how my employer's leave coordinates with PFL. Might try this if it actually connects you faster.
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Natalia Stone
Here's my experience with combining benefits in 2024: 1. I took 4 weeks of pregnancy disability before birth (got SDI payments) 2. After birth, I remained on disability for 6 more weeks for vaginal delivery recovery (8 weeks for c-section is standard) 3. THEN I took 8 weeks of California PFL for baby bonding 4. FINALLY I took my employer's 10 weeks of parental leave Total time off: 18 weeks (would be 20 if I had a c-section)! But again, it depends on your employer's policies. Mine specifically stated that their parental leave could be taken after state benefits. Get your hands on your company's written policy.
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Rhett Bowman
•That's amazing you got so much time! Did your employer require any specific documentation to prove you'd completed the state benefits before starting their leave? I'm definitely going to track down our written policy.
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Mohamed Anderson
wait i thought california pfl was 6 weeks not 8??
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Nolan Carter
•It used to be 6 weeks, but it was increased to 8 weeks a few years ago. As of 2025, California PFL provides 8 weeks of partial wage replacement benefits for baby bonding.
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Tasia Synder
Another thing to consider - if u have a partner, they can also get 8 wks PFL for bonding too! My husband and I staggered our leaves so baby had parent home longer
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Rhett Bowman
•That's a great point! My husband's work doesn't have a great leave policy, so knowing he can at least get the CA PFL is helpful. We'll definitely look into staggering our leaves.
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Abigail Patel
One more important point: When you apply for PFL through EDD, you'll need to use the DE2508 form. Make sure to indicate the correct start date based on when your employer leave ends (if taking consecutively) or when your baby is born/adopted (if taking concurrently). Your doctor will need to verify the birth date. Also, remember you don't have to take all 8 weeks at once - you can split it up within the first year of your baby's life.
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Rhett Bowman
•Thank you for mentioning the specific form! I hadn't even gotten that far in my research. And I didn't realize I could split up the 8 weeks - that might actually be really helpful depending on how my employer's policy works. This thread has been so helpful!
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