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This thread is absolutely invaluable! As a first-time parent who just had my baby 3 weeks ago, I'm so grateful I found this before making any decisions about my weekend catering job. I'm currently on PFL from my main office job and was considering picking up a few catering gigs to help with expenses, but after reading about Santiago's $2300 repayment and seeing how strict EDD is about ANY work during leave, I'm definitely not going to risk it. The system really is broken when they give you 60-70% income but penalize you for trying to survive on that reduced amount. Maria, thank you so much for calling EDD and sharing their response - it probably saved me and countless other parents from making costly mistakes. I'm also shocked that you had to use a paid service just to get through to them, but I'll definitely keep Claimyr in mind if I need to contact EDD about anything else. It's heartbreaking that new parents have to choose between financial stability and following confusing rules, but this community is amazing for helping us navigate these impossible situations together!
Congratulations on your new baby! It's wonderful that you found this thread at just 3 weeks postpartum before making any decisions about catering work. Your timing is perfect - you're still in those precious early bonding weeks and haven't risked any benefit complications. The catering situation is so similar to Maria's retail job dilemma, and seeing all these real experiences really shows how easy it would be to unknowingly violate EDD's rules. I'm also a new parent (my daughter is 6 weeks old) and was considering some freelance writing work until I read through this discussion. It's incredibly frustrating that the system reduces our income when we need it most but then penalizes any attempt to supplement it. Focus on enjoying these early moments with your little one - the financial stress is real, but as others have said, this reduced income period is temporary while these bonding weeks are irreplaceable. This community has been such a lifesaver for navigating these confusing policies!
Congratulations on your little one! Your catering situation is such a perfect example of why this thread is so important - it's so easy to think "this is just weekend work at a different job, it shouldn't matter" but EDD clearly doesn't see it that way. The fact that you're only 3 weeks postpartum and already thinking about financial pressures really shows how inadequate that 60-70% benefit rate is for new families. But you're absolutely making the right choice by not risking your main PFL benefits for catering gigs. I've been following this discussion as someone who's about to apply for PFL myself, and the consistent message from everyone who's been through this is clear: any work activity can jeopardize your benefits, regardless of how different it seems from your main job. Focus on those precious newborn snuggles and don't let EDD's broken system steal that joy from you. Your baby won't remember if money was tight, but they'll benefit from having a parent who was fully present during those crucial early weeks!
This thread has been such an eye-opener for me as someone who's currently 5 months pregnant and working both as a physical therapist at a clinic and doing home visits on the side. I had no idea these restrictions existed and was definitely planning to continue some home visits during PFL since it seemed like "different work" from my clinic job. Reading about Santiago's $2300 repayment and all the failed appeals is honestly terrifying - that's more than I'd make in several months of home visits! It's so backwards that EDD reduces our income but then punishes us for trying to survive financially. Maria, thank you for being brave enough to call EDD and share what they told you. Your experience with Claimyr is really valuable - I hate that we have to pay just to get basic information from our own government, but clearly it's worth it to avoid thousands in penalties. I'm definitely going to call them before I apply to get official guidance on my PT situation. This community is incredible for helping parents avoid these costly traps that EDD doesn't clearly explain upfront!
Quick question - does anyone know if changing your name affects your claim in any way? Like, does it reset anything or cause delays? I'm in the middle of receiving benefits and don't wanna mess that up.
Nah, you're good. I changed mine mid-claim and it didn't affect anything. Just make sure you keep certifying under your old name until they confirm the change.
Just wanted to share my recent experience - I actually managed to get through to EDD on my third try by calling right when they opened at 8am. The agent was super helpful and walked me through everything. She said the name change usually takes 5-7 business days to process once they receive your documents. Also, pro tip: they prefer if you send a certified copy of your marriage certificate rather than just a regular photocopy. It might take a bit longer to get one, but it speeds up their processing time. Hope this helps someone! 🤞
Thanks for sharing your experience! 8am calling strategy is smart - I never thought about timing it that way. Quick question though - where do you get a certified copy of your marriage certificate? Is that something you have to request from the county clerk or can you get it online? Just want to make sure I'm prepared before I call! 📋
Hey OP, what's your reason for filing PFL? I'm considering it for bonding time with my newborn, but I'm worried about the financial impact. Any thoughts?
I'm actually filing for the same reason! From what I've read, you get about 60-70% of your wages. It's not full pay, but it's better than nothing for sure.
I'm going through the PFL process right now too! Filed about 10 days ago and still waiting to hear back. From reading all these comments, it sounds like the timeline really varies depending on when you file and how backed up they are. I'm trying to stay patient but it's definitely stressful not knowing when you'll hear something. Has anyone had luck checking the status online, or is calling really the only way to get updates?
Protip: if you can't get through on the phone, try reaching out on Twitter. Sometimes their social media team is more responsive than the actual call center.
I'm dealing with the exact same thing! Applied 5 weeks ago and still stuck on "processing." It's so frustrating not knowing what's happening or if there's an issue with my application. I've tried calling but like everyone else mentioned, can't get through. Thanks for posting this - at least I know I'm not alone in this mess. Going to try some of the suggestions here, especially calling right when they open. This whole system really needs an overhaul 😤
I'm new here but going through the same nightmare! Applied almost 7 weeks ago and still nothing but "processing." The lack of transparency is maddening - like, just tell us if something's missing or give us an actual timeline! I've been lurking and reading all these horror stories. Definitely going to try the early morning calling strategy. This whole situation is stressing me out more than whatever I need the leave for in the first place 😩
Emily Sanjay
I'm jumping in as someone who just completed this exact process 3 months ago with twins! What really helped me was creating a dedicated email folder for all EDD correspondence and taking screenshots of everything I submitted online. The system can be glitchy and having your own digital trail is a lifesaver. One thing I wish someone had told me earlier: when you transition from PDL to PFL after birth, there's sometimes a gap where you might not receive payments for a week or two while they process the new claim. Plan your budget accordingly! Also, your PFL benefits might be calculated differently than your PDL benefits depending on your base period wages, so don't assume they'll be the same amount. The fact that you're planning this out so thoroughly at 36 weeks shows you're going to navigate this successfully. Just remember to be patient with the system - it's not perfect, but the benefits are definitely worth the paperwork hassle. You're doing everything right by asking these questions now rather than scrambling at the last minute!
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Noah Irving
•This is incredibly helpful advice about the potential payment gap between PDL and PFL! I definitely hadn't considered budgeting for that transition period - that's exactly the kind of detail I needed to know. The tip about creating a dedicated email folder and taking screenshots is brilliant too. I can already tell the EDD system is going to require a lot of documentation tracking. It's also good to know that PFL benefits might be calculated differently than PDL - I'll make sure to not assume they'll be the same amount when I'm planning my finances. Thank you for sharing your experience with twins - if you managed this process with multiples, I'm feeling much more confident about handling it with one baby! All of these real-world tips from people who have actually been through this are so much more valuable than trying to decipher the official EDD website alone.
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CyberSiren
As someone who works in HR and helps employees navigate these benefits regularly, I wanted to add a few practical tips that might help! First, when you file your DE2501 for disability, make sure to list your retail job as your "primary employer" since that's the one you're taking leave from. Your data entry job should be listed in the "other employment" section with clear notation that you're continuing it. One thing I always tell employees is to request read receipts when emailing documents to EDD, and if submitting online, print out the confirmation page immediately. The system sometimes doesn't save submissions properly and having proof you filed can save you major headaches later. Also, consider asking your retail job's HR if they participate in the State Disability Insurance (SDI) Enhanced program - some employers pay the extra premium that gives you higher benefit rates. It's worth checking since every dollar counts when you're on leave! You're being so smart to plan this out in advance. Most people wait until they're in labor to figure this stuff out! 😅
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Megan D'Acosta
•This is such valuable insight from someone who works in HR! I had no idea about the SDI Enhanced program - I'm definitely going to ask my retail job's HR about that when I call them this week. The tip about requesting read receipts and printing confirmation pages is so smart too. I can already tell documentation is going to be key with this whole process. It's reassuring to hear from someone who helps people navigate this regularly - makes me feel like I'm on the right track by planning ahead instead of waiting until the last minute. Thank you for taking the time to share these professional tips!
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