Can my parents add my child to their CalWORKs case if I withdraw from my own case?
I'm at my wit's end with our CalWORKs situation. I work part-time and apparently make 'too much' for decent benefits, but not enough to actually feed us properly. We only get $23/month for me and my 7-year-old daughter, which is basically useless. I'm planning to tell the county I don't want assistance anymore because the reporting hassle isn't worth $23. Here's my question - my parents live with us (or we live with them, technically it's their house). They have their own CalWORKs case and only get my dad's Social Security. If I withdraw from CalWORKs completely, can they add my daughter to THEIR case instead? Would that give them a bigger food allowance that could actually help feed her? Not trying to cheat the system, just trying to make sure my kid eats more than ramen.
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Ellie Lopez
First, just to clarify - are you talking about CalFresh (food stamps) or CalWORKs (Cash Aid)? They're different programs. It sounds like you might be referring to CalFresh with the $23 food benefit, not CalWORKs which is cash assistance. This matters for the answer.
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Lauren Wood
•Oh shoot yeah sorry I meant CalFresh not CalWORKs! We get food stamps, not cash. I always mix those up. 🤦♀️
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Chad Winthrope
For CalFresh (food stamps), household composition is based on who purchases and prepares food together. If your parents have a separate CalFresh case, the county is already considering you as separate households for some reason. To answer your question: If you withdraw from your own CalFresh case, your parents could potentially add your daughter to their case IF they purchase and prepare food for her. But there are important things to consider: 1. Your parents would need to report this change to their eligibility worker 2. They'd need to verify they're the primary food providers for your child 3. Your income might still be counted if you contribute to household expenses 4. The increase might not be as much as you hope due to household size calculations Also, if you're receiving any CalWORKs cash aid (separate from CalFresh), removing your daughter could affect that completely.
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Lauren Wood
•Thanks for the detailed info. We do all eat together as one family, so the separate households thing always confused me. I don't get any cash aid, just the tiny food stamps amount. My parents do most of the cooking and grocery shopping already since I work weird hours. So it sounds like this might work? I just hate reporting my income every 6 months for literally $23.
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Paige Cantoni
did u report ur parents rent to calfresh? if u pay them rent and utilities separate that might be why ur gettin treated as separate household but if u guys all eat together u should prob be ONE household on calfresh not 2 difrent cases. i think someone at the county messed up.
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Lauren Wood
•I don't technically pay rent - I help with utilities and buy some groceries when I can. Maybe that's why? But you're right, we definitely all eat together.
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Kylo Ren
Something doesnt add up here. If you all live together and eat together, you SHOULD be on one CalFresh case together already. The fact that you have seperate cases means either someone at eligibility got confused OR there's something about your living arrangement they interpreted differently. Honestly it sounds like you actually all need to be on ONE case together - you, your daughter, AND your parents. And that should give you a higher benefit than the two separate cases. Call the county and ask to speak to a supervisor about household composition rules for CalFresh. I was stuck on hold for 2+ hours trying this last month until I found this service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that calls for you and then calls you back when a real person answers. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/jzISHxCPLwE - saved me from wasting half my day on hold. Worth it to get this sorted out properly.
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Nina Fitzgerald
•yeah i agree somethings off with how they set this up. my mom and i and my kid all live together and we have to be on one calfresh case even tho i pay her rent. they say its cuz we share food.
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Jason Brewer
This is a common confusion with CalFresh. Here's the actual rule: if you live together AND buy/prepare food together, you must be on the same CalFresh case regardless of who pays what bills. The only exceptions are if: 1. You're 60+ or disabled AND buy/prepare food separately from others in the home 2. Foster children (they can be separate) 3. Roommates who truly never share food Based on what you described, you all should be on ONE case together. This would likely result in a higher total benefit than having two separate cases. The county probably made an error during intake. I recommend not just withdrawing, but instead requesting a case review and asking them to combine the households if you're truly purchasing and preparing meals together. This is called a "household composition review.
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Lauren Wood
•Thank you for explaining this so clearly! You're probably right that someone made a mistake. I'll definitely ask for this household composition review instead of just withdrawing. Hopefully that means we'll get a more reasonable amount that actually helps feed everyone, especially my daughter.
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Kiara Fisherman
THE COUNTY WORKERS DONT CARE!!!! they just want to close cases and move on!!! i had similar situation with my sister living with me and they kept saying we needed seprate cases even when we ate together because we "buy food seprate" which wasnt even true!!! took THREE APPEALS to fix it and then they tried to say i commited fraud!!! the system is BROKEN
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Chad Winthrope
•That sounds incredibly frustrating. Unfortunately, this does happen sometimes, especially with overworked eligibility staff. For the OP, if you do encounter resistance, remember you can always request a Fair Hearing (appeal) by calling the state hearing division at 1-800-743-8525. You have the right to have your case properly evaluated.
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Nina Fitzgerald
we had this same problem last year my mom and me and my kid had 2 seprate calfresh cases and we only got like $40 for me and my son. when we fixed it and got put on 1 case the benefit went up to $340 for all of us!! definitely worth fixing
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Lauren Wood
•That's a huge difference! Did you just call and ask them to fix it? Or did you have to go in person? I'm definitely going to try to get this fixed now instead of just withdrawing.
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Nina Fitzgerald
i had to call a bunch of times and finally got someone who knew what they were talking about! they had me submit a statement saying we all buy and cook food together and then they fixed it on the next benefit month
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Lauren Wood
•That doesn't sound too bad. I'll definitely try calling. I'm going to write down exactly what to say about household composition and buying/preparing food together before I call so I don't get confused.
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Kylo Ren
Quick update - I just used that Claimyr service I mentioned to get through to CalFresh about something else, and it worked great. Got a call back in 20 minutes instead of waiting on hold forever. If you're busy with work and can't sit on hold, definitely check it out.
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Jason Brewer
•I've used this service too. Much better than trying to wait on hold during work hours. Just make sure when you do get through, you specifically ask for a "household composition review" and explain that you all purchase and prepare food together. Be prepared with your parents' case number too, as they'll need to reference both cases.
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Lauren Wood
Update: I took everyone's advice and called about combining our cases. It took forever to get through (wish I'd seen that Claimyr suggestion earlier!), but I finally got someone helpful. They're reviewing our case to combine everyone into one household since we do all eat together. The worker said our benefit should increase significantly - instead of $23 for me/daughter and about $120 for my parents, we should get around $380 for all four of us! Thanks everyone for helping me understand this wasn't about adding my daughter to their case, but fixing how our household was set up in the first place!
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Chad Winthrope
•That's fantastic news! $380 vs. $143 combined is a huge difference that will make a real impact. This is exactly how the system should work - benefits that actually help feed the household. So glad you got someone helpful who fixed the issue. Be sure to complete your next SAR-7 report on time with all household income included to keep the benefits flowing smoothly.
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