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I'm so happy to see all these reassuring responses! I was in the exact same situation about 10 months ago - my husband was already on my CalWORKs case with our 4 kids when we decided to get married, and I was absolutely panicking about whether it would mess up our benefits. But like everyone else has shared, nothing changed at all! Since your boyfriend is already counted as part of your assistance unit and his Amazon income is already being reported, the marriage is really just making it official on paper. CalWORKs looks at who actually lives together and shares expenses - you're already functioning as a family unit in their system. I reported our marriage through the BenefitsCal app and it was super quick and easy - maybe 3 minutes total. Just keep doing what you're already doing with reporting his income changes, especially during Amazon's peak seasons. The advice about timing your wedding with your SAR7 period is really smart! We did that and it made everything so much simpler administratively. Also, don't forget to report any wedding cash gifts if they get close to the resource limits. You're being so smart by asking these questions ahead of time instead of worrying after the fact. Focus on enjoying your engagement and planning that summer wedding - your benefits will be totally fine! Congratulations on making it official! 💕
This thread has been so helpful! I went through this exact same situation about 8 months ago - my boyfriend was already on my CalWORKs case with our 3 kids and I was so worried that getting married would somehow mess up our benefits. But everyone here is absolutely right - since he was already part of our assistance unit and his income was already being counted, the marriage didn't change our benefit amounts at all. What really put my mind at ease was understanding that CalWORKs cares about your actual living situation and who shares expenses, not whether you have a marriage certificate. Since your boyfriend already lives with you, is the father of your kids, and his Amazon income is already being reported, you're already being treated as a family unit by the system. I reported our marriage through BenefitsCal within the 10-day window and it was really straightforward - took about 5 minutes online. Just make sure to keep reporting his income changes like you normally do, especially during Amazon's busy seasons when he might get overtime hours. One thing I'd suggest is maybe coordinating your wedding timing with your SAR7 reporting period if possible - that way you can report the marriage along with your regular 6-month report instead of doing a separate mid-period change. It makes the paperwork flow much smoother! Don't let anyone scare you with stories about benefits getting cut - those situations usually involve other changes happening at the same time as the marriage. You're being really smart by asking these questions ahead of time. Enjoy planning your summer wedding and congratulations on making it official! 💕
This thread has been such a lifesaver! I'm a single dad with 3 kids and I've been on CalWORKs for about 7 months. When I applied, my worker told me I needed to keep my savings "very low" but never gave me a specific number. I've been literally keeping my savings under $300 because I was so terrified of losing our benefits! Reading that the limit is actually $10,000 is absolutely incredible. I work a part-time job and have been wanting to save up for things like school clothes for the kids, car maintenance, and maybe eventually enough for first/last month's rent to move us to a better neighborhood. But I've been scared to save anything meaningful because I thought it would disqualify us. What really bothers me is how many of us are sharing the exact same story - vague information from workers that's left us all unnecessarily stressed and unable to build any financial security. This seems like a huge systemic problem that's affecting families across the state. @Cass Green - thank you so much for confirming this as an actual caseworker! It gives me the confidence to call my worker tomorrow and ask for written documentation of the current limits. I'm also going to ask about those IDA programs that sound amazing. This community has been more educational than my entire CalWORKs experience. We're literally helping each other escape the poverty trap that outdated information was keeping us in. Thank you all for sharing your knowledge - you're helping me build a better future for my kids! 🙏
Your story really hits home! As a single parent myself, I totally understand that fear of losing benefits over savings. Keeping under $300 when you could have $10,000 is such a missed opportunity for your family's security. What you said about wanting to save for school clothes and moving to a better neighborhood really resonates with me. Those are exactly the kinds of things we should be able to plan and save for without living in constant fear. The fact that so many of us have been trapped in this unnecessary cycle of financial stress because of poor communication from the system is just heartbreaking. I'm so glad you're going to call your worker tomorrow! Definitely push for that written confirmation - after all the stories shared here, it's clear we need to advocate for ourselves to get accurate information. And those IDA programs could be a game-changer for building even more savings for your kids' futures. It's amazing how this community is filling the gaps that should have been covered in our orientations. We're literally helping each other break out of poverty instead of being kept in it. Your kids are lucky to have a dad who's thinking ahead about their future! Keep us posted on what your worker says! 💪
This entire discussion has been absolutely incredible to follow! As someone who's been on CalWORKs for about a year, I can't believe how much stress I've been carrying unnecessarily. My worker told me during my initial interview to "be mindful of savings" and mentioned the old $2,000 limit, so I've been keeping my emergency fund under $1,500 this whole time. Reading that the actual limit is $10,000 and seeing @Cass Green confirm this as an actual caseworker has literally changed everything for me! I've been working part-time and wanted to save for my kids' extracurricular activities, a reliable used car, and maybe even start putting money aside for their college someday. But I was so scared of losing our benefits that I've been living paycheck to paycheck when I didn't have to. What really strikes me is how universal this experience seems to be - so many of us got the same vague, outdated information and have been living in the same unnecessary financial fear. It's clear this is a major communication problem in the system that's literally preventing families from achieving financial stability. I'm calling my county office first thing Monday to get written confirmation of the current limits and to ask about those IDA programs everyone mentioned. This community has been more helpful than any official resource I've encountered. Thank you all for sharing your knowledge and experiences - you're helping families like mine finally break free from the poverty trap! 🙏✨
Welcome to the community! As someone who's been navigating these benefits for a while, I can definitely confirm what others have shared - your 16-year-old daughter's income should be completely exempt from both CalWORKs and CalFresh since she's under 18 and in school. I went through this same worry with my own son when he started his first job at 17. The anxiety is so real when you're afraid of losing benefits that help keep your family stable! The biggest lesson I learned is that transparency is everything - always report the income on your SAR7 even though it won't count against you. I like the suggestion others made about noting "STUDENT - EXEMPT" right on the form. Also, definitely keep a copy of her school enrollment or report card handy in case they need verification. Your daughter should be so proud of her first job! These early work experiences teach responsibility and valuable life skills. Don't let the benefit system discourage her from this amazing opportunity. From everything I've seen, as long as you report honestly and she maintains her student status, your benefits should remain unchanged. You're being such a great parent by researching this properly instead of just hoping for the best!
@Charlee Coleman Thank you so much for the warm welcome and for sharing your experience! It really means a lot to hear from parents who ve'successfully navigated this situation. You re'absolutely right about the anxiety being so real - I ve'been losing sleep over this, worried that my daughter s'responsible decision to work could somehow hurt our family s'stability. But reading through all these experiences has been such a relief. I love how you emphasize that transparency is everything - that seems to be the consistent message from everyone here. I m'definitely going to use the STUDENT "- EXEMPT notation" on the SAR7 and make sure I have her school enrollment documentation ready. Thank you for the encouragement about not letting the benefit system discourage her - she really is proud of this job and I want to support her growth while making sure we handle everything properly with our benefits.
I'm so glad you asked this question because I was literally in the same exact situation just a few months ago! My 15-year-old started working at a local movie theater and I was TERRIFIED we'd lose our benefits. After going through the whole process, I can confirm what everyone else is saying - her income should be completely exempt since she's under 18 and in school. Here's what I learned: 1) Report it on your SAR7 no matter what - even though it's exempt, you still have to list it, 2) Write something like "MINOR STUDENT - EXEMPT" next to the income amount so there's no confusion, 3) Keep her school enrollment letter or report card handy just in case they ask for proof, and 4) Don't panic if your worker seems confused about the rules - some of them aren't familiar with student exemptions. My daughter has been working for 4 months now making about $300/month and our CalWORKs and CalFresh amounts haven't changed at all. The best part is seeing how proud and confident she's become from having her own job! Your daughter is being so responsible, and you're being an amazing parent by making sure you handle everything correctly. This community has been such a lifesaver for questions like this - so much better than trying to reach an actual caseworker!
@ApolloJackson Thank you so much for sharing your detailed experience! This is exactly what I needed to hear. Your four-step breakdown is so helpful and practical - I'm definitely going to follow that exact approach when I fill out our SAR7. I especially appreciate your point about not panicking if the worker seems confused about the rules, because that's something I was worried about. It's such a relief to hear that your daughter has been working for 4 months with no impact on benefits. That gives me so much confidence that we'll be okay too. You're absolutely right about seeing how proud and confident our kids become from having their own jobs - my daughter has been beaming ever since she got hired! Thank you for the encouragement about being an amazing parent. Honestly, I was just scared and didn't know what to do, but this community has been incredible for getting real advice from people who've actually been through this. I feel so much more prepared now!
I've been following this thread and wanted to add my experience since I just went through this exact situation! I traveled to Arizona last month to help my cousin after she had her baby, and I was super nervous about the EBT card working there. Good news - your card will absolutely work! I used it at ATMs in Phoenix and Tucson without any problems. The fees were definitely higher though, usually around $3.50-4.50 per withdrawal. What saved me money was going to a Walmart and getting cash back when I bought baby supplies - only paid like $0.50 instead of those crazy ATM fees! Since you're only going for 2 weeks, you're totally fine with the residency rules. I was there for 12 days and had zero issues with my case. Just keep your receipts and maybe screenshot your account balance before you leave CA for your own records. One thing that really helped me was downloading the Walmart app before I went - you can find stores near you that do cash back with EBT, which saved me probably $20+ in ATM fees over my trip. Also, having cash ready was super helpful for those late-night diaper runs! Your sister is going to be so grateful to have you there. Those first weeks with a newborn are intense and having family support makes all the difference. Congratulations on becoming an aunt! Enjoy every moment with that little one.
This is such great advice about using Walmart for cash back! I never thought about downloading their app to find locations that do EBT cash back - that's going to save me so much money compared to those ATM fees. $0.50 vs $4+ is such a huge difference, especially when you think about it adding up over two weeks. And you're so right about having cash ready for those unexpected baby supply runs - I can already imagine my sister sending me out at weird hours for diapers or formula! It's really reassuring to hear from someone who was just in Arizona recently and had such a smooth experience. This whole thread has turned into the ultimate guide for traveling with CalWORKs benefits. Thank you for the specific tips and congratulations - I'm getting more excited about this trip every day!
I just wanted to add another perspective since I travel frequently for family emergencies. Your EBT card will definitely work in Arizona - I've used mine in over 10 different states and never had an issue with the actual card functionality. One thing I've learned is to check if your sister lives near any Native American casinos - they often have ATMs with lower fees than traditional banks, sometimes only $1-2 per transaction. It's not something most people think about, but if there's one nearby it could save you quite a bit. Also, since you're going to help with a newborn, consider that you might need to make emergency trips to pharmacies for things like baby Tylenol or diaper rash cream at odd hours. Having cash ready for 24-hour CVS or Walgreens runs will be really helpful since some smaller pharmacies don't take cards late at night. The 2-week timeframe is perfect - you're well within the guidelines and won't have any issues with your case. Just document everything and enjoy this special time with your new niece! It's so wonderful that you're able to be there for your sister during those first precious (and exhausting) weeks.
That's such a unique tip about Native American casino ATMs! I never would have thought to look for those but it makes total sense that they might be more competitive with their fees. I'll definitely ask my sister if there are any casinos in her area when I get there. And you're absolutely right about needing cash for late-night pharmacy runs - babies seem to get sick or need things at the most inconvenient times! Having cash ready for those 24-hour CVS trips is really smart planning. It sounds like you have so much experience with traveling for family situations - I really appreciate you sharing all these practical insights. This thread has given me such a comprehensive roadmap for handling this trip successfully. I'm feeling totally prepared now and so excited to help my sister and meet my new niece!
Ravi Malhotra
Has your CalWORKs case ever been sanctioned for non-cooperation with Child Support in the past? If so, make sure you tell your worker about this new development right away so they can lift any sanction and restore your full benefits. The fact that you've been cooperating all along is good - some people refuse to provide information and get their grants reduced. Also, once child support starts coming in, you'll get a notice from both DCSS (child support) and CalWORKs explaining how the payments affect your benefits. Pay close attention to these notices because sometimes they contain errors that you'll need to appeal quickly if you spot them.
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StarSurfer
•No I've always cooperated with them. But I admit I didn't give them much info cuz he disappeared when I was pregnant and I didn't know where he went. They must have found him through his family or something. I'm definitely gonna call my worker tomorrow!
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Zoe Stavros
Congrats on them finally finding him! I went through this exact situation 2 years ago. A few things to keep in mind: - The child support office will probably send you paperwork to fill out about your expenses and his information (if you have any) - They might ask you to attend a "case conference" before any court hearing to try to work out an agreement - Keep all the paperwork they send you! You'll need it for your CalWORKs worker too - Don't be surprised if he tries to claim he has no income or is unemployed - they have ways to investigate that The whole process is honestly pretty slow but at least now there's movement on your case. And yeah definitely report this to your CalWORKs worker ASAP so there's no issues later. Good luck mama, you've been dealing with this for 7 years so you're already stronger than you know! 💪
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Aisha Rahman
•Thank you so much for all the encouragement and practical advice! I'm definitely feeling more prepared now. Quick question - do you remember how long it took from when they found your ex to when you actually started seeing any money (even just the $100 disregard)? I'm trying to manage my expectations here but also hoping maybe I'll see something before the holidays 🤞
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