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I just wanted to add that if you do decide to apply, don't be discouraged if the process seems overwhelming at first. I was in a similar situation a few years ago - single mom, worried about how it would affect my other benefits. The caseworkers can seem intimidating, but most of them really do want to help you succeed. One thing I wish someone had told me: keep copies of EVERYTHING. Every form you submit, every appointment notice, every communication. The system can be disorganized and having your own records saved me multiple times when documents got "lost" in their system. Also, if you end up doing the education route through WTW like Fatima mentioned, there are some really good programs available. I got my CNA certification through CalWORKs and it led to steady work. The timing might actually be perfect since your son is old enough to be more independent while you're in classes or training. Good luck with whatever you decide!
This is such great advice about keeping copies of everything! I learned that lesson the hard way with other government programs. It's really encouraging to hear success stories like yours with the CNA program. I'm definitely leaning toward applying now after reading everyone's experiences. The education option sounds like it could be a game-changer for our long-term situation. Thanks for taking the time to share your story!
I went through this exact situation about 3 years ago when my daughter was 15! Yes, your CalFresh will go down some when you get CalWORKs, but you'll definitely have more total money each month. In my case, I was getting around $500 in food stamps and that dropped to about $320, but I was getting $700+ in cash aid, so it was totally worth it. For the work requirements, they'll work with you to create a plan. Since your son is 16, you do need to do the 30 hours, but like others mentioned, there are options. I did a mix of job search and community college classes. The education route was actually amazing - I got my medical assistant certificate and now have a stable job that pays well enough that I don't need CalWORKs anymore. One tip: when you meet with your WTW worker, be upfront about your goals and what kind of work or training interests you. They have partnerships with local colleges and training programs that can really set you up for success. Don't just accept the first thing they suggest if it doesn't feel like a good fit for you. The application process can be frustrating, but stick with it. Having that financial stability while getting training or education can be life-changing!
This is exactly what I needed to hear! Your situation sounds so similar to mine. It's really encouraging that you were able to use the education option to build a career that got you off assistance entirely. I've been worried about getting trapped in the system, but it sounds like it can actually be a stepping stone to something better. The medical assistant program sounds interesting - how long did that take to complete? And were you able to do it while meeting your 30-hour WTW requirement, or did the classes count toward those hours?
The medical assistant program took about 18 months to complete, and yes, the classes absolutely counted toward my WTW hours! That was the best part - I was meeting my requirements while actually building skills for a career. The program was through our local community college and CalWORKs covered all the tuition and even helped with books and supplies. I did about 20 hours of classes per week and then had to do 10 hours of job search activities until I got into my externship in the final semester. My WTW worker was really supportive and understood that the education was an investment in getting off assistance permanently. Just make sure when you apply that you express interest in education/training programs right from the start - it can take a few months to get enrolled, so the sooner you start that conversation the better!
I'm also dealing with bullying issues with my 7-year-old and have been hesitant to homeschool because of the P-EBT concern. Reading through all these responses has been incredibly eye-opening! I had no idea that charter school homeschool programs could maintain P-EBT eligibility. The detailed advice about asking specifically about NSLP participation is so valuable. I'm definitely going to start calling charter schools in my area this week using the questions Mohamed shared. It's such a relief to know there are actual solutions that let us protect our kids from bullying while keeping the food benefits. One thing I'm curious about - for those who made the switch to charter homeschool programs, how has the transition been for your kids academically and socially? My son has been so stressed from the bullying that his grades have suffered, so I'm hoping a change might help him focus better on learning. Thank you to everyone who shared their experiences. This thread has given me hope that we can make this work!
Hi Aiden! I'm new here but wanted to share what I've observed from other families in similar situations. From what I've read in homeschool groups, many kids actually do much better academically once they're removed from stressful bullying situations. When kids aren't spending their mental energy on anxiety and fear, they can focus so much better on learning. For socialization, a lot of families I've talked to join homeschool co-ops (like someone mentioned earlier in this thread), local sports teams, or community activities. Some of the charter homeschool programs also organize field trips and group activities so kids still get peer interaction but in a more controlled, positive environment. I think you're right that your son's grades suffering from bullying stress shows how much the environment is affecting his ability to learn. It sounds like getting him into a charter homeschool program could really help him thrive both emotionally and academically while keeping your P-EBT benefits. Good luck with your calls to charter schools this week!
I'm currently homeschooling my 10-year-old through a charter school program and wanted to share some practical tips that might help with your decision. We made the switch last year due to similar bullying issues, and I'm happy to report that we kept all our P-EBT benefits! A few things that helped us navigate this successfully: 1. I created a spreadsheet of all charter schools in our county and called each one systematically. About 1 in 4 had both homeschool programs AND participated in NSLP. 2. When I found the right program, they walked me through exactly how to withdraw from public school and enroll with them on the same day to avoid any gap in benefits. 3. The academic transition has been amazing - my daughter is learning at her own pace without the stress and distraction of bullying. Her confidence has really improved. 4. For socialization, we joined a homeschool co-op that meets twice a week, and she's also in Girl Scouts and takes art classes at the community center. The charter school we're with (Pacific Coast Academy) requires one in-person meeting per month and some online check-ins, but otherwise gives us complete flexibility. They even provide a curriculum allowance that helps with materials costs. Don't give up hope - there are definitely solutions that will let you protect your kids while keeping the food assistance your family needs. Feel free to ask if you have any specific questions about the process!
JaylinCharles, this is exactly the kind of detailed, practical advice I was hoping to find! Thank you so much for sharing your experience. Creating a spreadsheet to systematically call charter schools is brilliant - I'm definitely going to do that. The 1 in 4 ratio you found gives me realistic expectations about how many calls I might need to make. I'm particularly grateful that you mentioned how the charter school helped coordinate the withdrawal and enrollment on the same day to avoid benefit gaps. That's the kind of detail I wouldn't have thought to ask about but could make a huge difference. It's so encouraging to hear how much your daughter's confidence has improved after getting away from the bullying situation. That gives me hope for my kids too. The combination of homeschool co-op, Girl Scouts, and community center activities sounds like a great way to maintain social connections in a healthier environment. Would you mind sharing what county you're in? And if Pacific Coast Academy operates in other areas, I'd love to look into them as an option. Thank you again for taking the time to share such helpful, actionable advice!
As a newcomer to this community, I want to express how incredibly helpful this entire discussion has been! I'm currently navigating CalFresh benefits for the first time and had so many questions about how various income sources are handled, especially child support. The clarity everyone has provided about CalFresh only counting child support you actually receive (rather than court-ordered amounts) is such valuable information that I never would have found in official resources. It's reassuring to know the system recognizes the reality that court orders don't always translate to actual payments. What really impresses me about this community is the willingness to share real experiences and practical advice. The tips about documentation, Income Reporting Thresholds, and the differences between various programs have been educational beyond what any government website could provide. It's clear that many people here have walked similar paths and genuinely want to help others succeed. @f3839b0cf18f thank you for asking such an important question that has helped so many of us! Your proactive approach to gathering documentation shows you're handling this exactly right. To everyone who shared their experiences - this kind of peer support is invaluable when dealing with complex government programs. I'm grateful to have found such a knowledgeable and supportive community!
Welcome to the community, @4c5a6c89dc36! I'm also new here and completely agree with your assessment of how valuable this discussion has been. As someone who's still learning about CalFresh, this thread has been like a masterclass in understanding how child support intersects with food assistance benefits. What strikes me most is how this community has turned what could be a confusing and stressful topic into something manageable with clear, actionable advice. The consistent message that only actual income counts (not theoretical court orders) is such an important distinction that really shows how the system tries to be fair to families dealing with unreliable support. I'm particularly grateful for all the practical tips about documentation and the Income Reporting Threshold explanations. This kind of peer-to-peer knowledge sharing is exactly what makes navigating these systems less intimidating. It's wonderful to see how @f3839b0cf18f's question has helped so many of us understand our situations better!
As a newcomer to this community, I'm amazed by how comprehensive and supportive this discussion has been! I'm currently in the process of applying for CalFresh benefits and was really worried about how my pending child support case might affect my eligibility. Reading through everyone's experiences has been incredibly reassuring - I had no idea that CalFresh only counts child support you actually receive rather than what might be court-ordered in the future. This makes perfect sense from a fairness standpoint, but it's not something that's clearly explained in the application materials. The practical advice about documentation has been invaluable - bringing bank statements and actual payment records rather than just court orders is such an important distinction. I'm also grateful to learn about concepts like the Income Reporting Threshold, which I never would have understood without this community's explanations. What really stands out to me is how people here share real-world experiences rather than just quoting policy. Knowing that others have successfully navigated similar situations with inconsistent child support gives me confidence that I can handle this process too. @f3839b0cf18f, your question has helped so many of us - thank you for being brave enough to ask what we were all wondering about! This community truly shows the power of peer support when dealing with complex government programs. I'm grateful to have found such knowledgeable and caring people willing to help others succeed.
Welcome to the community! I see you're getting lots of great advice here. As someone who went through the CalWORKs process a couple years ago, I just wanted to add that it's totally normal to feel overwhelmed at first - the system is complicated but the people here really know what they're talking about. One thing I didn't see mentioned yet is that you should ask about the Cal-Learn program during your interview if you're interested in going back to school. Since you just lost your job, this might be a good time to consider getting additional training or education. Cal-Learn provides extra financial incentives for CalWORKs recipients who are in high school or college programs. Also, keep track of all your communication with the county office - dates you called, who you spoke with, what they told you. I kept a little notebook and it saved me when there was confusion about my case later on. You're being really proactive by asking questions here, which shows you'll do fine navigating this process! The community here is super supportive so don't hesitate to come back with more questions as they come up.
Thank you so much for the warm welcome and the Cal-Learn info! I actually have been thinking about going back to school - I was working in retail but always wanted to get into healthcare or maybe IT. The timing of losing my job feels awful right now, but maybe it could be an opportunity if I can get the CalWORKs support to make it work financially. I love the notebook idea - I'm definitely going to start tracking everything from now on. I've already learned so much from everyone here in just this one post. It's really reassuring to know there's a community of people who understand what this process is like and are willing to help newcomers figure it out. I'll definitely be back with more questions as I go through the interview and hopefully get approved. Thanks again everyone! 😊
Hey there! I'm new to this community too and going through the CalWORKs application process right now. Reading through everyone's responses has been incredibly helpful - thank you all for sharing your experiences! I just wanted to add that when you're gathering documents for your interview, make sure to get recent statements. My caseworker told me they need bank statements from the last 30 days, and pay stubs need to be recent too. I made the mistake of bringing older documents at first and had to reschedule. Also, I found it helpful to organize everything in a folder beforehand with labeled sections. Makes the interview go smoother when you can quickly find what they're asking for. The whole process is definitely stressful, but seeing how supportive this community is gives me hope that we'll all get through it. Hang in there! 💙
Daniela Rossi
This is happening to me too! Started having problems on Saturday - my card works fine for buying stuff at stores but every ATM just says "declined" even though I have like $950 in cash benefits. I was getting really worried that my case got messed up or something. So relieved to read all these comments and know it's a system-wide issue with their upgrades. The EBT customer service is absolutely useless - I was on hold for over 3 hours yesterday and never got through. Going to try the Bank of America ATM and grocery store cash back methods tomorrow. It's so frustrating that they don't give us any warning when they're doing these system changes - we depend on this money for rent and basic needs and shouldn't have to stress about whether we can access our own benefits!
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Isabella Brown
•I'm so sorry you're going through this too! It's really reassuring to see so many people having the same issue - I was also starting to panic that something was wrong with my case. I've been dealing with this since Sunday and was about to call my caseworker thinking they made a mistake. The 3+ hour hold times for customer service are absolutely ridiculous! I tried the Bank of America ATM trick yesterday after reading about it here and it worked great - was able to get $200 out at a time. Also did cash back at Kroger for $100 which worked perfectly. It's so frustrating that we have to figure out these workarounds ourselves instead of getting proper communication about system upgrades. Hopefully this gets resolved soon because it's way too stressful when you're already dealing with financial challenges!
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Malik Robinson
This is so helpful to see I'm not alone! I've been having this exact same problem since Monday - my EBT card works perfectly for buying groceries and gas but every single ATM I've tried just says "transaction declined" even though I have over $600 in cash benefits. I was starting to panic thinking my caseworker made some mistake with my account or that my benefits got suspended for some reason. The customer service line is completely useless - I've called 4 times this week and the longest I waited was 2.5 hours before giving up. Reading all these comments about the system upgrades is such a relief because at least now I know what's going on! I'm definitely going to try the Bank of America ATM tomorrow and the grocery store cash back method. It's really frustrating that they don't send us any kind of notification when they're doing these system changes - we're already stressed enough about money without having to worry about whether we can access our own benefits. Thank you everyone for sharing your experiences and solutions!
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