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Liam O'Reilly

Does CalFresh require proof of childcare expenses or just self-reporting?

I recently started paying my sister $650/month to watch my 2 kids while I work part-time. When I did my CalFresh interview last week, the worker asked about childcare costs and I told her about this arrangement. She seemed hesitant and asked if I had any receipts or proof of payment. I don't really have anything official since it's just my sister watching them and I pay her in cash. Does anyone know if CalFresh actually REQUIRES documentation for childcare expenses or is self-reporting enough? Will they deny this deduction if I can't provide receipts? I'm worried because this deduction would really help my benefit amount, but I don't have any official paperwork.

They can count your childcare costs as a deduction which helps increase your CalFresh amount, but they do need verification. Since you pay your sister cash, you'll need to create a simple statement that both you and your sister sign. It should include: - Your sister's name and contact info - How much you pay her monthly - Names and ages of your children - Days/hours she provides care - Both your signatures I went through this last year during recertification. The county accepted a handwritten statement from my neighbor who watches my son. Make sure you both sign it, though! Without verification, they won't apply the deduction.

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Thank you so much! I didn't realize I could just write up a statement. My interview was yesterday and they gave me 10 days to submit verification documents. I'll definitely create this statement and have my sister sign it. Really appreciate the help!

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when i applied they just took my word for it but that was back in 2023 maybe the rules changed??

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The rules haven't changed, but it really depends on your eligibility worker. Some workers might not request verification if your benefit amount wouldn't change much with the deduction. They're supposed to verify expenses that significantly impact your benefit calculation, but enforcement varies by county and even by individual worker.

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I HAD THE EXACT SAME PROBLEM last month!!! My aunt watches my kids and I pay her $400/mo. The worker REFUSED to count it because I didn't have receipts. I called the office SIX TIMES trying to get it fixed and kept getting stuck in their stupid phone system. FINALLY I found this service called Claimyr that got me through to a real person at the county in like 5 mins. You can check it out at claimyr.com - they have a demo video at https://youtu.be/eZ19FHRETv8?si=_CXnXqNXbLl26WB8 When I finally talked to a supervisor, she told me I just needed a signed statement from my aunt with the info about childcare. They accepted it and recalculated my benefits! The system is so frustrating!!!!

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Oh my gosh thank you for sharing this! I've been trying to call them with follow-up questions but keep getting disconnected. I'll definitely look into this service if I can't get through on my own. And glad to hear they accepted a simple statement from your aunt - gives me hope!

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my cousin got denied for this exact reason last year it's so frustrating when they make everything so complicated

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Your cousin should have appealed that decision. CalFresh regulations specifically allow for self-declaration or a simple statement as verification for childcare expenses. It sounds like the worker might not have been following proper procedures in that case.

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I'm going through CalFresh recertification right now and just dealt with this. For childcare costs, they initially asked for receipts, but when I explained I pay my mother-in-law cash, they accepted a statement we both signed. The worker said they need SOME form of verification, but it can be pretty simple. What really matters is that the information is consistent. Like, don't say you pay $650 on the application then have a statement showing $850. They look for discrepancies. Also, the amount needs to be reasonable based on your income - if you claim $2000 in childcare but only make $2500 a month, they'll question how you afford rent and other expenses. In 2025, they're being more careful about verifications in general because there was apparently a lot of benefit fraud during COVID.

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This is really helpful context. My reported childcare costs ($650) are definitely reasonable compared to my income ($2,100/month). I'll make sure the statement I prepare matches exactly what I told them in the interview. Fingers crossed they accept it!

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For everyone's reference, here's what the official CDSS CalFresh regulations say about childcare verification: Childcare expenses can be verified through: 1. Billing statements 2. Receipts 3. Cancelled checks 4. Written statement from the provider 5. Collateral contact with the provider If verification cannot be obtained, a client's sworn statement can be accepted if reasonable. So yes, they do need some verification, but a simple signed statement is usually sufficient for informal care arrangements like family members watching children.

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wow i didnt know they had this many options... my worker just made it sound like no receipts = no deduction period

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I work at a community organization that helps ppl with benefits (not a county worker tho). From what I've seen, different counties handle this differently. Some counties are super strict and want formal receipts, others will take a statement. One thing that can help - if your sister has a phone number, put that on the statement. Sometimes they'll call to verify. Also, if your sister lives at a different address than you, include that too. Makes it more "official" looking even though it's just a personal statement. They're mainly trying to prevent people from making up fake childcare costs to increase benefits. That's why they want SOME kind of proof. And FYI this verification is only required once a year or when you report a change, not every month.

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Thank you! I'll definitely include my sister's phone number and address on the statement. She lives in a different apartment complex so that should help make it look more official. I appreciate the tip!

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Does anyone know if they verify the person watching your kids has a license or something??? My mom watches my daughter but she doesn't have any kind of daycare license.

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No, they don't require your childcare provider to be licensed when it's a family member or informal arrangement! That's completely normal and acceptable for CalFresh purposes. They just need to verify the expense is real and the amount you're paying.

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my friend just writes herself receipts for her mom watching her kids lol the county never checks

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I would strongly advise against creating false documentation. While verification requirements can be simple for informal childcare arrangements, providing misleading information on your CalFresh application can be considered fraud. If discovered during a case review, this could lead to benefit overpayments that must be repaid, disqualification from the program, or even legal consequences in serious cases.

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I went through this same situation about 6 months ago with my niece watching my kids. What worked for me was creating a simple childcare agreement that included: - Both our names and addresses - My kids' names and ages - The monthly payment amount ($650 in your case) - Schedule/hours of care - Both signatures and the date I also included a brief note explaining it was an informal family arrangement paid in cash. The county worker accepted it without any issues and applied the deduction to my benefits. Don't stress too much - they understand that many families have informal childcare arrangements, especially with relatives. The key is just showing that it's a real expense and not made up. Good luck with your verification!

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This is super helpful! I'm new to CalFresh and was getting really worried about the verification process. Your template sounds perfect - I'll definitely include all those details when I write up the statement with my sister. It's reassuring to know that other families have been through this exact situation and it worked out fine. Thanks for sharing your experience!

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I just went through CalFresh recertification in December and had a similar childcare verification issue. My mom watches my twin boys and I pay her $500/month in cash. The worker initially said they needed "official documentation" but when I explained it was my mother providing care, they walked me through what they actually needed. I ended up submitting a one-page statement that included: - My mom's full name, phone, and address - My boys' names and birthdates - Care schedule (Monday-Friday, 7am-3pm) - Monthly payment amount ($500) - Statement that payment is made in cash - Both our signatures and date They accepted it within a week and backdated my benefits to include the childcare deduction. The key thing the worker told me was that they need to verify the expense is legitimate, not necessarily that it's through a licensed provider. Don't let them intimidate you into thinking you need receipts for family childcare! A signed statement is perfectly acceptable verification according to their own policies.

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This is exactly what I needed to hear! I was getting really anxious about the whole verification process, but your detailed breakdown makes it seem much more manageable. I love that you included the specific schedule and payment method details - I'll definitely add those to my statement too. It's so reassuring to know they accepted it quickly and even backdated your benefits. Thanks for taking the time to share all those specifics!

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I just dealt with this exact situation last month! My brother watches my 3-year-old daughter while I work, and I pay him $575/month in cash. When my CalFresh worker asked for verification, I panicked because I had zero receipts or formal documentation. What saved me was creating a simple childcare statement that both my brother and I signed. I included: - His full name, phone number, and address - My daughter's name and age - Days and hours of care (Monday-Thursday, 8am-5pm) - Monthly payment amount ($575) - Note that payment is made in cash weekly - Both our signatures and the date The worker accepted it right away and said informal family arrangements are totally normal. She mentioned they just need to verify it's a real expense, not necessarily that you have formal receipts. Since you already told them $650/month in your interview, make sure your statement matches that exact amount. The consistency is what they're looking for. You've got this - don't stress too much about it!

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This is so helpful! I'm in almost the exact same boat - my sister watches my kids and I pay her cash too. I was really worried about not having receipts, but seeing how many people have successfully used signed statements makes me feel much better. I'll definitely make sure my statement matches the $650 amount I reported in my interview. Thanks for breaking down exactly what to include - the detail about payment frequency is something I hadn't thought of!

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I'm currently going through my first CalFresh application and this thread is incredibly helpful! I'm in a similar situation where my mom watches my 18-month-old son while I work part-time, and I pay her $400/month in cash. My interview is scheduled for next week and I was getting really nervous about the whole verification process. Reading everyone's experiences with signed statements makes me feel so much more prepared. I'm going to create a simple agreement ahead of time with my mom that includes all the details you all mentioned - her contact info, my son's info, the care schedule, payment amount, and both our signatures. One quick question though - should I bring this statement WITH me to the interview, or wait to see if they ask for verification first? I don't want to seem like I'm overcomplicating things, but I also want to be prepared. Thanks again to everyone for sharing their experiences - this community is amazing!

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I'd suggest waiting to see if they ask for it during the interview first! Most workers will tell you exactly what verification they need and give you a timeframe to submit it (usually 10 days). If you bring it proactively, they might think the arrangement is somehow questionable. Just be honest about the childcare situation when they ask, and if they request verification, you can mention you're prepared to create a signed statement with your mom. That way you seem organized but not overly prepared in a suspicious way. Good luck with your interview!

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I went through this exact same verification process about 3 months ago with my aunt watching my two kids. The worker initially seemed skeptical when I mentioned paying $600/month in cash, but they accepted a simple signed statement without any issues. Here's what I included in my statement: - My aunt's full name, phone number, and home address - My children's names and ages (important for them to verify household composition) - Specific days and hours of care (Mon-Fri, 7:30am-4:30pm) - Monthly payment amount ($600) - Note that payment is made in cash every Friday - Both of our signatures with the date The key thing my worker emphasized was that the information needed to be consistent with what I reported in my interview. Since you already told them $650/month, make sure that's exactly what you put on the statement - don't round it or change it even slightly. They processed my verification within 5 business days and applied the childcare deduction retroactively to the start of my benefit period. The deduction made a significant difference in my monthly benefit amount, so it's definitely worth taking the time to get the verification right. Don't let them make you feel like family childcare arrangements are somehow less valid than formal daycare!

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Thank you so much for sharing your experience! This is exactly the kind of detailed breakdown I needed to hear. I'm feeling much more confident now about creating the statement with my sister. The point about consistency is really important - I'll make sure to use the exact $650 amount I reported in my interview. It's also really encouraging to hear that they processed your verification so quickly and applied the deduction retroactively. That gives me hope that this whole process will go smoothly once I submit the proper documentation. I really appreciate you taking the time to list out all those specific details!

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I just wanted to add my experience since I see so many people going through this same verification issue! I had my CalFresh recertification in January and faced the exact same situation with my grandmother watching my 4-year-old daughter. I pay her $525/month in cash. When the worker asked for childcare verification, I was initially stressed because I had no formal receipts. But after reading experiences online (similar to this thread!), I created a simple statement that included: - My grandmother's name, phone, and address - My daughter's name and birthdate - Care schedule (Monday-Friday, 8am-6pm) - Monthly payment of $525 (paid weekly in cash) - Both our signatures and date The worker accepted it immediately and said family childcare arrangements are very common. She mentioned they just need to verify it's a legitimate expense, not that you have commercial daycare receipts. One tip I learned: if your childcare provider (your sister in this case) is willing to answer a phone call from the county to confirm the arrangement, mention that in your statement. It shows you're being completely transparent about the situation. The childcare deduction made a huge difference in my benefit amount - went from $194/month to $281/month. Definitely worth the effort to get the verification submitted properly!

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This is so reassuring to hear! I love the tip about mentioning that my sister would be willing to take a phone call from the county - that's a great way to show transparency. Your benefit increase from $194 to $281 is really encouraging too, as it shows how much the childcare deduction can help. I'm definitely going to include all those details you mentioned when I create my statement with my sister. Thanks for sharing your positive experience - it really helps calm my nerves about this whole verification process!

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I'm currently dealing with this exact situation for my CalFresh renewal! My neighbor watches my 5-year-old son and I pay her $575/month in cash. When my worker asked for verification, I was panicking because I had zero formal documentation. Based on what I'm reading here, it sounds like a signed statement is the way to go. I'm planning to create something that includes: - My neighbor's full name, phone, and address - My son's name and age - Care schedule (Mon-Fri, 7am-4pm) - Monthly payment amount ($575) - Note about cash payments made weekly - Both our signatures and date Has anyone had issues with the county actually calling the childcare provider to verify? My neighbor is fine with answering questions if they call, but I'm wondering how often they actually do that step. Also, for those who got approved - did you submit the statement in person, by mail, or online? I want to make sure I use whatever method gets processed fastest since I'm getting close to my deadline. Thanks to everyone sharing their experiences - this thread is incredibly helpful for navigating what feels like a really confusing process!

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Welcome to the community! Your planned statement looks perfect - you've got all the right details covered. In my experience, they don't always call to verify, but having your neighbor ready to confirm things definitely helps show you're being transparent about the arrangement. For submission method, I'd recommend dropping it off in person if possible since you're close to your deadline. That way you get a receipt showing they received it and can ask any questions on the spot. If you can't make it in person, faxing is usually faster than mail for processing. Don't stress too much - based on all the experiences shared here, it sounds like signed statements for family/neighbor childcare are pretty standard and get accepted regularly. The fact that your neighbor is willing to answer questions if they call shows it's a legitimate arrangement. You've got this!

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I'm a CalFresh case worker and want to clarify something important for everyone reading this thread. While signed statements are absolutely acceptable verification for informal childcare arrangements, there are a few key things to keep in mind: 1. The childcare expense must be necessary for work, training, or education - not just convenience 2. The amount should be reasonable for your area and income level 3. The provider doesn't need to be licensed, but they can't be receiving CalFresh themselves as part of your household 4. We may do a collateral contact (phone call) to verify, especially for higher amounts For your $650/month arrangement with your sister, that sounds completely reasonable. Create that signed statement with all the details others mentioned, and make sure your sister isn't listed as part of your CalFresh household. The verification process isn't meant to be a barrier - we just need to confirm it's a legitimate expense that helps you maintain employment. Don't be discouraged if your worker seemed hesitant initially. Some of us are more familiar with these informal arrangements than others. If you run into continued issues, ask to speak with a supervisor who can clarify the verification policies.

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This is incredibly helpful to get perspective from an actual case worker! Thank you for clarifying those key requirements. I'm definitely using the childcare for work purposes (part-time job), and my sister isn't part of my CalFresh household - she lives separately and has her own benefits. The $650/month seems reasonable for full-time care of two kids in my area. It's reassuring to know that the verification process is meant to confirm legitimate expenses rather than create barriers. I'll definitely ask for a supervisor if I encounter any issues with my worker. Really appreciate you taking the time to provide this professional insight!

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I just went through this same verification process a few weeks ago! My mother-in-law watches my twin toddlers and I pay her $700/month in cash. When my CalFresh worker asked for documentation, I was really worried because I had no receipts or formal agreements. What worked for me was creating a simple childcare statement that included: - My mother-in-law's full name, phone number, and address - My twins' names and birthdates - Care schedule (Monday-Friday, 6:30am-5:00pm) - Monthly payment amount ($700, paid weekly in cash) - A note explaining it's an informal family arrangement - Both our signatures and the date I submitted it by fax (got a confirmation receipt) and they accepted it within 3 business days. The childcare deduction increased my monthly benefits from $234 to $342, which made a huge difference for my family. The key thing is making sure all the information matches exactly what you told them in your interview. Since you said $650/month, stick with that exact amount on your statement. Don't overthink it - family childcare arrangements are super common and they understand not everyone has formal daycare receipts. You've got this!

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Thank you so much for sharing your experience! It's really encouraging to see that your statement was accepted so quickly and that the childcare deduction made such a significant difference in your benefits ($234 to $342 is amazing!). I'm feeling much more confident about creating my statement with my sister now. The detailed breakdown of what you included is super helpful - I'll make sure to include all those same elements. It's also good to know that faxing worked well for you since I might need a quick submission method too. Really appreciate you taking the time to share your positive outcome!

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