Social Security won't tell me my retirement benefit amount before I switch from survivor benefits - how to compare?
I'm currently receiving survivor benefits after my husband passed away 3 years ago. Recently got a letter from SSA saying my OWN retirement benefits might be higher than what I'm getting now. Naturally, I wanted to compare before making any changes! Called SS and requested a printout showing what my retirement benefits would be, but the rep said they CAN'T give me that information unless I actually apply for retirement benefits first. How does that make any sense?? I asked to speak with a supervisor and got disconnected (of course). Has anyone else dealt with this catch-22? How am I supposed to make an informed decision about switching from survivors to my own benefits if they won't tell me the amount until AFTER I apply? Any advice from those who've navigated this frustrating situation would be greatly appreciated!
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Paolo Moretti
Unfortunately, this is one of the more frustrating aspects of SSA's system. I had a similar experience last year. The solution I found was to use their online calculator to get a rough estimate first, but for the exact amount, I finally reached a knowledgeable rep who explained I could file a "protective filing statement" rather than a full application. This preserves your filing date without fully committing to switching benefits. When I kept getting disconnected like you, I tried using Claimyr.com to get through - it actually worked and I spoke to someone in about 20 minutes instead of waiting for hours. They have a video showing how it works here: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU. The rep I spoke with was able to look up both benefit amounts and gave me a comparison. Worth a try!
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Keisha Jackson
•Thank you for the tip about the protective filing statement! I had no idea this was even an option. Did you do this over the phone or did you have to go into an office? I'll definitely look into Claimyr too - at this point I'm willing to try anything to get actual answers.
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Amina Diop
They always do this!! I swear SS is designed to be confusing on purpose. My sister got the same runaround and ended up just applying for her own benefits without knowing if it would be better or worse than her survivors. Turned out she lost about $180/month by switching!!! No way to get back on survivors after that. The whole system is a joke.
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Oliver Weber
•I'm so sorry to hear about your sister's experience. That's exactly what I'm afraid of! Did she try filing an appeal based on not having been given the correct information before switching? I've heard there might be a way to revert back if you can prove you weren't properly informed of the consequences.
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Amina Diop
•She tried but they denied it. Said she should have "known better" even though THEY refused to give her the numbers!!! Typical government nonsense if you ask me.
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Natasha Romanova
This is actually a common issue, but there is a solution. What you need to ask for specifically is a "PEBES" (Post Entitlement Benefit Estimate Statement). When you call, use those exact words. Some SSA reps don't know about this option or incorrectly tell people it's not available. The PEBES will show you what your own retirement benefit would be without requiring you to apply. Alternatively, you can schedule an in-person appointment at your local SSA office. Take your most recent tax returns with you. The face-to-face appointments often yield better results than phone calls because the representatives can spend more time with your case. One important thing to note: if you were born before January 2, 1954, you might have been eligible for a restricted application to receive only your spousal benefit while letting your own retirement benefit grow until age 70. However, this option was phased out for people born on or after that date.
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Keisha Jackson
•Thank you so much for this detailed information! I've never heard of a PEBES before - none of the reps I spoke with mentioned this. I was born in 1956, so I'm not sure if that restricted application would have applied to me anyway. I'll definitely use the exact terminology you suggested when I call next time.
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Natasha Romanova
•You're welcome! Since you were born in 1956, you would have been eligible for the restricted application option, but only if you filed for it before reaching your Full Retirement Age. If you're already past your FRA and receiving survivor benefits, that option is unfortunately no longer available. When you call again, also ask about any potential retroactive benefits you might be entitled to if your own benefit is indeed higher.
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NebulaNinja
Have you tried using the SSA's online calculator? It won't give you the exact amount you'd receive, but it can give you a decent estimate based on your earnings history. You can find it at ssa.gov/benefits/retirement/estimator.html Also, when did you receive the letter? If it was a "COLA Notice" (Cost of Living Adjustment), these sometimes include language about potentially being eligible for higher benefits on your own record without actually comparing the amounts.
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Keisha Jackson
•It wasn't a COLA notice - it was specifically telling me I might qualify for a higher benefit on my own record. I tried the online calculator, but it's confusing because I'm already receiving survivor benefits and I'm not sure how to factor that in correctly. It gave me an estimate that seemed way too high based on my work history.
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Javier Gomez
my mom had the same problem last year!!! she ended up going in person to the social security office and they finally told her the amounts. bring all your papers with you when you go tho because they asked her for a bunch of stuff she didnt have and she had to go back a second time. good luck!!!!
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Keisha Jackson
•Thanks for sharing your mom's experience. I've been avoiding going in person because our local office is always packed with people. But maybe that's what it's going to take. Did your mom end up switching to her own benefits or staying with survivors?
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Javier Gomez
•she stayed with survivors it was like $300 more a month for her!!! they told her her own benefits would be way less because she worked part time for a lot of years raising us kids
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Oliver Weber
I encountered this exact situation when transitioning from widow's benefits to retirement benefits. Here's what worked for me: 1. Request your earnings record through the SSA website or by calling and specifically asking for that (not your benefit amount) 2. Once you have your earnings record, use the detailed calculator available at ssa.gov/OACT/anypia/anypia.html (it's more accurate than the quick calculator) 3. Input your earnings history exactly as shown on your record 4. Compare the estimated retirement benefit with your current survivor benefit This approach will give you a very close approximation without having to apply. The difference between the estimate and the actual amount is typically minimal. Alternatively, you can make an appointment at your local field office specifically to discuss your options. Request a "retirement benefit estimate while receiving survivor benefits" when you schedule the appointment. Be prepared to wait, but they can provide this information without requiring an application.
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Keisha Jackson
•Thank you so much for these specific steps! I didn't know about the detailed calculator - only tried the quick estimate one. I'll definitely try downloading my earnings record and using that tool. Did you find the estimate was pretty close to what you eventually received?
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Oliver Weber
•Yes, the detailed calculator was within $17 of my actual benefit amount. Just make sure you have ALL years of your earnings history entered correctly. If you're not comfortable with the technical aspects of the calculator, bringing your earnings record to an in-person appointment is still your best option. The field offices can provide benefit comparisons without requiring an application, despite what some phone representatives might tell you.
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Emma Wilson
I hate to say this but I think they WANT you to apply without knowing! My friend ended up losing money when she switched and now she's stuck. The whole thing seems designed to confuse us. Have you tried calling your local office directly instead of the main number? Sometimes they're more helpful.
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Paolo Moretti
•I've found that the local offices don't actually have direct phone numbers anymore - at least in my area. All calls go through the national 800 number now, which is part of the problem. That's why I mentioned Claimyr in my earlier comment - it helped me bypass those long phone queues when I needed to speak to someone.
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Natasha Romanova
I want to add an important clarification since I see some confusion in other responses. If you're already receiving survivor benefits and switch to your own retirement benefits, you CANNOT switch back to survivor benefits later. This is a permanent decision. This is why getting accurate information before making the switch is so critical. However, if you're receiving your own retirement benefits first, you CAN switch to survivor benefits later if your spouse passes away. The rules are asymmetrical. Also, the maximum retroactive benefits for retirement claims is 6 months, and only if you're past Full Retirement Age. So even if you discover that your own benefit would have been higher all along, you can only receive a maximum of 6 months of retroactive payments for the difference.
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Keisha Jackson
•Thank you for this critical information. I had no idea the switch was permanent - that makes it even more important that I get accurate information before making any changes. Is there any exception to this rule, or once I switch from survivors to retirement, that's absolutely final?
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Amina Diop
This is EXACTLY why people hate dealing with SS!!! They make everything so complicated and then refuse to explain things clearly. I bet half the people who call in don't even know what questions to ask. And getting disconnected when you ask for a supervisor? Classic SS move right there.
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Javier Gomez
•so true!!! my grandma says its like they try to keep us confused on purpose so we dont get all the money were supposed to!!!
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