Social Security widow's benefit at 65 vs waiting until FRA - confused about SSDI 82.5% widow's cap
My husband was on SSDI when he passed away at 51 (3 years ago). I just turned 65 and I'm trying to decide whether to take widow's benefits now or wait until my FRA which is 67 and 2 months. I'm completely confused about how his SSDI affects what I would receive. The SSA rep I spoke with mentioned something about an '82.5% widow's cap' since he was receiving disability, but I don't understand if that's 82.5% of what he was receiving at death or 82.5% of what his benefit would have been at his FRA? His monthly SSDI payment was $2,450 when he passed. Would I get more if I wait until my FRA, or is the amount capped regardless of when I claim? I've tried reading the SSA website but the information is so complicated! Anyone who's been through this situation, I would really appreciate your help!
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Giovanni Rossi
There's often confusion around widow's benefits when the deceased spouse was on SSDI. Here's what you need to know: When your husband was receiving SSDI, he was receiving his full PIA (Primary Insurance Amount) - it wasn't reduced. The 82.5% widow's cap applies to widow's benefits when the deceased was on disability. This means if you take widow's benefits before your FRA, the maximum you can receive is 82.5% of your husband's benefit amount at the time of his death. If you wait until your FRA, you can receive 100% of what he was receiving. At 65, you'd receive approximately 85-90% of his benefit (depending on exact birth month), but capped at 82.5% due to the disability rule. Waiting until your FRA would give you the full 100% of his $2,450.
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Fatima Al-Rashid
•Thank you so much for explaining! So if I'm understanding correctly, if I claim now at 65, I'd get 82.5% of his $2,450 (about $2,021)? And if I wait until my FRA at 67 and 2 months, I'd get the full $2,450? That's a significant difference! Does this 82.5% cap only apply because he was on disability? I'm just trying to understand if this is a special rule.
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Aaliyah Jackson
My husband was also on disabilty when he passed and i had similar confusion. The 82.5% is because of something called the RIB-LIM rule they dont explain well. SSA messed up my benfit calculation twice before getting it right so make sure u double check what they tell u!!! Theyres a reason they call it "Retirement Insurance Benefit LIMitation" because it LIMITS what we get lol
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Fatima Al-Rashid
•Oh no, that's concerning they calculated yours wrong twice! Did you have to go into the office to get it fixed or were you able to handle it over the phone? I'm worried about the same thing happening to me.
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KylieRose
Listen, I've been through EXACTLY this! The 82.5% widow's cap is real and it's specifically for when your spouse was on disability. It's called the RIB-LIM (Retirement Insurance Benefit Limitation) and it's one of SSA's most confusing policies. Here's my advice: WAIT until your FRA if you can financially. At FRA, you'll get 100% of what your husband was receiving at death. The 82.5% cap ONLY applies if you take it early. I took mine early at 63 and regret it every month when I see that smaller payment. Also, make an appointment with SSA and specifically ask for someone who understands the RIB-LIM rule for widow's benefits - not all reps understand it correctly!
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Fatima Al-Rashid
•Thank you for sharing your experience! I'm leaning toward waiting now. I can manage financially for another 2+ years. I definitely don't want to regret a decision I'll have to live with for potentially decades. Did you find it helpful to bring any specific documentation to your appointment when you applied?
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Miguel Hernández
I had such a nightmare trying to get proper widow's benefits! Called SSA for weeks and couldn't get through. Wait times were 2+ hours and then would get disconnected. Finally used a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me connected to an agent in 20 minutes. They have a video showing how it works at https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU. The agent I spoke with actually understood the RIB-LIM rule and explained exactly how my benefits would be calculated. Worth every penny to not spend weeks trying to get through.
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Sasha Ivanov
•Does that actually work? Ive been trying to get through to ss for DAYS about my husbands benefits and keep getting hung up on!! im gonna check this out
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Liam Murphy
THE WHOLE SYSTEM IS DESIGNED TO CONFUSE US!!! My sister lost THOUSANDS because she didn't understand this 82.5% cap thing and took her widow's benefits at 60!!! No one at SSA explained it to her properly. They WANT us to take benefits early so they pay out LESS overall. DON'T TRUST what the first rep tells you - ask for a supervisor who specializes in survivor benefits!
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Amara Okafor
•While I understand your frustration, not all SSA representatives are trying to mislead beneficiaries. The rules are complex, and sometimes representatives may not fully understand all the nuances, especially with specialized situations like the RIB-LIM rule. However, I do agree that getting a second opinion from a technical expert or supervisor who specializes in survivor benefits is excellent advice when dealing with complex cases.
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Amara Okafor
To clarify some of the information here: The 82.5% cap is part of what's called the RIB-LIM rule (Retirement Insurance Benefit Limitation). This rule comes into play specifically because your husband was receiving disability benefits. Under normal circumstances (if your husband had not been on disability), the reduction for taking widow's benefits early would be calculated differently. At your current age (65), with an FRA of 67 and 2 months, you would receive about 89.3% of your husband's benefit if the RIB-LIM didn't apply. However, because of this special rule, you're limited to 82.5%. If you wait until your FRA, you'll receive 100% of his benefit amount ($2,450). This is a difference of $429 per month, or over $5,100 per year, which is significant. If you don't urgently need the income now, waiting until your FRA would be financially advantageous in the long run.
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Fatima Al-Rashid
•Thank you for the clear explanation with actual numbers! That $429 monthly difference really puts it in perspective. If I live another 20 years after FRA, that's over $100,000 difference in total benefits. I'm definitely leaning toward waiting now.
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Sasha Ivanov
my condolences on your husband. i went thru the same thing last yr. one thing nobody mentioned is you should check if ur OWN retirement benefit might be higher than the widows benefit. my husband had a low ssdi payment and my own benefit was actually higher! the ssa people never told me to check this, i just figured it out myself!
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Fatima Al-Rashid
•Oh, that's an excellent point I hadn't considered! I worked most of my life but at lower wages than my husband. I should definitely check what my own benefit would be. Thank you for bringing this up - it might change my whole strategy!
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Giovanni Rossi
One more important thing to consider: If you wait until your FRA to claim widow's benefits, you could potentially file for your OWN retirement benefits at 62 (at a reduced rate), then switch to the full widow's benefit at your FRA. Or alternatively, take the widow's benefit now at the reduced amount, then switch to your own retirement benefit at 70 if your benefit plus delayed retirement credits would be higher. This is one of the few remaining opportunities to use a "switching strategy" since most other filing options were eliminated with the 2015 law changes. I'd recommend scheduling an appointment with SSA to discuss these options based on your specific earnings record.
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Fatima Al-Rashid
•Wow, I had no idea this switching strategy was possible! So I could potentially take my own reduced retirement benefit now and then switch to the widow's benefit at my FRA? That sounds like it might be the best of both worlds. I'll definitely ask about this specifically when I talk to SSA. Thank you so much for this information!
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Aaliyah Jackson
dont forget about taxes!!!! if ur still working and take ss early u might hit the earnings limit and have to pay some back. happened to my friend and it was a huge mess. also they tax up to 85% of ss benefits if ur other income is high enough. just something else to think about
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KylieRose
•This is SUCH an important point! The earnings test is brutal if you're still working. In 2025, if you're under FRA and earn more than $22,680 (approximate - they adjust yearly), they withhold $1 of benefits for every $2 you earn above that limit. It can really eat into your benefits!
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Fatima Al-Rashid
Thank you all for such helpful responses! I think I've decided to wait until my FRA to claim the widow's benefit. The 82.5% cap vs. 100% at FRA makes a big difference financially. I'm going to schedule an appointment with SSA to discuss that switching strategy too - taking my own benefit early and then switching to widow's benefits at FRA. I hadn't even considered that possibility! I'm also going to request someone who specifically understands the RIB-LIM rule. I'll try using that Claimyr service to get through since many of you mentioned how hard it is to reach someone. I truly appreciate everyone taking the time to share your knowledge and personal experiences - it's made a confusing situation much clearer!
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