Social Security survivors benefits for disabled adult child after 18 - will I lose my benefits too?
My daughter (17) has autism spectrum disorder along with several other diagnoses. She used to receive SSI disability until she was 15, but she lost it when her Social Security survivors benefits (from her late father) increased. She'll be turning 18 in four months, and I'm confused about what happens next. Does she automatically get considered a "disabled adult child" for Social Security purposes when she turns 18? Or do I need to submit a new application for her to continue receiving survivors benefits as a disabled adult in my care? Also, I'm worried about my own survivors benefits since I'm 58. Will I lose my survivors benefits when she turns 18? We're currently on a waiver list for state disability services but the wait is ridiculously long (over 3 years now). Anyone been through this transition with a disabled child receiving survivors benefits? The SSA website is so confusing and I can't get through on the phone.
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Keisha Johnson
You need to apply for Disabled Adult Child (DAC) benefits for your daughter before she turns 18. This is super important! It's not automatic. If you wait until after she turns 18, there could be a gap in her benefits. The technical term is "Childhood Disability Benefits" (CDB) but most people call it DAC. For your benefits - you won't lose them when she turns 18 if she qualifies as a disabled adult child. You can continue receiving mother's/father's benefits until your own retirement age if you're caring for a disabled adult child who gets benefits on the same work record. I went through this with my son last year. Get the DAC application started at least 3 months before her 18th birthday. You'll need updated medical documentation too.
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Yara Sabbagh
•Thank you so much! I had no idea I needed to apply for DAC benefits before she turns 18. Do you know what forms I need? And will they need new medical evaluations or can I use her existing diagnosis documentation?
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Paolo Rizzo
my kid has downs and we did this 2 yrs ago. they made us get ALL NEW medical evals even tho his condition obviously didnt change!!! start callng NOW to setup appts cuz it took us 4 months to get all the specialists they wanted. and the SSA lost our paperwork TWICE!!!! such a nightmare
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Yara Sabbagh
•Oh no, that sounds awful! I'm going to start collecting her medical records right away. Did they specifically tell you which specialists they needed reports from? Her primary care doctor has been managing most of her care.
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Paolo Rizzo
•they wanted reports from her main specialists for each diagnosis. for us it was developmental pediatrician, neurologist, and psychologist. get EVERYTHING you can!!
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QuantumQuest
Let me try to add some clarity about what happens with your benefits as the parent: If you're currently receiving what's called "mother's or father's benefits" (benefits as a surviving parent caring for a child under 16 OR a disabled child), those benefits normally would terminate when your child turns 16 unless the child is disabled. Since your daughter has documented disabilities, you can continue receiving these benefits beyond her 18th birthday IF: 1. She is approved for Disabled Adult Child benefits 2. You continue to provide care for her 3. You have not remarried Your benefits would continue until one of these happens: - You begin collecting your own Social Security retirement benefits - You become entitled to a widow(er)'s benefit that exceeds your parent's benefit - You no longer provide care for your disabled adult child - You remarry As others mentioned, the application for DAC benefits should be started at least 3-4 months before her 18th birthday. The determination process can be lengthy, and you want to avoid any gap in benefits.
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Yara Sabbagh
•This is extremely helpful! I was so worried I'd lose my benefits too. I do provide substantial care for her daily - she cannot live independently. And I haven't remarried. Do they evaluate how much care I'm providing or just take my word for it?
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QuantumQuest
•They don't typically conduct in-home assessments, but they may ask for documentation about the level of care you provide. This could include statements from her doctors about her limitations and need for supervision. If she attends any day programs or receives other services, documentation from those providers can help establish the ongoing need for care. The key is demonstrating that she requires personal care and supervision that you provide on a regular basis.
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Amina Sy
I'd highly recommend using Claimyr to get through to a Social Security agent quickly to discuss this situation. Normal hold times are ridiculous right now (I waited 3+ hours last month), but Claimyr got me through to someone in about 15 minutes. They'll actually wait on hold for you and call when an agent picks up. Check out their demo video: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU For something as important as your daughter's disability transition, you really need to speak directly with SSA rather than risking mistakes. They can also tell you exactly what medical documentation is needed for her specific situation. This was a lifesaver for my family when navigating my mom's complicated benefits situation.
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Oliver Fischer
•does this actually work? i called SS like 14 times last month and kept getting disconnected!!
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Amina Sy
•Yes, it worked great for me! The trick is they use some system that keeps trying different numbers at the SSA until they get through, then they connect you once someone answers. Saved me so much frustration compared to the times I tried calling myself and spent hours on hold or got disconnected.
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Natasha Petrova
Wait you said shes on a waiver list?? DONT let SSA know about that! My brothers benefits got messed up because they found out he was getting state services and claimed it was "double dipping" or something. Fight for everything you can get because the system will mess you over any chance they get!!!
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Keisha Johnson
•That's not accurate. Being on a waiver waiting list won't affect Social Security benefits. SSA and state Medicaid waiver programs are entirely different systems. What likely happened with your brother was related to SSI (which is needs-based) not SSDI or DAC benefits (which are insurance-based). The OP is talking about survivors and DAC benefits, which aren't affected by state services.
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Javier Morales
I work with families in similar situations. If your daughter was medically eligible for SSI disability before, she should qualify as a Disabled Adult Child under survivors benefits, but it's NOT automatic. Here's what you need to do: 1. File SSA-4-BK (Application for Child's Insurance Benefits) 2. Provide evidence her disability began before age 22 3. Get updated medical documentation (within the last year) 4. Complete function reports (how her conditions affect daily activities) As for your benefits, you can continue receiving mother's/father's benefits as long as your adult disabled child is in your care. They may require an SSA-4-BK from you as well to continue your benefits. The most important thing is to act before she turns 18. It's much easier to transition benefits than to have them stop and restart. Many SSA offices are still backed up from COVID, so start this process immediately.
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Yara Sabbagh
•Thank you for the specific form information! I'll download that form right away. For the function reports, is there a standard form for that too? And approximately how long does the approval process take once all paperwork is submitted?
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Javier Morales
•Yes, they'll likely have you complete an SSA-3373 (Function Report - Adult) and possibly an SSA-3380 (Function Report - Adult Third Party) where you provide information about her capabilities. The approval timeline varies widely depending on your local office's workload and the complexity of her case. Typically, it takes 3-5 months for a medical decision, but it can be faster if her conditions clearly meet the disability listings. That's why starting 4+ months before her 18th birthday is crucial.
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Oliver Fischer
my niece lost her benefits when she turned 18 even tho she has autism too!! they said she wasnt "disabled enough" whatever that means. its all about what judge you get. some are nice and some are TERRIBLE. good luck!!!
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QuantumQuest
•For clarity: Initial DAC determinations don't typically involve judges - those come into play during appeals if initially denied. The evaluation for disability as an adult uses different criteria than childhood disability. For autism specifically, they look at functional limitations in social interaction, communication, and adaptive functioning. Thorough documentation from specialists is crucial. The severity and impact on ability to work are the key factors, not just the diagnosis itself.
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Yara Sabbagh
Thank you everyone for all this information! I just scheduled an appointment with her developmental pediatrician and neuropsychologist to get updated evaluations. I also downloaded the SSA-4-BK form and will start working on it tonight. I'm going to try using that Claimyr service tomorrow to actually talk to someone at SSA and get specific guidance for our situation. It's such a relief to know I might be able to keep my benefits too since I'm still providing substantial care for her. This has been extremely helpful - I was feeling completely lost about what to do next.
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Paolo Rizzo
•dont forget to ask for a receipt when you submit paperwork!!! get a name of who you talked to EVERY TIME and write it down. saved me so many times when they "lost" our stuff
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