Social Security spousal benefits with husband taking early retirement - will I get 50% or less?
My husband is taking early retirement at 62 next month (his choice, not mine!). I know he'll get about 70% of his full retirement amount by claiming early. I'm 59 and have been a full-time caregiver to our two special needs children for most of my adult life, so I don't have enough work credits for my own SS benefit. My question is about MY future spousal benefits. My husband keeps insisting I'll get 50% of his benefit when I reach my full retirement age (67), but I'm not sure if that's 50% of what he WOULD have gotten at his full retirement age, or 50% of his reduced benefit? And if I decide to take MY benefits before my FRA, will there be another reduction? The SSA website is confusing me more than helping. Does anyone know exactly how spousal benefits work when the main earner takes early retirement? Thanks for your help!
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Mateo Sanchez
Your spousal benefit will be based on your husband's Primary Insurance Amount (PIA), which is what he would have received at his full retirement age - NOT his reduced benefit. So when you reach your FRA, you'll get 50% of what he would have gotten at his FRA, regardless of when he actually claimed. However, if YOU take benefits before YOUR full retirement age, your spousal benefit will be reduced. At 62, it would be around 32.5% of his PIA instead of the full 50%. Each month you wait after 62 increases that percentage slightly until you reach your FRA.
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Nia Wilson
•Thank you so much! That's a huge relief. So I'll still get 50% of what he WOULD have gotten at his full retirement age, not 50% of his reduced amount. That makes a big difference for our planning. Is there a calculator somewhere that shows exactly how much my benefit would be reduced if I claim earlier than 67?
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Aisha Mahmood
ur gonna get 50% of his PIA (what hed get at normal age) not his reduced amt. but if U take urs early u get less too. my wife did this - she got like 35% cuz she took it at 63. check ssa.gov they got charts
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Nia Wilson
•Thanks! This matches what the first commenter said too, so I'm feeling more confident now. I'll look for those charts on the website.
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Ethan Clark
I went through this exact situation last year! Your husband's early filing doesn't affect your spousal benefit amount - you'll get 50% of his PIA (his full retirement age amount) when you reach your FRA. But if you take it early, there's a separate reduction schedule for spousal benefits. At 62, it's about 65% of what you'd get at FRA (which is already only 50% of his PIA). So 65% of 50% = about 32.5% of his PIA. The SSA has a specific chart for spousal benefit reductions by age. Each month you wait after 62 increases your percentage slightly. I found it really helped to make an appointment with an SSA representative who walked me through all the calculations specific to our situation.
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Nia Wilson
•Thank you for sharing your experience! It's so helpful to hear from someone who's already been through this. I've been trying to get an appointment with SSA for weeks but can't get through on the phone. Did you have to wait long for your appointment?
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AstroAce
I struggled with this EXACT situation! Kept getting disconnected or waiting for hours on the SSA phone lines trying to figure out our benefits. I finally used a service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me connected to an SSA agent in about 20 minutes instead of waiting for hours. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU The SSA agent confirmed what others here are saying - your spousal benefit is based on your husband's PIA (what he would've gotten at full retirement age), not his reduced benefit. But you'll want to calculate carefully if you take benefits early since the reduction for spouses is different than for retirement benefits.
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Nia Wilson
•Oh wow, I've never heard of this service! I've been so frustrated trying to get through to SSA. I'll definitely check this out - I really need to speak with someone who can look at our specific situation and give me exact numbers. Thanks for the tip!
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Yuki Kobayashi
The whole system is DESIGNED to confuse people!!!! My husband took SS at 62 and when I tried to claim spousal benefits they gave me all kinds of wrong information. One agent told me I'd get 50% of his REDUCED benefit which is COMPLETELY WRONG but they didn't correct it until I escalated to a supervisor!!! Don't trust what the first person tells you!!! And don't even get me started on the ridiculous wait times to talk to anyone!!!
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Carmen Vega
•This happened to my mom too! They kept giving her different answers every time she called. So frustrating.
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Andre Rousseau
So Im confused about something with this question... if your taking care of disabled children, have you looked into SSI for them? That might help your financial situation now, before you even get to retirement age.
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Nia Wilson
•Yes, they both receive SSI and adult disabled child benefits since they're now over 18. We're fortunate in that regard. I'm just trying to plan for our retirement now.
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Carmen Vega
I think theres a special rule that if ur caring for a disabled adult child you might be able to get benefits earlier? maybe worth asking about this when u talk to SSA
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Mateo Sanchez
•Good point about caregiver benefits. But to clarify, the caregiver benefits typically only apply when caring for a young child under 16, or a disabled child who became disabled before age 22. Those benefits typically end when the caregiver reaches retirement age, at which point they would switch to either their own retirement benefit or spousal benefit, whichever is higher.
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Ethan Clark
One thing to consider that hasn't been mentioned yet - when your husband passes away (hopefully many years from now), you'd be eligible for survivor benefits. As a widow, you'd receive 100% of whatever your husband was receiving at his death. If he took benefits at 62 with a 30% reduction, your widow benefit would also be that reduced amount. Some couples maximize by having the higher earner delay as long as possible (to age 70) to create the largest possible survivor benefit.
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Nia Wilson
•That's a really important point I hadn't considered. My husband is set on taking his benefit at 62, but maybe I should show him how it affects my future survivor benefit too. Thank you for bringing this up.
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Aisha Mahmood
my bro n sis-in-law just thru this. big headache. they had 2 go in person to ssa office cuz every time they calld they got diffrnt answers!! makes u crazy!!
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AstroAce
•Going in person can work, but the wait times are ridiculous these days. When I called using Claimyr, the agent pulled up both my and my husband's records and walked me through three different claiming scenarios with actual dollar amounts. It was so helpful to have real numbers to work with instead of just percentages. Definitely worth connecting with an actual agent who can see your specific details.
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