Social Security payment dates with survivor benefits - Will my payment date change when switching from retirement to survivor benefits?
I'm planning to start my retirement benefits in 2026 when I'll be 65. My payment date is determined by my birth date (the 13th). My husband passed away last year, and I'm planning to switch to survivor benefits when I reach my full retirement age at 67. His payment date was the 8th of the month. I'm confused about whether my payment date will stay the 13th or change to the 8th when I switch to survivor benefits. Does anyone know how this works? Will I keep my original payment date or get switched to his? I'm trying to plan my monthly budget for when this happens and knowing the payment schedule is important to me.
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Diego Vargas
i think it stays with ur birth date no matter what but im not 100% sure. my mom got widows benefits and i think she still got paid on her original day but its been a few years so i could be wrong
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Chloe Anderson
•Thanks for responding. I hope someone who's been through this exact situation can confirm. It's kind of important for my bill payment schedule.
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Anastasia Fedorov
This is actually a common question with a straightforward answer: When you switch from your own retirement benefit to a survivor benefit, your payment date will change to reflect the payment schedule of survivor benefits, which is different from retirement benefits. Social Security retirement benefits are paid based on your birth date: - 1st-10th: Second Wednesday - 11th-20th: Third Wednesday - 21st-31st: Fourth Wednesday However, survivor benefits follow a different schedule and are paid on the 3rd of each month (or the previous business day if the 3rd falls on a weekend or holiday), regardless of your birth date or your deceased spouse's birth date. So when you switch from retirement to survivor benefits at your FRA, your payment date will change from the third Wednesday (for birth date on the 13th) to the 3rd of each month.
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Chloe Anderson
•Oh wow, I had no idea it would change to the 3rd! That's completely different than either of our original dates. Thanks for explaining this so clearly. I'll need to adjust my bill payment schedules when this happens.
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StarStrider
WRONG INFORMATION ABOVE!!!! Survivor benefits are NOT all paid on the 3rd!!! That's only for people who started receiving benefits before May 1997 or who get both SSI and SS benefits. Please don't spread misinformation!!! The current payment schedule for survivor benefits follows the same Wednesday schedule based on birth date. Your payment date will stay based on YOUR birth date (13th = third Wednesday) even when you switch to survivor benefits. I went through this EXACT situation when I switched from my retirement to my husband's survivor benefit last year. My payment date never changed!!!
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Anastasia Fedorov
•You're absolutely right - thank you for the correction. I apologize for the misinformation. You're correct that the Wednesday payment schedule based on birth date applies to both retirement and survivor benefits for beneficiaries who began receiving benefits after May 1997. The OP's payment date should remain on the third Wednesday of each month since her birth date is on the 13th. Again, I apologize for the error.
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Sean Doyle
I had such a headache dealing with this when I switched to survivor benefits! The SSA website can be so confusing about payment dates. When I called to confirm, I waited on hold for 2.5 hours only to get disconnected. So frustrating!! I finally used this service called Claimyr (claimyr.com) that got me connected to a real SS agent in about 20 minutes instead of hours on hold. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU The agent confirmed that my payment date would stay the same after switching to survivor benefits since I started receiving benefits after 1997. Worth the call to get official confirmation for your specific situation!
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Chloe Anderson
•Thank you for sharing this! I've been considering calling SSA directly because I'd feel better hearing it from them directly. I'll check out that service since I really don't have hours to waste on hold. Did you just call the regular SS number?
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Sean Doyle
Yes, it connects you to the regular SS number, just without the terrible wait time. The agent can access your specific record and confirm your payment schedule. Much better than getting conflicting information online!
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Zara Rashid
hey not to hijack the thread but does anyone know if this payment date thing applies to disability too? i get SSDI payments and wondering if the schedule ever changes
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Luca Romano
•SSDI follows the same Wednesday schedule based on birth date. If you ever convert to retirement benefits at full retirement age, your payment date won't change. However, if you receive SSI in addition to SSDI, the SSI portion comes on the 1st of the month while SSDI still follows the Wednesday schedule.
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StarStrider
One more thing about switching from retirement to survivor benefits - make sure you time it right! If your survivor benefit will be higher than your retirement, it makes sense to switch at FRA. But also double-check the amounts before switching because sometimes your own retirement benefit can be higher depending on your work history and how long you wait. SSA won't always tell you which is better!
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Chloe Anderson
•That's a great point. I've calculated that the survivor benefit will be about $650 more per month than my own retirement benefit at FRA. I'm starting my retirement early at 65 because I need some income, but planning to switch at my FRA to get the full survivor amount. The rep I spoke with last year confirmed this was a good strategy for my situation.
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Nia Jackson
my hushands been gone 12 years and i still get confused by ss rules somtimes...good your planning ahead. when i started widows benefits they just kept paying me on my regular day. Don't think it ever changed
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Luca Romano
To provide a definitive answer: Your payment date will remain tied to YOUR birth date (the 13th = third Wednesday of each month) even after you switch from retirement to survivor benefits. This is because the payment schedule is based on the beneficiary's date of birth, not the type of benefit received or the record it's based on. The only exceptions are: 1. If you were receiving benefits before May 1997 (not applicable in your case) 2. If you receive both SSI and Social Security benefits 3. If you receive benefits as a representative payee for someone else in addition to your own benefits Since none of these exceptions apply to your situation, your payment date will remain on the third Wednesday of each month when you switch to survivor benefits at your FRA.
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Chloe Anderson
•Thank you for this clear explanation! It's good to know I won't have to adjust my bill payment schedules after all. I really appreciate everyone's help with this question.
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Mateo Hernandez
Just wanted to add that if you're ever unsure about your specific situation, you can also check your my Social Security account online at ssa.gov. It shows your projected payment amounts and dates for different scenarios. I found it really helpful when I was planning my transition from work to retirement benefits. The online tools have gotten much better over the years and can give you personalized information without having to wait on hold!
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Keisha Robinson
This has been such an informative discussion! I'm actually in my early 50s and just starting to think about all these Social Security decisions for the future. My husband is 8 years older than me, so I'm trying to understand how survivor benefits might work if something happens to him before I retire. From reading all your responses, it sounds like the key takeaway is that payment dates stay tied to YOUR birth date regardless of what type of benefit you're receiving. That's actually really helpful to know for planning purposes. One question I have after reading through everything - if someone is receiving survivor benefits and then becomes eligible for their own retirement benefits later, how do you know which one will pay more? Is there an easy way to compare them, or do you have to call SSA to get those numbers? Thanks to everyone who shared their real experiences here. It's so much more helpful than trying to figure this out from the government websites alone!
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Rhett Bowman
•Great question about comparing benefit amounts! You can actually get estimates for both your own retirement benefits and potential survivor benefits through your my Social Security account online at ssa.gov. The retirement benefit estimator is pretty accurate if you keep your earnings record updated. For survivor benefits, it gets a bit trickier since it's based on your spouse's earnings record. The survivor benefit is typically around 100% of what your spouse was receiving (or entitled to receive) at their death, but there are some nuances depending on when they claimed and their age at death. The easiest way to get definitive numbers is to call SSA or use that Claimyr service someone mentioned earlier to avoid the long hold times. They can run the calculations for both scenarios and tell you which would be higher at different ages. It's definitely worth getting those numbers early so you can plan your claiming strategy! Smart of you to start thinking about this in your 50s - gives you time to make informed decisions when the time comes.
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