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SS survivor benefits after ex-spouse death - WEP/GPO confusion and post-repeal questions

I'm 65 now and started my own Social Security at 63 and a half. Since I worked for state government, I got hit with both WEP and GPO reductions. My situation just changed because my ex-husband passed away in March 2025. I received this strange letter from SSA stating I'd be eligible for about $2,870 monthly as a survivor, but then it said "we cannot pay you at this time." I never even applied for survivor benefits! I think they just sent it because they knew we were once married and I'm already in their system. Here's my confusion - with all this WEP/GPO repeal talk, I'm wondering if that $2,870 amount is what I'd get if I applied right now OR if I waited until my Full Retirement Age (which is 66 and 8 months). My current benefit is only about $690/month, so this would be life-changing money. I called SSA last week and got this agent who kept insisting I was already receiving my ex's benefits (completely wrong). When I tried to explain I just wanted to know the difference between claiming survivor benefits now versus waiting until FRA, he just kept saying he couldn't tell me anything unless I formally applied. I don't want to apply blindly - if waiting until FRA would mean significantly more money, I'd wait! But that survivor amount is over 4 times my current benefit, so I'm really torn. How do I get accurate information about my specific scenario without committing to anything? Any suggestions on what specific questions I should ask to get through to someone who understands my situation?

Nalani Liu

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Sorry about ur ex passing. I went thru same thing kinda. The letter is telling u what u COULD get as survivor but GPO is stopping it. With the repeal happening soon they're probably waiting for that to kick in? My agent told me survivor benefits r different than spousal so the FRA timing matters but its complicated with the GPO stuff. Did u try the SSA calculater on the website?

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Thais Soares

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Thanks for your response. I tried the calculator but it seems to give me conflicting information when I put in the WEP/GPO factors. I'm just not sure if I should wait until FRA or claim now. The difference between $690 and potentially $2,870 is huge for me, and I don't want to make a mistake!

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Axel Bourke

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The letter you received is standard procedure when SSA identifies potential eligibility for survivor benefits following an ex-spouse's death, even without an application. The "cannot pay you at this time" language typically relates to the Government Pension Offset (GPO) which can reduce or eliminate survivor benefits for those with government pensions. With the upcoming WEP/GPO repeal scheduled to be phased in, your situation is particularly complex. Here's what you should know: 1) The amount shown ($2,870) is likely the full survivor benefit before any reductions 2) If you claim survivor benefits before your FRA (66 and 8 months), they'll be permanently reduced 3) At FRA, you'd be eligible for 100% of your ex's benefit amount I'd recommend requesting a detailed benefits calculation by scheduling an in-person appointment at your local SSA office. Specifically ask for an "ANYPIA" calculation that shows different filing age scenarios. Make it clear you're inquiring about future options, not applying yet. The difference between filing now versus FRA could be substantial - approximately 15-20% more if you wait until FRA.

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Thais Soares

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Thank you SO much for this detailed explanation! This actually makes sense now. I'll call and specifically ask for an in-person appointment and request that ANYPIA calculation. I didn't know about that option. Losing 15-20% by filing early is significant, especially when we're talking about potentially quadrupling my current benefit. I'll make sure to clarify I'm just gathering information and not applying yet.

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Aidan Percy

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Aidan Percy

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It definitely worked for my sister and several friends. Just be sure to ask specifically for a Technical Expert once you get through. Regular representatives sometimes give incomplete information on complex cases involving multiple benefit types or WEP/GPO situations.

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Norman Fraser

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STOP LISTENING TO THESE PEOPLE!!!! the letter is clearly telling you that you CANT get benefits because of GPO!!! i went thru this EXACT thing last year and wasted 4 MONTHS trying to figure it out. GPO will ELIMINATE your survivors benefits if you have a govt pension!!!! the repeal isnt even guaranteed to pass and even if it does its gonna be years before it helps ppl like us. call ur congressman if u want change but dont waste ur time with ssa

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Axel Bourke

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While I understand your frustration, there are a few inaccuracies here that might mislead the original poster. The GPO doesn't always completely eliminate survivor benefits - it reduces them by 2/3 of the government pension amount. In many cases, especially with higher-earning ex-spouses, there can still be partial survivor benefits available. Additionally, the WEP/GPO repeal legislation that's being implemented has a graduated phase-out schedule, with the first reductions in the offset beginning next year. For someone in the original poster's situation, getting accurate calculations now is important for planning purposes.

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Thais Soares

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I appreciate your perspective, but I think our situations might be different. My pension is relatively small compared to what my ex-husband's benefit would be. That's why I'm trying to understand exactly how much I might receive after the GPO reduction or with the phase-out. I definitely don't want to waste months if there's no chance of receiving anything.

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Kendrick Webb

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When my mom was dealing with survivor benefits after my dad died, she had a similar experience with confusing letters and representatives who didn't seem to understand her situation. What finally worked was bringing someone with her to the SSA office appointment (my brother who had researched everything thoroughly). I'd suggest writing down EXACTLY what you want to know before any conversation with SSA: 1) What would my survivor benefit be if I claim NOW (after GPO reduction)? 2) What would my survivor benefit be if I wait until my FRA (after GPO reduction)? 3) How will the GPO phase-out affect these amounts over the next few years? Don't let them change the subject or confuse you with other benefit types. Also, bring any paperwork you have about your pension and your current benefit. Sometimes seeing the actual numbers helps them understand your situation better.

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Thais Soares

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This is EXCELLENT advice. I'm going to write down these exact questions and not let them divert the conversation. And you're right - bringing documentation about my pension and current benefit will probably help a lot. Thank you!

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Hattie Carson

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I go thru this same headache every time I call SS!!! Half the time they just tell you stuff to get you off the phone. I'm also affected by WEP (worked for county school system) and my experience is you need to talk to a supervisor or technical expert because regular agents just read scripts. One thing nobody mentioned is that with survivor benefits, if you're already getting your own reduced benefit (which it sounds like you are since you started at 63), you might actually be eligible for a PARTIAL survivor benefit that makes up the difference. So if your own benefit after WEP is $690, and the full survivor would be $2,870, you might get a partial survivor benefit of $2,180 (the difference). But it all depends on the GPO calculation and when you claim. The system is DESIGNED to be confusing so people give up! Don't give up!!!

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Thais Soares

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Thank you! I didn't realize I might be eligible for a partial survivor benefit to make up the difference. That makes a lot of sense. You're absolutely right that the system seems designed to be confusing - I've never felt so frustrated trying to get basic information. I'll definitely ask about this partial benefit concept when I speak with a technical expert.

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wait so if your on your own benefits now and your ex died do you have to switch to survivors or can you keep your own? i thought you had to take the bigger one not both?

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Axel Bourke

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You're correct that you can't receive both your own retirement benefit and a full survivor benefit simultaneously. However, if your survivor benefit would be higher than your current retirement benefit, SSA will pay your retirement benefit plus the difference to match the survivor amount. For example, if your retirement benefit is $1,000 and your potential survivor benefit is $1,800, you'd receive your $1,000 retirement benefit plus a $800 partial survivor benefit, totaling $1,800. This is why getting accurate calculations for both benefits is so important, especially with WEP/GPO complications.

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Nalani Liu

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btw I forgot to mention, I found out that when they say "cannot pay you at this time" it sometimes means they're waiting for some verification or something. My friend got a letter like that and it was because they were waiting for his death certificate to be officially recorded in their system. Maybe call and ask if they need anything from you to process it?

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Thais Soares

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That's a good point! I assumed it was related to the GPO issue, but it could be something as simple as needing documentation. I'll definitely ask about that when I call. Thank you!

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Axel Bourke

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One additional point that might be helpful: Since you mentioned the WEP/GPO repeal, it's worth noting that the legislation includes a 5-year phase-out period. The offset reduction starts at 20% in the first year and increases by 20% each subsequent year until fully eliminated. This means if you decide to wait until your FRA to claim survivor benefits, you'll likely benefit from at least some reduction in the GPO offset, potentially increasing your benefit amount significantly beyond what you'd receive if claiming now. This is another reason why getting those detailed projections from a Technical Expert is so important - they can model how the phase-out might affect your specific benefit amounts over the next few years.

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Thais Soares

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Thank you for this additional information! I wasn't clear on the phase-out schedule. That's a really important consideration - waiting until my FRA might give me both the full survivor benefit amount AND less GPO reduction due to the phase-out timing. This makes me lean even more toward waiting, but I'll definitely get those projections first.

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