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Everett Tutum

How to reach Social Security about survivor benefits without waiting 2+ hours on hold?

My husband passed away last month and I need to file for survivor benefits. I tried calling the Social Security office today and the automated system said the wait time was over 2 HOURS! My cell service is really spotty at my house (it randomly drops calls after 20-30 minutes), so there's no way I could stay connected that long. Does anyone know if there's a way to get a callback instead of waiting on hold? Or is there some other way to talk to an actual person about survivor benefits? I tried going on the SSA website but it says I have to speak to someone directly about survivor claims. I'm really stressed about this because I need to get this process started soon. Any advice would be so appreciated!

Sunny Wang

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I'm sorry for your loss. Unfortunately, survivor benefits require speaking with a representative - there's no way around that part. Have you tried making an in-person appointment at your local SSA office? Their website lets you schedule those now, though wait times for appointments can be 2-3 weeks out. Another option is to call right when they open (8:00 AM local time). Wait times are typically shortest then. Also, try calling on Wednesday or Thursday - those days tend to have shorter wait times than Mondays or Fridays in my experience.

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Everett Tutum

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Thank you for the condolences and advice. I didn't realize I could schedule an in-person appointment online - I'll definitely check that out. I tried calling at 8:15 this morning and still got the 2+ hour message, but maybe I'll try again right at 8:00 sharp tomorrow. Do you know if they have any way to request a callback instead of waiting on hold?

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so sorry about ur husband. i had same problem last year when my mom died. try using a landline phone if u have one those dont drop calls like cell phones do

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Everett Tutum

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Thanks for the suggestion. I don't have a landline anymore - got rid of it years ago. I suppose I could try going to my sister's house since she still has one. Just seems crazy that in 2025 we still have to stay on hold for hours!

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When I needed to apply for survivor benefits after my wife passed, I used a service called Claimyr that got me through to a Social Security representative in about 10 minutes instead of waiting for hours. It worked really well - saved me a ton of frustration. Their website is claimyr.com and they have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU The service basically waits on hold for you and then calls you when they get a real person on the line. It was especially helpful for survivor benefits since those definitely require speaking with an agent. Good luck with everything during this difficult time.

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Melissa Lin

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Is that service legit? Sounds too good to be true. Did you actually have to give them personal info or anything?

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Yeah, it's completely legitimate. You don't give them any personal SSA information - they just handle the hold time for you and then connect you directly with SSA when they reach an agent. I was skeptical too but was desperate after trying to call for 3 days. The connection went through and I was able to start my survivor benefit application with no issues.

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THE SSA PHONE SYSTEM IS COMPLETELY BROKEN!!! I tried calling for FOUR DAYS straight trying to fix an issue with my disability payment. Each time I was on hold 3+ hours and got disconnected TWICE after waiting all that time. They claim they're "improving service" but it just gets worse every year. I finally had to take a bus to the local office and wait in line for 2.5 hours just to talk to someone for 10 minutes. The whole system is designed to make people give up!!!!

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Romeo Quest

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While I understand your frustration, I've found that the local offices are usually more helpful than the national phone line. For survivor benefits specifically (which is what the original poster is asking about), an in-person appointment is often the most efficient route anyway. The representative can process the application immediately and verify all the required documents on the spot. To the original poster: If you do schedule an in-person appointment, bring your marriage certificate, your husband's death certificate, both of your Social Security cards, and his most recent tax return if possible. This will expedite the process tremendously.

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have u tried calling from public library? they have good internet and phones sometimes u can use

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Val Rossi

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I'm sorry about your husband's passing. One important detail to be aware of: you generally need to apply for survivor benefits within the first 6 months after death to get the maximum retroactive benefits. After that, you might lose out on some payments you're entitled to. When I applied for widow's benefits, I found that calling the national number (1-800-772-1213) and selecting the Spanish option, then pressing 1 to continue in English sometimes got me through faster. It's a bit of a workaround, but it worked for me twice. The representatives in that queue can help with all the same services.

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Everett Tutum

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Oh wow, I had no idea about the 6-month deadline! That makes it even more urgent for me to get through. That's a clever tip about the Spanish line - I'll definitely try that tomorrow morning. Thank you so much!

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Sunny Wang

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Just to clarify something important: while applying sooner is better, the 6-month rule mentioned above isn't entirely accurate. For survivor benefits, you can receive up to 6 months of retroactive benefits from when you apply, but there isn't a strict 6-month deadline that causes you to permanently lose benefits. However, there is a lump-sum death payment of $255 that you should apply for promptly. And of course, the sooner you apply, the sooner your monthly benefits can begin.

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Val Rossi

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You're right - I should have been more precise in my explanation. Thanks for the correction about the retroactive benefits. The 6-month retroactive period is what I was referring to, but I didn't explain it clearly.

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Everett Tutum

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Thanks for clearing that up. I definitely want to get the process started ASAP regardless. I managed to schedule an in-person appointment but it's not until June 18th (almost 3 weeks away). Going to try the phone again tomorrow with some of the tips I've gotten here.

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Eve Freeman

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My neighbor just went through this same situation after her husband died. She said she ended up calling her congressional representative's office and they helped her get an expedited appointment with Social Security. Might be worth trying if you're really stuck!

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Everett Tutum

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Update: I tried the Claimyr service that someone recommended above, and I actually got through to a Social Security rep this morning! Only had to wait about 15 minutes after they connected me. I've now got my survivor benefits application started. The rep was very helpful and I've got an in-person appointment next week to bring in my documents. Thank you everyone for all your suggestions and support!

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Melissa Lin

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That's awesome! Glad you got through. Did you have to wait long for them to call you back?

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Everett Tutum

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No, the whole process took less than an hour total. Way better than the 2+ hours I would've been on hold otherwise. And since they called me when they reached a rep, I didn't have to worry about my spotty cell service dropping the call during a long hold time.

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Julia Hall

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So glad to hear you got through and were able to start your application! That Claimyr service sounds like a real lifesaver for situations like this. I've been dealing with SSA phone issues myself for a different matter and might have to try that approach too. Thanks for updating us on what worked - it's really helpful for others who might be in similar situations. Hope the rest of your application process goes smoothly.

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Amina Diallo

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Thanks for sharing that update! It's really encouraging to hear that there are actually working solutions out there. The SSA phone system can be so frustrating - I had a similar experience a few months ago trying to get information about my benefits and ended up giving up after multiple 2+ hour waits. Definitely bookmarking that Claimyr service for future reference. Hope everything continues to go well with your survivor benefits process!

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Maya Lewis

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I'm so sorry for your loss, Everett. It's wonderful to see that you were able to get your survivor benefits application started! Thank you for sharing your positive experience with Claimyr - that's exactly the kind of real-world solution that can help others in this community who are facing similar challenges with the SSA phone system. The fact that you went from potentially waiting 2+ hours on hold (with the risk of dropped calls) to getting connected in just 15 minutes is remarkable. Your update will definitely be helpful for other members dealing with SSA phone access issues. Wishing you all the best as you continue through the application process.

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Dana Doyle

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This is such great news, Everett! As someone new to this community, I'm really impressed by how helpful everyone has been with practical solutions. The Claimyr service sounds like a game-changer for dealing with SSA phone issues. I've been putting off calling about some benefit questions myself because of the horror stories about wait times, but seeing your success story gives me hope that there are actually workable solutions out there. Thank you for taking the time to update everyone - it really shows the value of this community when people share what actually works!

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Malik Thomas

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I'm really sorry for your loss, Everett. It's encouraging to see your update that the Claimyr service worked so well for you! As someone new to this community, I've been learning so much from everyone's shared experiences with navigating SSA services. The phone wait times really are ridiculous - it's frustrating that people dealing with difficult life situations like losing a spouse have to jump through so many hoops just to speak with someone. Thank you for sharing what worked for you, and I hope the rest of your application process goes smoothly. It's clear this community really looks out for each other!

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