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Confusion about deceased spouse's previous marriage on my Social Security widow's benefits application - is this an error?

I just got my Application Summary for my widow's benefits, and something doesn't look right. When I applied over the phone, the SSA rep asked if my late husband had been married before me. I told her yes, and mentioned it lasted about 6 years. She immediately said, "oh that doesn't count because it was less than 10 years" and moved on. Now I'm looking at my Application Summary and it states "The deceased was not previously married" which seems wrong factually. I'm confused - should this be corrected before my claim is processed? Does the 10-year marriage rule somehow change how they record previous marriages? I don't want my application to be rejected later because of incorrect information. Has anyone else dealt with something similar? I'm overthinking this, but widow benefits are already stressful enough!

The 10-year rule they're referring to applies to divorced spouse benefits, not to how they record marriage history. Technically, your Application Summary contains incorrect information since your husband was previously married. I would call SSA to have them correct this for accuracy purposes. Incorrect information on your application, even if seemingly minor, could potentially cause problems or delays later.

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Thank you! That's what I was worried about. I'll call tomorrow to get it fixed. Do you think this could delay my benefits? I'm already anxious about how long this process takes.

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My mom went through something similar last year. The SSA made a mistake on her application too but about something else. It didn't end up mattering in her case but better safe than sorry I guess.

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Did your mom have to wait longer because of the mistake? I'm worried about any delays since I'm counting on these benefits for my monthly expenses.

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Nah it didn't cause any delays for her. They just fixed it when she called them.

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The rep you spoke to made a HUGE ERROR!! I can't believe they would just write down false information! The 10-year marriage rule is ONLY for divorced spouse benefits, NOT for recording accurate information!!! This could definitely come back to bite you later. Call them IMMEDIATELY and get this fixed before your claim gets denied because of THEIR mistake!!!

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While I agree this should be corrected, there's no need to panic. This particular error is unlikely to affect the widow's benefit eligibility since the prior marriage ended before the marriage to the claimant. It's still good practice to ensure all information is accurate, but this isn't likely to cause a denial.

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when my husband died last year, i had so many problems with social security. they kept losing my paperwork and telling me different things each time i called. took almost 4 months to get my benefits started.

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Oh no, that sounds awful. I'm already worried about delays and your experience makes me more concerned. Did you eventually get everything sorted out?

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yeah eventually it worked out but it was super stressful. make sure you keep copies of EVERYTHING they send you.

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I dealt with this exact situation when applying for survivor benefits. The representative was actually taking a shortcut in their paperwork. The system requires them to enter detailed information about previous marriages only if they lasted 10+ years (because of the divorced spouse benefit rules). For shorter marriages, some representatives simply mark "no previous marriages" to skip that section rather than entering all the details of marriages that won't affect benefits. That said, this is technically incorrect and I did request a correction on my application. It didn't delay my benefits at all - they just added a note to my file with the correct information. I think it's worth correcting for accuracy, but it shouldn't affect your eligibility for widow's benefits.

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Thank you for explaining that! It makes sense they might take shortcuts, though it's nerve-wracking when it's MY application with incorrect information. I'll definitely call to get it corrected. Good to know it shouldn't delay anything.

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wait does anyone know if the 10 year rule applies to regular widows benefits too? asking for my aunt

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No, the 10-year marriage duration requirement only applies to divorced spouse benefits. For widow/widower benefits, you generally need to have been married for at least 9 months before your spouse passed away (with some exceptions). There's no 10-year requirement for widow benefits.

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To add some clarity here: The Application Summary should technically be factually correct about all marriages. However, the reason the representative didn't record the previous marriage is because it doesn't impact your benefit calculation or eligibility. Only marriages lasting 10+ years matter for divorced spouse benefits. For your widow benefits, only your marriage to the deceased matters (and that needs to have lasted at least 9 months in most cases). I still recommend getting it corrected for accuracy, but this won't affect your widow benefit eligibility or amount. When you call, mention specifically that you want to correct the marriage history on your Application Summary for accuracy purposes, but understand it doesn't affect your eligibility.

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Thank you for the detailed explanation! That's very helpful. I'll definitely call and ask for the correction but it's reassuring to know it won't impact my benefits. This whole process has been overwhelming, and understanding these details really helps.

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I work for a local nonprofit that helps seniors with benefits applications, and I see this type of recording error fairly often. The representatives sometimes use shortcuts in their documentation, especially when previous marriages don't affect benefit eligibility. While it's technically incorrect, it won't impact your widow's benefits since only your marriage to your deceased husband matters for those benefits. That said, I always recommend clients get these things corrected - it's better to have accurate records. When you call, you can mention that you're requesting a correction to ensure your application file is factually accurate. Most of the time they can update it with a simple phone call.

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