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Can my husband get spousal benefits from my Social Security at 68 while I'm still working at 58?

I'm confused about the spousal benefit rules with our age gap. My husband started collecting his Social Security at his Full Retirement Age and is now 68. I'm 58 and plan to work until my FRA (67). When I was playing around with the benefit estimator on the SSA website, it showed he might be eligible for a spousal top-up of $1140/month based on my earnings record. How is this possible when I haven't even filed for my own benefits yet? Can he really get a spousal benefit from me while I'm still working and not collecting? The age difference has me completely lost on how this works. Has anyone dealt with this specific situation?

Sara Unger

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He cant get a spousal benefit until YOU file for your benefits. The calc is probably showing what he would get IF you were receiving benefits now. You have to actually file before he can get anything based on your record.

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Tyler Murphy

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Thanks for clarifying! So that $1140 would only apply once I actually start collecting at 67? The SSA calculator is really misleading then.

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The previous response is correct. Spousal benefits can only be paid when the primary worker (you) has filed for your own benefits. The SSA calculator is showing what your husband could potentially receive as a spousal benefit *if* you were already receiving your benefits. Here's how spousal benefits work in your situation: 1. You must file for your own retirement benefits first 2. Your husband can then apply for spousal benefits 3. He would receive the higher of his own benefit or up to 50% of your Primary Insurance Amount Since he's already receiving his own benefit, he would only get the difference if your spousal benefit calculation exceeds his current payment. Given your age difference, when you reach your FRA of 67, your husband will be 77. At that point, he can apply for the spousal benefit if it would increase his monthly amount.

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Tyler Murphy

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This is so helpful! So we'll need to wait 9 more years before he can potentially get that spousal top-up. Is there any advantage to me filing early, or should I stick with my plan to wait until my FRA?

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I'd recommend sticking with your plan to wait until your FRA. Filing early would: 1. Permanently reduce YOUR monthly benefit by 5/9% for each month before your FRA (up to 30%) 2. Reduce the spousal benefit your husband could receive (since it's based on your PIA) 3. Subject you to earnings test limits if you continue working Since you're planning to work until 67 anyway, early filing would likely mean some benefits would be withheld due to the earnings test, and you'd end up with permanently reduced benefits for life.

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Freya Ross

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My situation was kinda similar except I'm older than my wife. When I checked the SSA site it gave me all kinds of weird numbers too! Called SSA and they said basically what others told you - spouse has to be collecting first. Btw good luck getting anyone on the phone if you try to call SSA to confirm this stuff. Wait times are INSANE lately.

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Tyler Murphy

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Oh that sounds really helpful! I might need to try that service since I have more questions about this whole spousal benefit situation. Did you find the SSA agent was able to explain everything clearly once you got through?

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Sergio Neal

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There's actually a lot of confusion about spousal benefits. Your husband CANNOT receive a spousal benefit until you file for your own retirement. When you file at your FRA of 67, then he can apply for the spousal benefit. The maximum spousal benefit is 50% of your Primary Insurance Amount (PIA), but this gets reduced if your husband filed for his own benefits before his FRA. Since he waited until his FRA, he would get the full difference between his own benefit and 50% of your PIA (if your PIA is more than double his benefit). The $1140 figure you're seeing is theoretical based on your current earnings record projected to your FRA. It will change as your actual earnings change over the next 9 years.

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Tyler Murphy

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Thanks for the detailed explanation! So even though the SSA site showed that $1140 amount, it's based on projections and could change? Is there any way to get a more accurate estimate as I get closer to retirement?

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Sergio Neal

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Yes, that amount will absolutely change as your earnings record updates. The best way to get more accurate estimates is to regularly check your my Social Security account online. The estimates will become more accurate as you get closer to retirement age. You can also run different scenarios using the SSA's Retirement Estimator tool, which uses your actual earnings history.

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just want 2 mention not everyone knows this but spousal benefits have a MAXIMUM!!! my brother thought he was going get like 2000 a month from his wifes record but there's a family maximum benefit like 150-180% of the workers PIA that caps everything. something 2 check!

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Juan Moreno

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You're confusing two different concepts. The Family Maximum Benefit typically applies when multiple people (like children) are drawing benefits on one worker's record. For spousal benefits, the maximum a spouse can receive is 50% of the worker's PIA if the spouse files at their own FRA. There's no separate "cap" on just spousal benefits beyond that 50% limit. The OP's situation is about whether her husband can receive spousal benefits while she's still working and hasn't filed, which he cannot. When she files at her FRA of 67, then he can apply for spousal benefits.

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Juan Moreno

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To clarify what everyone's saying: no, your husband cannot receive spousal benefits from your record until you file for your own benefits first. This is a fundamental rule of Social Security. What the SSA calculator is likely showing is what your husband could potentially receive *if* you were already receiving benefits. Since you're only 58 and not planning to file until 67, he would have to wait until then to potentially receive any spousal benefits. When you do file at 67, your husband's spousal benefit would be calculated as the difference between his current benefit and 50% of your Primary Insurance Amount (PIA). He would only receive a "top-up" if 50% of your PIA exceeds his own benefit amount. Given that you mention a potential $1140 spousal benefit, your PIA might be around $2,280 (since $1140 is 50% of that amount). This suggests your earnings history is quite strong relative to your husband's.

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Tyler Murphy

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Thank you for the clear explanation! Yes, I've been the higher earner in our relationship. So to be absolutely clear - that $1140 would only be available to him after I file at 67, and only if that amount is higher than what he's currently getting on his own record?

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Juan Moreno

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Exactly correct. And just to be even more precise, he wouldn't receive the full $1140 as a new benefit - he'd receive the difference between his current benefit and that $1140 amount (if his current benefit is less than $1140). For example, if he's currently receiving $900/month on his own record, and the spousal benefit calculation shows $1140, he would receive his current $900 plus a $240 spousal top-up, for a total of $1140. The SSA doesn't double-pay benefits - they just provide the higher of the two possible benefits.

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Amy Fleming

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I see a LOT of confusion about this topic! My wife is 7 years younger than me, and we went through this exact situation. Here's what ACTUALLY happens: 1) Your husband CANNOT receive spousal benefits until YOU file for YOUR retirement benefits 2) The SSA calculator is showing a HYPOTHETICAL amount based on if you filed RIGHT NOW 3) When you DO file at your FRA, then your husband can apply for spousal benefits 4) He'll only get the DIFFERENCE between his current benefit and 50% of your PIA (if that's higher) Don't be fooled by that $1140 number - that's likely 50% of your projected PIA, not the actual amount he'd receive as a top-up. His actual top-up will be that amount MINUS his current benefit. And YES, it's worth waiting until your FRA to file!!!! Don't file early - you'll reduce BOTH your benefit AND any potential spousal benefit for your husband.

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Freya Ross

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THIS!!! We got burned by misunderstanding this exact thing. My wife filed early thinking it would help ME get more $$ and it actually REDUCED what I could get from her record. Listen to this advice!!!

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Sara Unger

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somebody told me once that if ur spouse dies the survivor gets the higher of the two benefits. not sure if thats true but might be something to think about with ur planning

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That's correct. When one spouse passes away, the surviving spouse can receive the higher of either their own benefit or the deceased spouse's full benefit (what they were receiving or would have received at FRA). This is why it's often beneficial for the higher-earning spouse to delay claiming as long as possible - it potentially creates a larger survivor benefit.

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