Confused about spousal benefits timing - do I claim when I reach FRA or when my younger husband does?

You need to understand a few key things about spousal benefits:1. Your husband must actually file for his own retirement benefits before you can receive spousal benefits. It doesn't matter who reaches FRA first.2. If you claim spousal benefits before your own FRA (67), they will be permanently reduced.3. Your spousal benefit won't be exactly 50% of his $2,800. It would be 50% of his Primary Insurance Amount (what he gets at his FRA), minus your own primary insurance amount. So basically, you can't get spousal benefits until your husband actually files for his benefits, regardless of whether you've reached your FRA or not.

Thank you for explaining! So even if I wait until my FRA at 67, I can't get anything until my husband files? That means I'd have to wait 3 more years after my FRA since he'll be 64 then. That seems so unfair! Can he file early at 62 so I can get my spousal benefit sooner, or would that reduce what I get too?

This SS stuff is SOOO complicated!!! I went thru something similar with me and my husband (he's younger too). I kept getting different answers from differnt people at SSA when I called. One told me I could get benefits on my record first, then switch to spousal later. Another said I had to wait for him to file. The system is a MESS and they don't make it easy to understand AT ALL!!!

The rules changed significantly after the Bipartisan Budget Act of 2015. Before that, you could file for your own benefits first and then switch to spousal later (called

Hi there! I recently went through this exact situation with my wife. Here's how it works: your husband MUST file for his own benefits before you can receive spousal benefits. That's the rule, unfortunately. You have some options though:1. Wait until your husband files at his FRA (67) and then you'll get the maximum spousal benefit (you'll be 70 by then)2. Your husband could file early at 62, allowing you to claim spousal benefits sooner (you'd be 65), BUT his benefit would be permanently reduced by about 30% which also reduces your spousal benefit3. You could claim your own small benefit at your FRA, then when your husband files later, you'd switch to the higher spousal benefitThis is definitely confusing, and I spent hours on the phone with SSA trying to sort it all out. Have you tried calling them directly? I eventually got through using Claimyr (claimyr.com) - they got me connected to an actual person at SSA in about 15 minutes instead of waiting for hours or getting disconnected. They have a video showing how it works: https://youtu.be/Z-BRbJw3puU. Honestly worth it because the agent I talked to walked me through all the options specific to our situation.

I tried calling SSA twice this week and got disconnected both times after waiting 45+ mins! So frustrating. I might try that Claimyr thing. Did they actually give you good info or just the generic stuff on the website?

The agent I spoke with was really helpful - gave me specific dates and dollar amounts based on different filing scenarios. Much more detailed than the generic website info. Just make sure you have your SSA statement handy when you call so you know your exact benefit amounts.

you dont get 50% of his 2800. you get 50% of his PIA minus your PIA. so if his PIA is 2800 and yours is 425, youd get 1400-425 = 975 as spousal. thats on top of your 425 so youd get 1400 total. but ya he has to file first thats the rule

Hmm, I'm confused now. So I'd get my $425 PLUS an additional amount to bring me up to 50% of his? I thought I just got 50% of his instead of my smaller amount?

It's essentially the same end result. You'll receive your own benefit of $425, plus an additional amount (the spousal benefit) to bring your total up to 50% of your husband's PIA. The SSA doesn't actually pay these as separate benefits - you'll just receive one monthly payment of $1,400 (assuming his PIA is $2,800).And yes, he must file for his benefits before you can receive any spousal benefits, regardless of your ages.

my sister waited til her husband filed at 62 even though he could of got more by waiting. they did it that way because she needed the money sooner and was 5 years older than him. she got less than if they waited but sometimes you just need the money now not later you know?

That's exactly my concern! Waiting until my husband reaches FRA means I'd be 70 by then. That's 11 years from now! We might need the money sooner than that. Do you know if your sister regrets having him file early?

she says its fine for them cause they have some savings too. but yeah if they waited she woulda got more. i think its all about if you need money now or can wait for more later

One important point that hasn't been mentioned: If your husband files early (before his FRA) so you can get spousal benefits sooner, he'll be subject to the earnings test if he's still working. In 2025, that means for every $2 he earns above $22,950 (approximate), $1 will be withheld from benefits. This applies until he reaches his FRA.Another consideration: If your husband files at 62 (taking a 30% reduction) and then passes away before you, your survivor benefit would be based on that reduced amount. If maximizing survivor benefits is important, having him wait until at least his FRA to file would be beneficial for you in the long term.This is why Social Security claiming strategies for couples are so complex - you need to consider both of your life expectancies, your current financial needs, and multiple benefit types (retirement, spousal, and eventual survivor benefits).

Wait, I thought survivor benefits weren't reduced if the person who died took benefits early? I read that somewhere...

You're partially right. If your spouse claimed benefits early and then passes away, you as a widow(er) can still wait until your FRA to get 100% of what your spouse would have received at their FRA. But if your spouse claimed early and received reduced benefits, the maximum survivor benefit you can receive is limited to the larger of: (1) the actual amount your deceased spouse was receiving, or (2) 82.5% of your deceased spouse's full retirement age benefit.So while you have some flexibility as a survivor, having your spouse claim early does place a ceiling on potential survivor benefits compared to if they had waited until FRA or later.

Thank you all SO much for these detailed explanations! I think I understand better now - my husband has to file first before I can get anything, and if we want maximum benefits, waiting until his FRA is best, but that means I'd be 70 by then. We'll need to consider if we want to maximize the monthly amount or start getting something sooner even if it's reduced.I'm going to talk this all over with my husband this weekend and then try calling SSA directly to get specific numbers for our situation. Hopefully I can actually reach someone! If not, I might try that Claimyr service someone mentioned.One last question - does my husband have to actually start receiving his benefits, or can he file and suspend so I can get spousal benefits while his continues to grow?

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